Chapter 366: Marriage is divided
20200627 Saturday marriage was divided
I ate spinach in the morning and said hello to the little prince briefly.
Called at 7:55, I had already sorted out the cabinet and chatted for 1 hour
I said, "Very well, now everything is very easy to hold, they don't have this concept, and now that I have achieved my goal, my hand has been scratched, and my hand is almost ready in two nights."
He said, "Have you done it, look at the quilt."
I said, "It's all right."
He said, "Oops." I'll go
I said, what's wrong, what was wrong
He said, no, the price is unbearable
I said, what are you going to do, buy that quilt cover?
He said, five sets. . .
I said, I'll go to the Internet to ask if there is that kind of discount for five sets, Xiao Maruko I think we can buy a little bit, then the 300 or so we chose yesterday is not expensive, but the others don't need to buy so good, 300 yuan is expensive.
He said, "That's not going to work."
I said, if it's not expensive, why not?
He said, buy a better one.
Sent me a few Hengyuanxiang.
I said, I don't think it's necessary. To tell the truth, he's all embroidered, so it's expensive, you know, don't be like that, there's no need to spend money on it, what's the point, and I won't sleep much in the future. Relatives and relatives, you just show your relatives every day, who really cares, when you get married, you just come over and take a look, if not, it will be gone, and whoever will always be there to discuss you. The bride is the point, who looks at your thing, the bride is ugly, what's the use of a good-looking cup
He smiled
I said, it was, I sat down on the bed, who still looked at the quilt. When Pinxian and Pinhui got married, you didn't know the quilt, it was all borrowed, just a shop, you don't have to care about these fictitious, I don't know why you want to do this, what I really care about, I don't think you discuss it.
He's still in the hair, blue and green embroidery.
I said, you can see it after you buy one, don't be so exaggerated, I think yesterday's one was very good, I called you simple, you have to make it complicated, I really don't have any way, I'm really simple.
He was still looking for something, ignoring what I said, and sent several Hengyuanxiang. There is no head.
I said, you are such a strange person, yesterday you said that you want people, then you don't want people, why can't I choose those loves
He said, "No."
I said, why can't I have a bow, why can't I choose an ordinary one
And he said, "You want people."
I said, it's not that I want people, it's you who want people, okay, I have to ask for someone on it, ugly and ugly, I hate your mess the most, there are so many flowers, you still think it's good-looking, why show it.
He sent another one.,There's no blue order.,It's the same as the kind of phoenix crown.。。
I said, I think Sakura's show is okay, it's okay to look good.
He said, this is more than 300, no
I said, it's annoying. 300 why can't it, that can't be said clearly, the preface doesn't match the afterword, I think those simple love patterns are fine, anyway, it's a red, who goes to see these, don't want these things, just a red quilt.
He made a head.
I said, didn't I ask you several times yesterday, it was you who insisted on asking for someone, and said that no one can't do it, it was you who said it, and said, what do you mean if you don't listen to what I said, and you have replaced it now. I just like the cute little bow of love.
He said, "I want a brand."
I said, who told you the brand, you have been entangled in the brand today, the ordinary one is good, who can see the brand, people will come to you to ask, the truth is, no one will sleep in this red quilt, very depressing don't you know, so after people get married, all change to ordinary, why do you have to face a bed of red every day, you sleep for a few days, I don't want this kind of quilt, after you buy it, I put it away and put it over there. Whoever made a red quilt at home for no reason and asked you to buy it once, you still have to worry about these, and when the money is spent, you don't sleep for a few days. I don't sleep on red quilts anyway, my advice is to buy the worst red quilts and buy the other quilts. In the future, those who often change to sleep are a little better.
He smiled
I said, let's be honest. You just buy that cheap one, you don't want to worry about the color, no one will be entangled in what kind of red your color is, it's not pink, you still get tangled in Portuguese red, candy red, this red and that red, who is entangled with you, this red is very normal, many people are like this, the little love little bow I sent yesterday is also red, your big red, I can't stand it. It's okay to be born with a pair
He said, which is a natural pair
I say, link to you. You haven't seen Portuguese red, that's what you haven't seen, I haven't seen it yet?
He said, "You don't know, it's not red."
