63. I am not enough to talk about life
I wanted to convey my and Xu Yijing's conjectures to Lin Su as tactfully and with room for improvement, but the expression became stumbling because of this, and Lin Su couldn't understand the essentials.
Xu Yijing really couldn't listen to it anymore, and she couldn't care about any in-depth questions, so she took over the conversation and said to Lin Xu: "Do you have any plans and plans for your marriage now?" ”
Lin Su glanced at me, and I hurriedly said: "I'm sorry, I didn't know what to do with what I saw after I came back from Bali, so I asked Xu Yijing's opinion, so she also knew." ”
"Oh." Lin Su was not displeased, but smiled at Xu Yijing a little embarrassedly, "Let you see you laugh." ”
"There's nothing to laugh at, it's not your fault." Xu Yijing said, her tone to Lin Su was very gentle, and she smiled slightly, "Since the matter has happened, in fact, there is no point in dwelling on right and wrong, I think you should consider your own interests more now." ”
Lin Xu was stunned, "What do you mean...... Should I get a divorce? ”
"You haven't considered divorce?" I asked.
"I thought about it." She sighed slightly, "I've been thinking about it almost every day since you last showed me the picture. But I couldn't bear to watch the child play with her father, clapping her little hands and calling her father. After all, the child is still young, and I think it is important for the child to have a complete home. As long as I can live my life, I can endure it for the sake of my children. ”
"Do you think that children can't live without their fathers, so are you afraid that children won't have mothers?" Xu Yijing is still Xu Yijing in the end, although her tone is gentle, but the words she asks are not gentle at all.
Lin Su frowned and looked at Xu Yijing, "What do you mean?" ”
"If you want to endure, what about your husband?" Xu Yijing continued to ask, "Your in-laws took the child, have you ever wondered if they will no longer bring the child back?" If your husband files for divorce from you at this time, what do you think are your chances of winning to win custody of the child? Have you ever wondered what you would do if you didn't get custody and couldn't see your children? ”
I saw that Lin Su's face had changed, so I quietly pulled Xu Yijing, wanting her to take it easy. Xu Yijing sighed and said to me, "Don't be tactful anymore." What's the point of a side knock on the side of the wind and drizzle? If her in-laws just take the children back to their hometown to play for two days this time, then we should be worried, just treat us as bad people, villains, all right! So what if it's not? ”
"I'm sorry." Xu Yijing said to Lin Xu: "We just met for the first time today, and we ...... talking about this."
Lin Su waved his hand, and the whole person looked a little distracted, neither looking at me nor Xu Yijing, I didn't know what I was thinking. After a while, Lin Su suddenly stood up with his bag, his voice trembling a little, "Thank you for coming and telling me this today, I ...... I'll go first. After saying that, he picked up the coat that was on the back of the chair and turned to leave.
Xu Yijing hurriedly pushed me, "Go quickly, let her not be impulsive!" I check out. ”
I hurriedly chased after Lin Xu and grabbed Lin Su at the door of the restaurant, "Why are you going?" ”
"I asked my in-laws to bring the baby back."
"Wait a minute."
"I can't wait!" Lin Su's voice suddenly became a little louder. The waiter passing by glanced over here, I smiled at him apologetically, still pulling Lin Su, "I know you're in a hurry, but this matter is not something that can be solved in a hurry." If you run back so impulsively, you're probably going to make things worse. ”
"So what do I do? If things are really as Xu Yijing said, then what should I do! Lin Su was very emotional, her voice became louder and louder, and she cried.
What to do? I don't know what to do. Holding her hand, I felt that her hand was trembling, cold and cold.
Xu Yijing rushed over after settling the account, stuffed my coat and bag into my hands, and then put his arm around Lin Su's shoulders, "Let's go, let's go out first." Put it another way. ”
I followed behind and put on my clothes in a panic, thinking that I was fortunate to let Xu Yijing come with me today, otherwise I would follow the chaos of Lin Xu. I will never be able to be Xu Yijing's crispness and calmness.
It was dark, the wind was cold, and the three of us didn't know where to go, so we just went back to my car. Lin Su may have been more scared the more he thought about it along the way, and tears fell as soon as he got into the car. Xu Yijing took a tissue and handed it to her, and said, "In fact, Su Mi and I don't know much about these things, so I suggest that you find a professional lawyer to consult first, they have seen a lot, and the advice they give will be more practical." ”
Lin Xu cried and said: "I can do nothing, I will leave the house, even if I give him all my money and all my property, I just want my daughter, I only want my daughter." ”
"Sumi and I both understand." Xu Yijing said, "So, your husband must also understand." ”
Lin Su suddenly stopped sobbing and looked up at Xu Yijing, that look made me a little unbearable to look at it carefully, there were too many mixed emotions. I suddenly realized that what I had experienced in my life seemed to be far from enough to talk about life. I still can't really understand Lin Su's feelings, maybe marriage and children are like the nuclear energy of life, which can be creation or destruction.
