20201017 Have a good chat on Saturday

At 5 o'clock in the morning, I woke up, said good morning to the eldest brother-in-law in the group, and later sent a few suns to the little prince.

At 7 o'clock, he said, good morning, kiss.

I said, I'm mopping the floor.

He asked me what time my home visit was, and I said that I would go to Qingxin's house at half past eleven to finish dinner.

He said how to go to her house for dinner

I voiced and said, "Let's eat together, and Arjun drove the child to her house, and then drove us to visit the house."

He said, "Okay, you eat eggplant for breakfast?"

I said, yes, I'm going to put this floor with a cloth in the morning. Wipe it with your own hands, it's a little cleaner

He said, "How long will you wipe it like this?" ）

I said, "Probably another half an hour."

He typed the voice, only the ceiling, and then it was all black. Said he was doing the laundry.

My feeling is that I'm busy with my own business, hanging up on the phone, not paying attention at all.

After saying a few words, I think it's clean or something.

I said, I'm busy, let's talk about it later.

He said, okay.

After 8:05, I said I'm going to do the laundry

He said, "Okay." I guess I can't see you anymore

I said, some people say that the best time is not a busy time. It's time to put down what you're busy with. Even if it's only for a while. (You don't call me during the laundry.) ）

He called, laughing.

I'm taking the oats and saying the company is finished.

He said, "Will it expire?"

I said, no. This persimmon is left to you.

So we sat down and chatted until 8:20, talking about Cheng Cheng or something.

The phone ran out of battery, I charged it, and he started to lower his head again to buy a small maza.

I said, I'm going out.

He said, OK.

I was at home, measuring the size of the table and chairs, and it was not until half past nine that I told him to set off.

He said, how to go

I said, bikes

He said, it's weird (to share a fun thing with you)

I said, nothing to do, ride a bike (what's so strange, you're absent-minded, can I not find something?) ）

He said that a small ear inexplicably appeared behind the name of the WeChat chat interface

I said, ask Du Niang?

He said, OK. Oh, not now

I said, yes.

I'm typing: It's a little cold today (talk about something else)

He's typing: he says, don't look at your phone when you're riding. (End chat)

I chuckled inwardly.

He immediately replied: Do you want to go back and add a piece of clothing?

I said, no (I won't reply.) ）

He called the video and said look what you're wearing

I was picking up the car and said I was wearing a sweater. (He thought I was on it early, but it was cold when he was riding.) ）

He said, don't you ride, isn't it good to do public transportation?

I said, no. I'm going to ride.

He said, "Then you can ride." You don't listen to anything.

I said, I'll just hang up on my bike.

He said, "Then hang up."

Qingxin was also worried that I was tired from riding, so I took a screenshot and posted it in the group, saying that I could take the bus, but the bus was far away, so it was better to ride. Ye Ye is looking forward to me coming. I am happy.

Navigating all the way, riding, I suddenly had an idea in my heart and wanted to talk to him.

I sent a voice, several in a row.

1. I think it's two points, one point is that the video doesn't have too much time, but the video should concentrate on talking to the other party and let go of the things in hand. The second point is like how to get there, cycling or busing, these are small things, don't be unhappy if you don't agree. Sister Qingxin is worried that I am tired, not that you can ride me or something, it's fine. I think the tone in which the little prince and I talk is really different from others, and I don't know what's going on, but it's often like this anyway, and I really don't understand.

2. We would say give the best time to the Lord. It's not a time when I'm bored, read the Bible, pray or anything like that. Instead, I feel that this time period is the most pure, suitable for two people to chat. If not, just send a text and be busy. After all, when you are busy, the other party can't help, can't interject, and keeps delaying the other party's time. It's better to have a good chat when you have time.