I said, you haven't seen it, other manufacturers have less knowledge than you, how many have you seen? How have I seen it, haven't you seen it, and besides, my sister cried when she got married, is red also that kind of red, and it's not. Now it's popular to be a little deeper.,You're ugly.,I think it's good-looking.,You still have to pick that.,That's the aesthetic.。。 The aesthetic difference is the biggest problem, anyway, you have to buy this, buy it, don't ask me, I don't like any of them, if you like it, I'll do it
He said, what do you like
I said, I like the bow, do you buy it, and it's impossible, what's the use of saying this here, a group of people are very stubborn, feudal, for example, those buckets, those pots that are useless, why buy them, people love flowers to get married, she said don't use it, no one has to give it all the time, this is a tradition, you must buy it. Ugly to die for.
He said, "I said, why are you doing so much?"
I say, "You have a lot of things to do." Don't say in front of me that this is expensive, that is expensive. You buy it yourself, what I like is the bow, if you like something else, if you want to buy you, just buy it.
He kept looking down.
I said, don't look at it, Xiaomaruko, you look dizzy, your decision-making ability is too poor, you want this for a while, that for a while, just a forehead, and I don't know what to look at.
It's been an hour, and I hung up the phone (for the first time) and went to watch TV
At 9 o'clock, I called him, he was on the phone, and I knew it at a glance with my sister, and he also sent me a quilt. Yin and Yin are two people discussing, and he is here again. I called him again, and he called me good. I only gave him 3 anyway.
He called, didn't receive the phone problem (he said it was the second time he hung up the phone) and chatted for 36 minutes.
He giggled, and I looked angry. Laundry
I said, you are interesting, you buy a quilt, go and ask your sister, how are you doing with your sister, you ask me what I do, if Lin Yutang also asks Wu Aihua's sister everything, how can the decoration go on. No matter what it is, you don't have any ideas of your own, what others say, what the tradition is, what it is, what I say is this and that, it is not right, nothing is in your mind, what people say is with you.
He puffed up his breath and walked outside
I preemptively struck and said, okay, you still have a big belly, I still have a big belly, you are angry
He said, what kind of anger am I making at you, let's talk from the heart, you hung up the phone.
I said, I didn't hang up the phone, that's it, it has nothing to do with me, until now I will only ask them about everything, without your thoughts, without my thoughts, everything is decided by others.
He said, I asked him why, you asked my sister, what did I tell him
I said, then you say, why do you send me those things, why does the color of this quilt have to be like this, why do you have to choose those, I'll choose a red, I like the pattern, I don't like the thing, I don't like it.
He said, okay, whatever you like, I'll buy you, okay
I said, "Shake it off." This doesn't work, that doesn't work, what is tradition.
And he said, What did I say
I said, yesterday I said that the color is not good-looking, and today the quality is not good.
He said, "It's red, and I've always said it's red."
I said, I don't like it.
He said, "Go and ask your mother what color people use when they get married."
I said, what's important about color, the problem is that there is something wrong with your mind, and you always say, these are traditional customs, and I tell you, tradition can be changed, people are free, not bound by this thing. Send me something you don't like, what's the point, go to the trouble and make something, and ask me what I like?
He said, my mother made these things, and she wronged you, right? Okay, my family is sorry, I'm sorry.
I said, you don't mean it, don't do it. It's true that people have a sense of superiority in front of me, you don't think from my point of view, you don't think about what I like, you defend things that don't make sense.
He said, how many times have I told you, there are some things, you have to have. Your mother is married, you ask, is there that kind of red
I said, you go find a paper, what red is authentic, you go to find a paper, is there any scientific basis, if you have to be like this, I have nothing to say, the whole world is like this, I have nothing to say, people can sell it online, why can't you buy it.
He said, it makes sense, it makes sense, your whole family is the biggest, I let you be wronged, right? Didn't I say yesterday that we could choose something else?
I said, I'm just not white, why does it have to be like that, I don't like it, why should I block myself on my wedding day, just dislike this color
He said, "That's not the end, it's okay."
He hung up. I called again and said, I'm sorry, I said it wrong
I said in the group, I just like this Portuguese red, don't be big red who likes who buys to sleep, I lay on the floor---
Answered the phone, heard him say I'm sorry, I said, I was about to call your words to the group, I said I don't like red, I haven't finished my words yet. I'm just too soft-hearted.
He said that this red is not red, and marriage must be red.
