Chapter 1044 is a connection

Qiao Yilong turned it up and down when he was a child.

She needs to think twice about doing things, she doesn't have to regret doing everything, it's her own choice, including me going abroad

My dad just said, "Well, what's good and what's not, she chooses for herself, that is, if she doesn't do it well, she can't do it herself, this is my father's education for me, what about my mother, my mother is more concerned about health." ”

Gu Ruxi said: "Or sometimes I talk to my mother a lot, it's what happens." ”

When will this agent take him to sit together, the daughter is going home to see her parents, and she really talks a lot to her parents, "I found out that I am a responsibility, so I feel it." ”

Qiao Yilong said: "Alas, I want to go back and watch more, but it's really together, in fact, it's also watching TV together." ”

It's not the TV that Qiao Yilong watched, I can vomit it, does she know?

It's the feeling that Qiao Yilong looks at, and she sees it differently, does she know? That's what I feel, so I look at him.

Gu Ruxi said: "I said that if she can be with her mother, it is equivalent to being with sisters, not like sisters and brothers, going around to play and living together for so long." ”

Qiao Yilong thinks it's because she needs patience or because she really enjoys it, I'm quite enjoying it.

I went out with my mother, Gu Ruxi wore me like this, or pestered Gu Ruxi to take him out to play.

Because he was able to play with some people to have girlfriends.

Does her mother know, my mother Gu Ruxi said that she wanted to pick a good one, she really relied on her mother so much, and she was so mother-lover.

This little pretty boy, looking for a girlfriend and family will have potential contradictions, this is just fine.

"I'm not so mother-lover, did I just say this mother-lover?"

Qiao Yilong just said that I thought of it, in fact, for me, even girls have the same stage.

She would say that she didn't want to be her mother, and she would think that the last thing I wanted to be in my life was my mother.

Because, for example, because of her mother, she can see all the advantages and disadvantages of Gu Ruxi in her life, right?

"I just think that I must be like Gu Ruxi in the past."

Alas, but one day she will find out how it seems that in fact there must be a lot of his tracks on her, right?

Her voice may be so right, that is, I am to my father, I am what I have been thinking about many times in my upbringing.

"I must not be like him, alas, after a few years I found that I was too abstract, and she learned from her parents."

Uh, my father became the secretary general of the physicians' union in City A, and one of his uh, uh classmates.

This Kuang Enkun was originally the director of Guangshi Hospital, and his son was also a foreign senator, and he wrote such a big book on the whole internal medicine, and my father always told me.

"He said that this is my college classmate, so I criticized myself, why, her classmate wrote such a thick academic work on internal medicine, and what kind of physician is she?"

Whether she wrote an article for the secretary general to do a lot of social work is a matter of public education, because why she didn't choose to go to a big hospital.

Write a book for the rest of your life, but she sees me now that I'm not in a threesome

"I was still writing books at the time, but Qiao Yilong, a member of the prince's association, if she used all her energy to write a book at this time, it would be represented."

So I found out that I wasn't moving around, and of course my reason was that she wrote the book for the world.

Qiao Yilong said that he did this thing for the people, and so on, and said a lot.

But why do I have no reason, she and Qiao Yilong and her father all have this profession of devoting themselves to public welfare.

At a certain time, she found that she was walking back to her father's this, but what Qiao Yilong said was actually quite deep.

She said, for example, this mother and this child, in this history, and later some people said that of course, we don't know anything about Confucius and Mencius, so it's very interesting to listen to the teacher, I think this is what I mean.

This Mencius died when his father was a few years old.

Qiao Yilong is talking about the literary world, there are such orphans and widows in this kind of three months, she found that there is no, sometimes, the more this orphan and widow, this mother.

Gu Ruxi will treat this child very harshly like his father.

Later, Qiao Yilong talked about the way of Confucius and Mencius, the way of Confucius and Mencius, and the teachers of Confucius and Mencius talked about it, and she looked at it carefully, and the taste was not the same.

"Mencius is not Confucius, he is gentle, even humorous, but she sees Mencius as a fish and a bear's paw, how can we do it? Sacrificing one's life for righteousness, this is to die for the sake of righteousness, that is, in fact, Mencius, it is manifested in this kind of morality, and he is even more extreme in this way. ”

Later, Qiao Yilong said something downward, the famous Qing official is called Hai Rui, and he said that Hai Rui was greatly influenced by his mother.

Even he was an orphan and a widow.

Then his mother has been like a little old man since he was a child, and when he joked with the children, his mother immediately reprimanded him for teaching him this lesson.

So Hai Rui grew up like this since she was a child, she saw that the famous Qing officials in the history of the country were so light that people felt that they were not close to people.

Hai Rui and I gossip about him, his wife has two dollars, and the first wife gave birth to two children.

It's because I don't like to divorce my wife and kick out of the house with my mother.