3. Actually, I've always been a chatterbox, but I feel that others are absent-minded, so I don't want to say it, there will be two extremes. (It's not that I don't want to say it, I don't have anything to say, it's that I don't think you want to hear it, so I don't want to say it.) From now on, I'll also be scheduled to do my own thing. (Don't worry I'll stick to you or something.) ）

4. Actually, you know that I am a very young child, (you used to like it very much, and thought it was very simple) but now you think it is a shortcoming, but I will always be myself. I love children and play with them all the time. The part that should grow will also grow, but it will also be very fast when it returns to the child's side. I'll still have a lot of fun seeing Ye Ye. (Actually, if you treat me like a child, I'll be happy.) It's so simple to make me happy.,But you said you forgot how to tease me.。。 The main thing is to make yourself happy, don't think about these trivialities. (I'll go find my happiness, if we're not happy, I'll just forget.) ）

5. Actually, I'd rather you be busy for several days, but when it comes to video, even if it's only for a few minutes, you're attentive. That's good.

6. (Don't say you've always been like this, or treat everyone like this) When you video with your family, you turn off the TV, and you don't talk while shopping, although the conversation is trivial, you are still very focused. I think it's a good state, but it only seems to appear in group chats. I had an idea that maybe the two of us just had to text. When you video, be happy, a few minutes is fine, but be happy.

7. While I am riding, my brain will remember some things one after another, if you feel uncomfortable listening to it, you can forget it. (It's not a big deal.) ）

8. There is also concern and chaos. It's like riding a bike in the morning, if I tell Chenchen that we'll ride together. He's going to say, yes, you're going to ride so far. When I get to you, give me a sentence, you give me a bus, and you are disobedient, right? I felt that the little prince was becoming more and more fond of commanding for me. Actually, it's really not necessary, just let me do it, it's okay. Or like a pure heart, it's not tired. If I say it's okay, you can do it with me. It's very comfortable that way. Another example is mopping the floor, I know you will find it very hard to say this, you can change the angle and think of the good aspects and say, that place must be clean. If you talk to me like a child, both of you will be very happy (no need to discipline me, order me) but now that you are slowly becoming very human, (pay attention to the image or something) I thought, then talk less, lest you feel bad about it.

9. You tell me, I don't talk, you live a monotonous life, how can you talk to me about the topic. Actually, I think when you call your family, it's not just them who lead the topic first, but more that the little prince tells them about the two of us. So it's a pleasure to say. Why do you come to me, you must come to me, and ask me to arouse your interest first

10. I think it may have something to do with the way home is raised. You are always reprimanded in front of your family, and when you come to me, you often reprimand me for being wrong. Could it be that there is a deficiency in one aspect and you want to make up for the other? I don't understand. No matter what I do in our family, I feel that I am doing well, and it doesn't matter if I don't do well, just let me be. At the beginning, the little prince lectured me, and I thought it was novel, but after more than that, I got used to everyone respecting each other and accepting the state that both can be done.

He called, I didn't dare to answer, but I still answered, sure enough, I didn't talk well, I went to the wrong place, he said I didn't know that I was a road idiot, so I dared to ride there.

I said that I was good, and he said to go with them.

I said that I was looking for me, and he said that if you dare to hang up, you will go with them.

Talk about collapse. Hung up first.

I said, if I post these things, you don't want to hear them, think I'm complaining? No, I just feel that there are some thoughts in my heart that need to be said, if you feel that it is a burden, then I will not talk about it in the future, that's all.

He said, I don't have any ideas, if you think something is feasible, I will think it is OK, I think it is not feasible, I will tell you what you want to do. You listen to me, will I command you? If you don't listen, I'll use the command line, because I don't think it's feasible, you're going to get tired, you're going to be uncomfortable, but you think I'm not romantic enough, not like I used to be.

I said, disagree with me, just order me?? When someone in the family disagrees with you, do you command them? No, in your heart, elders are elders, I am me, not a grade.

He said, didn't you just talk about putting the keys that night, and when there was a difference of opinion.