I said, I asked people, and they said yes, you can see for yourself. What does it matter if you say this red is not good. What's so important about the quilt. They still borrowed it
He said, "If you get married, you have to borrow the quilt."
I said, what does it matter. What are these embroidered flowers, I want a simple red background, a little English, why not, the red ugly one is going to die, if you want to buy it, buy some durable. There's that pattern next to it, and I don't like it and buy it for me. It's like those red buckets and red words, I said I didn't like it, but I still said I wanted to give it to me.
He said, "Okay, we're all sorry for you."
I said, you want these, you sleep, I'll lay on the floor.
My sister is back. I say, this does not become a burden, but is enjoyment.
I said I didn't like it when I sent him red, and that their family wanted it.
And he said, Have I spoken these words unto thee?
I said, that's what you think in your heart, where did the tradition, your attitude, come from, that's what they instilled in you, isn't it?
He said, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I apologize, I'm sorry, okay, I don't tell you, I'm going out now. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,
I said, okay, bye-bye.
At 9:40, they hung up on each other.
I said, calm down. This is my war with tradition. I can bow my head, but it's not recognition. So you're right, it's a grievance. Because it is necessary to bow to the tradition that is most unaccustomed to it. It's not pretty. I went to work. There is also a nonsense, the daughter-in-law's preferences are not for her to fight for, but for you to help her fight for them. You're in the opposite position. If you fight for me and others, I'll go along with it. But you're completely the opposite, and you're coming and saying that my choice is wrong. So I became a wicked person, and said that you were wrong. I'm an outsider, and you're still the opposite of me. Anyway, you don't have to ask my opinion. Unless I get angry and say no. Even if you ask me, you come with a positive answer. Is it really what we say? Holding tradition as a backer is not respecting and loving me
He said, "I am towards you, it doesn't mean that I don't want to blindly look towards you."
I said, huh
He said, you have also attended so many weddings, and there is one wedding quilt that is not red
I said, yes. Pin Xian, Pin Hui, love flowers, Xin also, don't talk about it
He said, what color
I said, you can discuss it with your family, that's what I call Portuguese red
He said, "I've looked for all the Portuguese reds, and there is no second one except the one you sent."
I said, you put your heart into it
He said that the style is single, and it is not sold in a good store, and the quality is not guaranteed. Good stores don't have a Portuguese four-piece suit
I said, as long as it's red. It's good if the pattern is cute
He said, if you like Portuguese red, then we will buy Portuguese red, but the style needs to be changed
I said, I really don't like those embroideries or whatever. Good. Change the pattern
I also softened, and said in the group that it would be good to follow him, "Okay, okay, the little prince chooses a color---". Two people video again. and chatted for 44 minutes. This time, WeChat was directly deleted
I said, yes, this red is fine
And he said, "How good you are." As soon as you say it, say what your family says. Now I'm not human inside and out.
I said, why don't you say that when your whole family forced me to compromise, you are all a group, I am one, I am an outsider. When a person marries out, he is an outsider in his mother's family, and his in-law's family is a person who joins in, so I am not a person inside and out. You can hold together whatever you want. I'm fighting alone
And he said, What do you mean?
I said, I don't like this color, shouldn't you help me? Why stand against me and become me alone and fight for all of you?
He said, now the color is up to you, you can choose another style, and send it to see if it works
I said, so.
He said, "Isn't it also big red?"
I said, "That's the color."
He said, "You don't want Portuguese."
I said, this is Portuguese red, you can't tell the difference. Look at the color of your hair for yourself, and the color of my hair is very different from the color of my hair, well, you're starting to lose sight of it now
He said, this price, 180 yuan, how much do you think it will cost
I said, there are expensive ones, but they are not the cheapest, anyway, the color is red, I fight for a long time, and you don't know what you want to express. 180 is too expensive, still too cheap
He said, since you said that you like the color, then you must use it regularly in the future. Just buy a better one
I said, how bad can the quilt cover be, it's good if you buy a 90-gram sanding cloth, but there is no difference between these brands
He said, how do you feel when you fall asleep with these sheets and quilts at home
I said, I feel good.
He said, how much do those things cost,
I said, I don't know
He said that after a five-percent discount, it was four or five hundred
I said, I slept in my own quilt cover, and I didn't sleep with yours, how do I know. You just want to put up a sign.