"Lin Su, we hope our guesses are wrong, but no matter what, your marriage has gone wrong after all, and you must be mentally prepared for it to collapse at any time. You say you can endure it for the sake of your children, you can, but don't have illusions and base your entire life on the conscience of the other party. ”
Lin Su nodded.
Xu Yijing called a lawyer friend she knew, and after a brief consultation, she gave Lin Su the contact information of the other party and asked her to make an appointment to see the lawyer as soon as possible. She suggested that Lin Su stay still first, find a way to let the child return to her side first, and then see what to do later.
"Cheer up." I stroked Lin Su's arm, "For the sake of the child and for myself." ”
"yes, cheer up." Xu Yijing also said the same. "You said that you are willing to do anything for the sake of your child, then the most important thing in front of you is to stabilize yourself first, don't just care about the momentary mood in front of you, don't be impulsive."
Lin Su seemed to be in a more stable mood, but his face was expressionless, and he didn't know if he was listening. After a while of persuasion in the car, it was late the day, so we took our leave and left.
After returning home, I was still very worried, but Xu Yijing said: "The most important thing about this kind of thing is to depend on herself, if she can't help but go back today or make trouble with her husband, if she still can't make up her mind, no matter how much others say, it's pointless." But I don't think Lin Su should be the kind of person who can't be confused, right? ”
"I'm basically just in contact with her at work, and she must be able to carry it at work, but she doesn't know it in life."
"It looks soft and weak." Xu Yijing said.
"yes, it looks soft and weak." I'm also worried.
I carried Piggy back to my room, feeling particularly tired from the night. I rubbed my cheek against the door of Pig's head and listened to its little snoring, wanting to share a little bit of its relaxation.
The phone shook on the pillow, and I didn't need to look at it to know that the only person who would send me a message at this time could only be Lin Jiangnan. He asked me if I had slept.
"Just got home."
"Where did you go?"
"What are you playing, I'm going to eat with Lin Xu."
"How is she?" Lin Jiangnan asked me.
"Not good." I replied to him. After the message was sent, I silently counted the seconds, and when I counted to eight, Lin Jiangnan's phone called. I smiled quietly and answered, "I knew you had to call." ”
"Know me so well?"
"I can't talk about it, it's just that I'm familiar with your behavior patterns." I put my phone on Piggy's head, "Here, Piggy, your uncle's phone." ”
"When will I become his uncle?"
"Look, Piggy's mother was raised by your mother, so you are the same generation as Piggy's mother, and it should be your sister. Then your sister's child is of course your nephew, aren't you your uncle? I had this kinship with Lin Jiangnan, and Lin Jiangnan asked me, "Then what are you?" ”
"I'm its temporary guardian."
Lin Jiangnan smiled, "You really know the difference." He asked me again, "You just said that Lin Su is not very good?" ”
"Well, I originally asked her to dinner to recommend her the job of Defeng Group, but I pulled out something else, and now I don't know if she has the heart to change jobs."
"What else?"
I briefly talked to Lin Jiangnan about today's events, and then said with emotion: "Fortunately, I called Xu Yijing today, otherwise I don't think I can understand what I said, and I can't persuade him, and I can't give advice." is still Xu Yijing well-organized, no wonder she can achieve the position of marketing director of a large company. ”
"You're good too." Lin Jiangnan said, "If it weren't for you thinking about helping Lin Xu introduce work regardless of your previous suspicions, there would be no today." Wouldn't it be miserable if things were really as you guessed, and she was kept in the dark again? ”
"Yo? I don't see that you're quite comforting. “
"Originally, your personalities are different, bricks have the strengths of bricks, cotton has the strengths of cotton, and similarly, bricks have the shortcomings of bricks, and cotton also has the shortcomings of cotton. Right? ”
I laughed, "Who's the brick?" ”
"I am, I am. It's definitely not Sister Xu. ”
"Shame." I laughed at him. When Piggy heard me laugh, he raised his fat face and rubbed his cool nose against my fingers. I remembered Xu Yijing's words that Zhu Zhu was a wingman, so I asked Lin Jiangnan: "When are you going to pick up Zhu Zhu?" ”
"I'll pick it up when you join Defeng, anyway, you've been at home recently, let it stay with you for two more days."
"When I join Defeng?" My heart fluttered when I listened, "I haven't seen you for a few days, and I'm really getting better and better at talking." By the way, there is still a shortage of planning and marketing people in Defeng, are you interested? ”
"Oh no, no, no, no."
"Why?"
"What if Defeng doesn't allow the development of an office romance? Even if you allow it, I don't think boyfriend and girlfriend are too good in a company, especially a department. ”
"Hey!" I grunted and sat up from the bed. He laughed twice, "Okay, go to bed early, I'll hang up first!" After saying that, he really hung up the phone.
I stared at the phone for a few seconds and smiled.