I said, you instinctively, subconsciously you listen to them, and when you come to me, you feel that I have to listen to you. Even if it's a small matter like putting a key, when they disagree with you, you will still compromise, so if you assume that I disagree with you, you will definitely fight to the end. Even if you ride a bike, you will end up unhappy. Actually, I insisted on riding, so I just rode it, and it wasn't that hard.

He said, I'm telling you, these two are not the same thing. You do things to reassure me, I won't let you do it. Is this called compromise? Tell me, is this called a compromise? You tell me with a word compromise, right, are these two the same thing?

I said, you talk to me, talk to them, it's never the same thing, you and they are very solemn and focused, and you are very casual with me, and the tone will not be the same.

He said, you are my wife, I am not casual with you, who am I going with at will? Tell me

I said, have you ever thought that your casualness gives people the feeling that you are really casual, and you don't have the feeling of taking me to heart.

He said, why didn't I take you to heart, I didn't take you to heart, you said a cold, I asked you to go back and add clothes immediately? I didn't take you to heart, I was worried about the cold outside, I let you go by bus? What do you ask me to do, if you say cold, I'll fly over to you and bring you clothes? If you want to ride a bike, I'll ride with you right away, do you think I'm okay now?

He called directly, didn't want to type, and the conversation was about this direction, plus I kept riding in the wrong direction.

He said, "Have you ever cared about me?" Did you ask me if I was doing well? I don't tease you, have you teased me? I called you, did you call me

I said, to be honest, I don't fight for his good. If I call, you won't be able to answer.

He's just, you're the Mother of Everything.

I said, don't use the word Tik Tok to describe me. I'm playing waiting. Round-the-clock waiting. Do you think it's hard to drive, or it's hard to wait for a car.

And he said, "Okay, you are great." You're working hard. You miss me, I don't miss you.

I said, "That's the truth."

He said, where did so many big truths come from?

I said, this is your sister's exact words, and you always use it to talk about me. I asked myself, that's it, I even kept watching the WeChat movement waiting.

And he said, Are you keeping me under surveillance?

I said, OK, I won't look at it again, my starting point has never been to spy on you, but to wait for one day, as soon as you get your phone, you will send me a message, and I will tell you that I am still at work. You're not right now, you're scared to call me.

He said, you don't trust me like this, and you call you because you think I'm having fun outside.

I said, yes.

He said, "Okay, don't call after that."

I said, okay, stop fighting. Anyway, the chat is casual and shows a forehead.

He said, I show my forehead, you love to take screenshots, don't you know

I said, okay, I won't take screenshots in the future, what kisses and hugs, take photos and screenshots, there won't be any.

He said, you're so extreme. I'm here to draw your attention to the image on the outside. If I tell you something, you will say that I will discipline you.

I said, there are some things, big or small, there is no need, just follow the other party, is it necessary to train

He said, how many times have I said about the screenshot.

I said, don't mention it again, I won't take screenshots again.

He said that there were fewer calls and said that I would not call.

I said, do I still have to say that I play less? I'll let you fight less, but at least you have to concentrate

He said, "I admit it's not good. But what's the point of comparing yourself to your family. Is it comparable

I said, no, it's definitely not comparable

He said, yes, that's how you think, that's why you have so many things. I always feel like I can't compare. You don't know how good I am to you and how many calls I make to you every day

I said, don't say that again, no. Not so much now. Time and quality are two lines. Besides, there is a lot of chat in the group

He said, "You're not happy if I call them too much." What not to call after nine o'clock. You posted a message in your group, did I say anything?

I said, it's okay, you can call them more in the future, I should go to bed and sleep.

He said, "How much have I fought with you, how many have you beaten me." Ask your girlfriends if their husbands call them often

I said, more than the top is less than the bottom. Don't say it again, I didn't call you, it's all for your good.

He said, I thank you for being so good to me.

I said, don't I mean two things today? You call a little more focused, and then look at things a little bit more complimentary. You're so upset.