He said, you are making home textiles yourself, you know, you go find it yourself
I said, don't you just want to change the brand, wouldn't it be nice to hang a sign, who blew a gust of wind for you, I didn't mention this yesterday, who will blow you today
He said, I found it yesterday and there is a brand
I said, pull it down, where did you have a sign yesterday.
And he said, Believe it or not,
I said, I searched for your pictures of me and me, how come I don't know, there are more than 100, there are more than 300, 308
He said, "You don't believe what I'm saying now anyway."
I said, well, you don't want to knock everything over with one shot. Just say I don't believe what you say. I didn't say what you said, I don't believe it. If I don't believe anything you say, then what else will I tell you. Don't generalize,
He said, "I'm not as cultured as you."
I said, what culture, you don't talk like that, it's precisely the characteristics of boys.
I sent one and said, don't talk to me about the quality, I like it, I think this is very good, 60 cotton, they also think it's good
He said, anyway, what am I talking about now, you said that your family, your best friend, they are all like this. Doesn't it hurt
I said, you hurt people more than me, you bring your family, I tell you, the opinions of the people around you will be more pertinent than the opinions of your family members, because they have no direct interest in us, and their personal opinions are scientific and fair. I asked eight people. I didn't tell them what I liked, I just asked them about the color, and they said yes. I'm also surprised, where did your color come from, I don't know, I don't know, whoever blows the wind for you, must be this color. We don't have it anyway
He said, you have to distinguish clearly, you are married, not me
I said, I know too clearly. Don't think of yourself as a family, you must remember that you are an outsider, otherwise you will have a miserable life, fight for the rights you deserve, I don't like not to give it to me.
He said, "Okay, you're an outsider."
The problem, I said, is that you should be on the same side as me, not on the opposite side of me
And he said, I have listened to whomever said
I said, if this were your opinion, you wouldn't be going to stick to it.
He said, I don't have aesthetics, right, I have to do what you think, right?
I said, you give me all that mess again, it's all over the big bunch of embroidery, you want to sleep with you, I don't want this anyway, I just want this kind of simplicity.
He said, you can also see the price, how much it costs, it's good
I said, I'll just buy it back and see if it's okay.
He said that it was a waste of time and energy.
I said, I'll choose an expensive one for you, and you'll be happy, I'm the first 448, okay? Do you have your own preferences for these things, do you like this color in your heart? Or do others think it's good? You're not like me, I don't like this thing, don't give it to me.
He said, "I haven't made a single phone call and I haven't had any problems with them
I said, I ask you, do you really like this color
He said, don't talk about it
I said, would you really like this color?
He said that this is a marriage, and there are some things that cannot be helped
I said, isn't the point whether I like it or not, who can't help me? Tell me first, I can't tell who it is. Then I'll convince him that the subject is complete, and make a virtual one. I don't like this, the bells and whistles, the same red, green, green, blue and blue as the phoenix crown and the skin, I like this simple one, why can't it?
He said, "You still like to be without money?"
I said, I don't like it, I don't want money, these ones I chose are very good-looking, how about these 479.
He said, you still like to be without money
I said, you don't have to be verbose, do you want to read it, do you want to read 479, I like not to have money/You're wrong, you're very wrong. The best people are very expensive to give to me. I think the last one is very good, what do you think, first of all, it is simple, and there are beautiful flowers, what do you think?
He said, don't you have bells and whistles? There is no element at all
I said, everyone thinks it's good, but you think it's bells and whistles. Element? I'll be honest, I get annoyed when I see this element, I don't like this kind of show that is blue, red, green, and green. That 479 is very good-looking, and you don't think it's good-looking, do you really think it's not good-looking, or if you are angry and say it's not good-looking, I don't know. Where does your aesthetic come from.
He said that there was not even a single word
I said, here you go again, who stipulates that there should be a Xi character. I haven't seen anyone else's wedding quilt printed with the word "happy" on it.
The network is not good, it is stuck, I hung up and replayed. (The third time he said)
Grunt, I hung up, hit hard, (he said I hung up on him for the fourth time)
He said, how good you are now, you hung up on me four times. Let's talk about it
I said, don't talk nonsense, I'll just ask which one looks good, okay. Look at you, you don't have a little patience, you can't stop eating melon seeds yourself, okay, and your face is only half of it.