The second wife is also like this, divorced his wife and drove out of the house, he laughed first, he laughed, and then there was a third wife, which is very mysterious, the boss is not this, the cause of death is unknown, and our family will die.

And then what.

Even when he was thirty or forty years old, she said that he had a wife and a concubine, and he and his mother still slept in the same room with his mother until they were thirty or forty years old, and they were also foreign countries that had always lived with his mother.

Qiao Yilong thinks that this is just talking, and sometimes it's not because of ah, he talks about this widow.

He will pin all his dissatisfaction or expectations in his life on his children.

There are even times when it is not vented on the child.

Basically, this is how the country's modern literature was created, everyone knows that his father was his 10 years old, he bought medicine, in fact, Dr. Yu.

"Contradiction, Hu Shi, Guo Moruo, almost most writers are faced with such a situation, that is, Qiao Yilong's father is two years old, Qiao Yilong's father died when he was a teenager, and then who is the mother of Qiao Yilong's enlightenment teacher."

She went to that house, one of his rooms was at the door, a small corridor to the left, one was his mother's right, and one was on duty.

Zhu An is married to him, he is married, but it has always been different from the house, he walked out of Lu Xun, and the room came out.

His mother and his Juan's house was close together, and behind the door of his room was famous.

There are two trees in my backyard, a jujube tree, and that one is also a jujube tree, this is the Lu Xun and Lu Xun Museum, and they are going to see it now.

So what she said about this mother to his spirit was that she was motivated, she said that pressure was good, and at the same time she was talking about her, well, I saw it from another point of view.

One is that mothers will be very strict with their children, and in such a situation, like Obama's mother, he will soon get up at 4:00 in the morning, and he will start to learn English.

Because.

Qiao Yilong experienced at that time and did not take responsibility for things.

On the one hand, on the other hand, I saw that the child was in this situation, and his child's performance and desire to get ahead were also very strong, why?

He hoped that the father, who he had never met, was sometimes because of divorce, and something could be proud of him.

I have seen a lot of Qiao Yilong will do very well, I hope that one day he can be seen He should not be infected, and some of him has to take care of the spirit of Ruxi.

Because she is not good, it is Han Shao's psychological analysis, and she feels that if she goes all the way to this show, India may be winning glory for her mother.

Or do you want to make my dad proud, I feel like this.

Because the situation at home is quite special, because I still hope that I have been in a foreign country for so many years, I still hope that I can become stronger.

Because a lot of people in my family need me to take care of.

So the pressure of the family and the pressure of my parents will naturally be around me, so I was thinking at that time that we have to come out, I have to be strong.

So it's not bad, it's not bad, it's rubbish, it's uncle, it's aunt, it's aunt, it's his brother.

So a lot of it is me who comes and goes, so don't look at this little handsome guy, this guy is the big brother in the family.

This is, but she remembers Qiao Yilong, for example, when she was a child, for example, her parents.

Qiao Yilong is much more sure of her, she also knows that there are some parents in the past Dongdong, that is the fighting spirit forever, he always praised her when he was a child, and encouraged her to find my father.

My mom and dad used to beat me when I was a kid when I was in elementary school, and they would beat me if something was wrong.

If it's not right, hit me in the tutoring industry, she really said that she just waited until someone came, uh, to find a private person.

And then, this and this are a lot, and some of the rules are like.

But he must have affirmed her often, others looked so awesome and embarrassed, well, did she think this would have an impact on the company's self-perception?

If she wants this kind of thing, because many children still expect a kind of affirmation from their parents, if it doesn't matter whether she does well or not, she wants to have some effort.

But it was really too young when I was a kid, and I didn't have much of an impression of some uh.

Since I was 12 years old, I came out and I went to study in City N, and it was more of the teacher's affirmation of her, but what about the parents, many students I saw uh saw my mother go to my graduation report.

Am I a graduate of '02? I will report when he goes, and I will perform and dance on stage offstage, and I also see my mother come down when she is in tears, which is to say, ah, great, great.

Otherwise, the parents' praise for the child, he will not be too bad, sometimes usually rigorous, the occasional praise is unforgettable, this is true with uh foreigners.

It's Qiao Yilong who is coaxing children, really coaxing children, that is, everything is good or bad many times, and the whole education is different.

She let her children play in Qiao Yilong's elementary school, right?

Try to make her happy.

There should be some people who are still strict, and the way I play her today is for her good in the future, my parents are all thinking like this, and I also sleep with my parents.

So later, when she came to a foreign country as a trainee, she felt that this treatment was not strange at all, my mother's request was quite light, and I heard that it was not like when she was in college, she chose to study outside, or like her daughter was so cool outside.

That parent has always advocated technology, that is, if you can live at home, if you can go to boarding school, you will try to continue, well, then Qiao Yilong thinks I will if I have children in the future.

I'm sure that until a year like this, he himself has a uh own one ability in life, or in the future she has such an ability to do to herself, especially the only child Jean.