He said, okay, okay, in the future, I will be respectful in front of you, okay, you can do whatever you like.

I said, "Whatever you want, so do you want, whatever you want." ay

He said, "I beg you, leave me to fend for myself."

I hung up.

I said, I have never said such a thing to you, please ignore me, leave me and so on. What I'm talking about is that when you chat, focus on the good direction, and you sneer in the bad direction, what's the point?

He said, I won't praise you, you're not happy, don't call you, you're not happy. I'm calling you and I'm glancing at something else, you're not happy, what do you want me to do? You can be happy, wholeheartedly, focus on you, you will be happy, you will be happy, I am also a human being, my attention will also be scattered.

I said, I repeat, I won't be upset if you don't call me. You don't have to focus on me, you just think about it, and when you send me a video, your attention will be on those few minutes. What would you like to say at the rest of the time? You can send a voice or a text, or a picture, and if you don't have what you want to say, you don't need to send it, it doesn't matter

He said, my family is my family, you don't want to see me, you don't want to see me, please don't compare my family with yourself, the two are not comparable, and don't say how I treat my family and you, there is no need. I've never compared you to your family, I didn't say how you treat your family, I haven't compared you to me, I haven't compared you to me, it's hurtful, you know?

I said, okay, okay, I'm definitely not able to compare with them, and I will never compare again

He said, the hurdle in your heart that you can't get over is how I treat my family, I don't treat you as well as my family, you always compare this, I have compared you with your family, these two are not comparable, you have to compare like this.

He is still posting: You must not be able to compare to them, this is the fixed thinking pattern in your heart, so what else do you want me to tell you? You can't get out of this bull's horn, what else do you want me to tell you?

I said, I know, I know, I can't compare to them, and I have to tell you, and then you are a xx man. It will be sad. No matter what you say, you can still bear it, and just mention the word family, and you will definitely jump.

He said, why do you want xx, don't you just say Ma Bao Nan? I'll tell you it, I'm satisfied.

We're all going to post it.

I said, I don't think I dare to tell you some inner thoughts in the future, because every time you finish speaking, you are very angry, you don't think calmly, and then just reply. When I express my thoughts, I just talk about it very calmly, and you will definitely be aroused, so what can I say? The more things are said, the more they are added. It's all useless, in fact, you only need to send a few texts or voices, so you can be the least tempered. I haven't said those three words yet, and you're angry, and you say that I do it, what does it feel like for others to hear it? If you say I'm like this, then you can only be like that. It's a good match. If you don't want to reply, I won't go back, it's up to you whether you want to come back at night or not

We ate and then set off for home visits, all the while posting photos to the group. Except when you're going back.

At 4:10, I was reading as a couple. A little soft-hearted, and talk to him.

I said, "Little Prince, will you come back in the evening?" I'm sorry, I shouldn't have told you this in the morning. If you speak differently to me, it's because of your special status. If you don't come back, I'm not going back to make dinner. Eat a little outside

He said, "Arrange your own affairs."

I said, okay, if you don't come back, if you don't come back, then I won't go back at night. If you have the heart, you can study together, and if you don't have time, you don't need it.

And he said, See for yourselves

I said, yes. Then you don't have to come back (handshake)

He said, "If you want to come back, come back, if you don't want to come back, don't come back."

I said, okay.

Needless to say, he said, I don't want to come back

I realized that he meant to come back.

He said, "My itinerary will basically tell you on Monday, and you don't have any demerits yourself."

I said, I prepared the dishes I cooked in the morning. It turned out to be messed up. I wanted to chat, but the conversation collapsed (I want you to come back, too.) ）

He said, no, it's my problem, you're okay, you're perfect

I said, "Glass hearts and works." That's what you think is my problem.

He said, I was wrong, okay, you're right, it's all my fault.

I said, okay. I don't say anything about this tone.