He swallowed melon seeds and said, when the things you like are different from the things I like, you look at what you are.
I said, then you started saying last night that the things I chose are not good, and said to me, "I have said it many times, why can't you hear other people's words in your brain?" why didn't you say it, why not, aren't you just for the tradition, how do people do it now, how not to learn, you have to learn the old traditions,.
He said, "You're angry now."
I said, that's because I struck first,
He said, and said that you were the first to strike.
I said, I said I didn't like it, you have to think about it, I don't like it anymore, so don't add these dummies.
He said, "Didn't I say you don't need heads?"
I said, I just sent one, didn't you say there is no joy, you just don't have these things, don't you, I hate what the hell is going on, I have participated in so many weddings, I have never seen such a big word written on a person's bed, and I have never seen a person's wedding quilt with two heads placed there, it's not good if it's red, just some simple English letters.
He said, "You might as well take a red cloth and spread it."
I said, yes, why not. I like how it doesn't work
He said, I still like green, why don't you pave green
I said, if you really like it, you shop, why can't you. I'll just ask my friends, my request is simple, I don't like it. Don't want heads, don't want dragons and phoenixes, don't embroider, I don't understand why your thinking is like this.
He said, I don't want to talk to you anymore.
I said, I don't want to talk to you anymore.
He sent a WeChat message, "The fifth time, they all said that the daughter-in-law they chose cried and wanted to be petted, and now I really can't spoil it"
In the group, I said a lot of nonsense (later asked the young lady to forward it to me)
"My family said that whatever color I like, it's good to look good. No need to be red. No more concessions. Don't say buy me those red buckets and red basins, I don't want them. I've been to a lot of weddings, and these ugly things don't have to be. It's not good-looking.,I don't like it.,I have to stuff it because the tradition stuffs me with ugly things that I don't like.,There's nothing to say.。。 If you want to talk about what people did in the past, I have more examples, how people are doing it now. What is the truth of not learning the new, but keeping the old? It's meant to be up to us to see if we like it or not. I don't like it, no matter how good the meaning is, it will only add to the blockage when I see it. Who said to be happy? Want a head? My sisters have said that it is okay to keep it simple. Who wants to like words, wants heads, wants dragons and phoenixes, and wants embroidery to buy by themselves. I can't accept this aesthetic.
The little prince said that they all said that the daughter-in-law they chose cried and wanted to be spoiled, and now I really can't spoil it. Forget it, don't buy it
I said, you don't have to spoil me, it's not interesting, we're not happy with each other
He said, "Okay."
I said, delete it. Don't talk about what's going on in the future, discuss it with me as a family with you.
He said, a big family? Hehe. I haven't told anyone anything about this
I said, since there is no request at home. Never mind. I don't want to talk to you either
He said, "Don't say it."
I said, don't send it. Let's delete it first. lest I want to say something and then I want to post it
And he said, Whatever you want
I said, 88
The little prince was deleted.
I went to sue Qingxin Aiqiong, they all laughed at me, I had a bad temper, and I would be fine after a while. The big sister also blames me for my bad temper. Can't sleep.
At half past one, the little prince sent a text message, saying that the car at two o'clock was almost ready to leave now
I said, just woke up. The quilt cover does not follow me, but the deletion of people is with me.; )
He said, you don't have to add me anymore on WeChat, since you deleted me, you don't need to add it anymore. Since you want to be calm and calm, you don't want to keep WeChat, you don't have to come back if you delete it, I've been spoiling you and getting used to you, what you want to be as you want, and finally I dug the pit myself
I said, thank you for spoiling me so much. Spoiled to the quilt. Whatever I want, then you can think about it
He said, it's time for you to get in the car, I'm asleep
I said, this sentence still has to say, weddings, weddings, ceremonies, places, and many more, with mine. Since you said that petting me is digging a pit, you don't need to pet me in the future. Seriously, do you want to think about it. My family also said that I was not suitable for marriage, and maybe I was the one who repented. I'm not as good as I was at the beginning. It's true. Think about it and tell me. I can accept the worst. The piano or something is used as accommodation fee. Sansan, I told her not to come
He said, "What am I for so long?" A joke
I said, you are not a joke, you are the little prince, the little prince that everyone knows. It's just that since when do you think it's unnecessary to spoil me? Pet me to dig a hole
He called, and I answered.