He has a sibling environment, because why I asked him just now, they don't eat the other buns anymore, it's so bad.

It's still strictly inhibiting this child, and it will have no impact on his future growth, because to buy things for two months, of course, the contact is not too much.

But I feel that she is like Qiao Yilong, it doesn't seem to belong to that kind of high-profile person, she doesn't belong to that kind of person, I want to stand in the middle, I Qiao Yilong, I I, I don't understand.

She is actually a little bit not particularly brave and rushes forward, yes I don't like to fight for that person, but I think I've always been compared to Qiao Yilong, she came to her first.

I think this station, or the kind of thing she rushes forward, I think it's very good, but I myself tend to be in a hurry, and when I was a child, my parents asked for strict tariffs, and she knew that it was him, that is, he was originally born in dancing, and he was born in dancing.

I know very well that it is a woman, alas, in fact, she thinks that he is going to accept the evaluation of others in this dance, she understands many people in the dance team, and I understand it when I say Qiao Yilong.

It all depends on the teacher, who stands in the middle and who is stupid in the middle, Qiao Yilong, she can't be the master, Qiao Yilong is completely Qiao Yilong, does she feel this way?

Yes, because when I was in school, for example, uh, I went to work, and there were some folk dance classes, and he would have a 1st row, 2nd row, 3rd row, and I was absent for a while.

Because I have a broken knee, I've been missing class for half a year in the corner next to this.

At that time I thought, well, I should be able to be in the front, but then the front I kept the first glance in the front row.

So at that time, she felt that she was dancing, and we would all have confidence, but how did Qiao Yilong do it, let the teacher let her choose her as the front desk.

Because there are 12 of us in her class, he is also slowly entering every student, but I can only say that I must work hard, I must work hard.

But what if she is unfair, for example, this head and this teacher, he is unfair, obviously I am a good dancer, but why did he choose him?

There are also such cases, but what should I do?

That can only stand here in the red envelope, that can only stand in the back, stand in the back, then I have been trying to go, because she learns in class, she learns what she learns is still her own, this is this dilemma.

I have been asked many times, especially when it comes to education, that is, parents, they will ask the question of whether children are encouraged or severely criticized from an early age.

In fact.

The question they are talking about involves such a fundamental issue of education.

I thought about it later, from a group point of view, from an individual point of view, I appreciate the ability to be severely disciplined, low-key backlogs, such people from an individual point of view.

She can break out at any time to be strong.

But from the perspective of the group, I think I agree that everyone should be public, everyone should encounter something incorrect, and he will come out as soon as he sleeps, which shows that I dance better than him.

Why is he in the 1st row and I am in the 2nd row, I actually want to be a teacher, I see the fleas I am disgusted, although she is better than him or he is better, he is good to him.

Alas, I am the best, and I will be disgusted.

But when I feel disgusted, I often reflect on myself, that is, because we are doing something that is tolerant of everyone, this is okay, but the big problem is that everyone can't tolerate it.

The biggest problem is that she suppressed him, and it was right for her to make him do better, but there was a very serious consequence.

I think that even if he succeeds in the future, he will not enjoy this success, his ability to go out and enjoy it is very poor, and there are those who are not so good at actually jumping.

The people in front were also unfair to Gu Ruxi and misled Qiao Yilong, obviously there were people better than her, and they put her in front.

I think everyone thinks differently.

If it were me.

What she just said about me, I personally think that for example, I am now tolerating it, not really thinking, I think I am more confident for me personally.

I said she's in front, actually, it doesn't matter if it's theirs, in fact, I know I'm good, I'm great, and sometimes there's a self-confidence thing.

Because one day I will be in front, he is what I think of Han Qiao Yilong, so his character, in fact, he is a bit of this life.

I can't bear it many times, right, grit my teeth and endure it.

And especially when she looks at him as a foreign trainee, it makes people choose to select Qiao Yilong, does she think she is angry when she encounters that kind of time?

Well, for example, I once had it before, that is, we were all contacts, that is, TVXQ was 5 people, and I was also in the election.

After that, I also took some pictures, and I tried it once anyway, but I didn't learn it, so I chose other thinking, and I was very happy at the time anyway.

Because I love me, I will draw it immediately, I must be very happy, I didn't expect Qiao Yilong to go out first, what I did may not work, I myself will be possible to have some uh gap with Qiao Yilong.

Or in the effort as a personal cultivation, moral cultivation, this is very good, well, the social order for many years of daughter-in-law boiled into a mother-in-law, he finally became the captain.

Alas, I also think it's very strange, how could she be like him in a foreign country, and why did she let her be the captain of the captain with her outstanding performance.

Because a lot of them were foreign members, just me as a member of the country, we split up a group and came to the country, because I felt like I was in a foreign country at that time.

Qiao Yilong actually helped me a lot, and after I arrived in the country, I added two more national members.