After five minutes, I said, then I will sleep outside at night, you are impatient, I will go back to Fujian on a cloudy day, and this state is not good for gathering and studying couples and so on

He said, "What shall I say?" Go wherever you like

I said, okay, I'd better go and rent a place outside, let's break up

And he said, "You said it."

I said, yes. I love to go wherever I go

He said, "Don't push me."

I said, whatever you want, alas, I'm just whatever

He said, then you can do whatever you want, you can go home, or you don't go back, or go back to Fujian, anyway, you have your sisters and brothers wherever you go, which is very good (he must have thought that I had sued someone else and lived in someone's house)

I said, "What do you say brothers and sisters do?"

He said, if you don't do anything, it's just instinctively unhappy

I said, I wanted to talk to you in the morning because you were chatting casually. I knew it was going to collapse.

He said, yes, so it's all my problem, okay, so you have the right not to go home now. You can go wherever you want, I don't have the right to ask.

I said, forget it. It is useless to say more. You told me not to bother you in the morning. I'm so scared of you right now.

He said, yes, I begged you, you are so obedient, I will do whatever I tell you to do

I said, no. So the timing is not right.

He said, there is no wrong, I am too good at it, you are fine, you are perfect, I am not worthy of you

I said, what I want to express is that you don't have to be afraid to call me, I won't take up too much of your time. But on the phone, concentrate and have fun. Like calling the queen mother, talk and laugh

He said, I shouldn't have called you absent-mindedly. Yes, every time I call you, I have a straight face, I'm sorry for you. I don't love you, I love my family more. I'm just a mommy boy. You're satisfied, and I'll help you say what you don't want to say

I said, since you can't say it, I won't say it. Maybe in your heart, I'm not an elder and can't talk about you, so you will jump up as soon as you say it

He said, after all this, you still have to compare with my parents, is it comparable? You are my wife, they are my parents, how do you let me choose, how to compare

He's still typing; According to your intentions, with you, I have to get rid of my family and my sister

I said, I didn't let you choose, but let you treat me like that. No, my sister and my parents will always be my sister's parents, and my brothers and sisters will always be my brothers and sisters. The relationship does not have to be maintained in particular, but the husband and wife are different

He said, don't call after nine o'clock, this rule and that condition, what did you say about this news and that video in your family group. Did you say to me about not contacting me after nine o'clock on the video at home, why do you ask me like this?

I said, (I was on video for a few minutes at nine o'clock yesterday, (although I failed) I have only been chatting with the group today, all to be angry with you. Because I don't have anyone to talk to, I can only send it to my family. Because I can't find you to speak, I just want to talk to you after nine o'clock, and if you don't talk, I can only talk to someone who doesn't bother me.

He said, "That's why you think I'm annoyed with you." Well, I won't explain it, you won't listen to it anyway, so take it as such

I said, alas. The queen mother can understand, only you are obsessed with it, because you are filial

He said, hehe, I am filial, how filial I am, no, how filial you are

I said, I can't get to the point by talking like that.

Then let's not talk about it, he said

I said, my sister and I can go hand in hand for dinner. But your chat falls apart in the spot. Because you're embarrassed to look at. This may be what my sister said about pulling hatred. A good pair of sisters.

He said, so, I'm sorry, I'm holding you back, okay, then you can talk, I won't be involved in the future, I'm just a fool

I said, you're not in a good mood.

He said, no, I'm smooth. I'll be back later in the evening, you can do your own thing, and leave me alone.

I said, I was thinking, in the past, many people envied me, laughing and talking at night, and other calls were not available, they all hung up. Now I'm talking to them, and they don't have time, so I'm going to talk to the little prince.

I knew what it was like for me to hang up on them in the first place.

I don't have much to do. Now go to the company and sit down, I'm afraid you'll be angry in person. So unless you are calm, you should go to peace with each other.

After eating, I went back to the company to print something. Then there was a knock on the door and I was startled.

Here comes the little prince.

