Tian Wen said: "Although it is indeed much easier for me to learn flexibility than you, it was much more difficult for me than you when I was a child to cultivate ambition. At a very young age, I felt that I was born with little desire to achieve, and even had a great aversion to ambition. I want to be with people who are sharp, but I don't like to show anything. Our dad doesn't have much desire to achieve in other aspects, and he knows very well that the happiness he needs most in his heart in this life comes from our family, which is the nature of my father. He said that he knew that his mother was eager to fully display her talents and achieve achievements because of her nature, so he did his best to meet his mother's inner need to become stronger, so that his mother could be happy because he gave full play to her talents. He also did his best to teach the two of us to be strong and promote harmony as a family. Dad himself obviously doesn't have much ambition, but he thinks that the two of us must have a very strong ambition. You're naturally ambitious, and it's much easier for you than me to meet my father's requirements! When I was a child, I cultivated ambition, and I was so uncomfortable that life was worse than death. ”

Jian Rou said: "It can be seen that changing the innate personality is not only difficult, but also painful. ”

Tian Wen said: "Yes, but my father and mother require us to become people who have a strong sense of ambition and are good at using flexibility to deal with the world, and we have been on the road of change since we were children." Now we are indeed different from when we were children, and the differences in personality between you and me are not as great as they were when we were very young. ”

Jian Rou seemed to suddenly think of something, and asked, "Brother, you say, have we been educated or distorted?" ”

Tian Wen was stunned when he heard this.

"Now you and I are all contrary to our natural personality to a certain extent." Jane Judo.

Tian Wen thought for a while and said: "Yes, our parents have shaped our personalities so that we can easily grasp more power in the Tiecang Court when we grow up, and we must do whatever it takes to achieve our goals, whether we are educated or distorted, it is obvious that we have become easier to achieve our goals." Maybe sometimes education itself is a distortion. ”

Jian Rou said: "If the goal is not achieved in the end, but people are distorted to achieve the goal, is it worth it?" ”

"What, are you questioning something?" Tian Wen asked.

Jian Rou said: "Do you remember the last time my mother and father talked about their nature in front of the two of us? ”

Tian Wen said: "Of course I remember. ”

Jane Judo: "None of them have been deliberately shaped in the opposite direction of nature. After listening to their words, you know that my mother and father generally follow their heavens. Now my mother is a very accomplished person, and my father also enjoys the atmosphere of home, and they are all living the life they want. When my mother talked to me, she always said that she was grateful to my father for giving so much to the family, and my father was also grateful to my mother. Wouldn't it be nice to be like them, who have not experienced the pain of being shaped? ”

Tian Wen said: "My mother and father's childhood life is different from the two of us, and it is not easy to compare. ”

Jian Rou said: "Yes, I'm just thinking, thinking about things and not people." I can't thank my mother and father enough. They have always been so good to the two of us, and the relationship between the family is so harmonious, so good. ”

Tian Wen said: "Well, we don't need to think so much. Then he smiled and asked, "Do you think my mother and father are finished now?" ”