He said, you like to treat the company, right, it perfectly interprets the company as my home. Okay, I'll stay with you.

I said, I'm printing something. He ordered takeout and asked me to eat, and I ate, (I had dinner.) I left a big bowl to take home.

He said, "Why keep it, it's gone." It's like excess love.

I said, you're so funny. Walk or not.

When he didn't leave, I locked the door and opened it again.

So the two of them chatted.,The content is probably repetitive.,Plus expand.,

For example, he said that he was a tool man for making laughs. Laughing is willing, I thought, I said it, he didn't want to.

He said that after two months of marriage, so many of our big and small differences were exposed

I said, I already knew, but I didn't say, I have to wait until I get married.

So, after getting married, these things start to show up, he said.

I said, it's nothing. It's normal.

For example, he said that the elders respected, and it was wrong to say that I was training the emperor Amma

I said, if you are wrong, you will be trained, and all personalities will be equal, and I will do the same at home.

He talked about the equality and inequality of my family and something.

Then he pulled up the bride price, his brother's house or something.

Then he said that I was a top student, and he couldn't say anything about me. My sister and I were embarrassed to die by him. And he's the reason, the two of us are very good.

He said that he would not intervene between us in the future, and that he would call to avoid anything.

I'm annoyed to sleep. He's leaving, let me go.

So I took the courier and he pushed the cart. Drenched in the drizzle, I walked all the way back.

He still said all the way, I forgot what it was now. I just know that I keep shedding tears.

When I got home, I didn't wash up, and I secretly shed tears, but he was still angry. Talk to me and say you want to solve the problem.

I said, no problem.

Otherwise, he said, it will be like this next time.

When he saw that I was ignoring him, he said, "Go and sleep." I don't sleep anymore.

He's going to stay up late outside. When he went out, I went to make my bed underground

He guessed it, and within a minute, he came in and found out, saying that I like to sleep on the floor, right, I won't compromise because of sleeping on the floor.

I say, it's sharing weal and worn.

He said, "Now you know what we've been through to you."

He said that he had indeed listened to his family for so long, but after getting to know me, he would tell me everything.

I said sleepy

He said, "Then you can sleep." Cast pearls before swine.

I asked him if he wanted to sleep, said he had a headache, and asked him if it hurt.

He said, neuropathy.

I said, forget it, you get out.

He started talking about a few points, 1, he didn't call me, it didn't mean, he didn't want me. 2Don't compare him with others or with your family. 3. Don't think of his family with my family.

I found that if I had to pretend to be asleep and not listen to him, he would be angry and disappointed. If I couldn't understand what he said, he was also very sad. So, I asked him to summarize these three central points.

I gave him a quilt, but he didn't want it. To throw it back. I hugged him, he didn't want it, I took it, and went out to stand and watch him.

He said, "What are you doing with the pestle?"

I said, look at why you're so excited (and it's my fault)

He said, what are you doing with a pestle.

I said, forget it.

I came in and prayed, and the door was open.

He came in, and I turned around.

He said, "Do you want to go up to sleep?"

I said, do you want to sleep?

He said, "I'll ask you again, do you want to go to sleep."

I said, "If you sleep, I'll sleep."

He hammered the door panel and said, "Do you want to go up and sleep?"

I was scared, laughed, stood up and hugged him, and started crying, saying, why do we love each other so much, but it is so difficult to communicate. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I should have cared more about you.

The little prince also relented, saying that he would return to the way he used to chase me.

So he began to talk about how important etiquette was, how complicated his family was, and the three families of the emperor and the queen mother.

The mosquito bit him, so we went hand in hand to light the electric mosquito coil, turned off the lights and continued to listen to the story.

He said, "I want to talk about the past, but you say you're not interested."

I said, I said that sentence that day, there was a background, okay. Because you look down at your phone, we should have enjoyed the game.

I heard it about 1 o'clock, and the two of them fell asleep with their arms in their arms.

Have a good chat. Good chat.