Hong Weidong was full of bitterness, so he was not distressed.

Yu Youqing also had a sad face, and said to Yu Xijuan: "Sister, our family has also invested all the money that can be invested, if things don't work out, your nephews and nieces won't even be able to afford to eat." ”

Yu Xijuan was also anxious when she heard this, "Then what should I do?" ”

Hong Weidong raised his head and drank a glass of wine, and said: "If I go to the cement factory again in the afternoon, I will definitely squat the factory director, even if I kneel down and beg him, I will ask him to give me a note." ”

Luo Zheng said: "Don't bother, I just happened to know some people in the provincial capital, and I will take you to meet you later." ”

Hong Weidong and Yu Youqing glanced at each other, and they were both overjoyed.

Hong Weidong said excitedly: "Brother Luo, if you can help with this, you will be the great benefactor of our whole village." ”

"You're welcome, they're all fellow countrymen, and it's right to help each other." Luo Zheng touched glasses with Hong Weidong, Hong Weidong was also a bold one, and drank it all.

Because Luo Zheng was willing to help, Hong Weidong and Yu Youqing both seemed very happy, and their expressions were not so depressed.

Yu Youqing asked his sister-in-law, "Xiaojuan, have you found a partner in the provincial capital for so many years?" ”

Yu Xijuan lowered her eyes, "Second brother, don't ask." ”

Yu Youqing said: "Qi Shanwen, that bastard abandoned you and left, you are still stupid to give him a son, in the end, people don't want you as long as your son doesn't want you, don't be stupid, if you go with my family, I'll find you a good one, I will find you a partner a few years ago, you just don't want to ......"

Yu Xijuan said in a sullen voice: "At that time, my family was young, and I couldn't stand it to marry......

"You are stupid, what does the child know, you are married, bring him over, it is already a great thing to have a bite to eat, you are stupid, no wonder you were deceived!"

When Yu Xijuan heard this, she left the table and went back to the room.

Yu Youqing spoke straight and didn't know how to turn, Hong Weidong frowned when he heard this, and kicked Yu Youqing several times under the table, "If you don't speak, no one will treat you as a dumb person!" ”

Xiaoru couldn't help but feel upset for Yu Xijuan, "Aunt Yu is all for Brother Qi Yao, Brother Qi Yao is now in college, and he will soon be able to come out to work and earn money to support his aunt, so he doesn't need to get ......married."

Yu Youqing has never read any books, and his thoughts are outdated, "You children don't understand, women all want to get married, what is it like if you don't get married, in the future, people will be gone, and you won't know whose grave you will go to, and you will be a lonely ghost and a wild ghost." ”

The local custom is that after a woman gets married, she will go directly to her husband's grave after a hundred years, and she will have her own children and grandchildren to worship with incense, which will last forever.

It's very difficult to do this without getting married.

Da An felt terrified after hearing this, "Then my sister will ...... Future...... Can't you come with me? ”

Xiaoru's eyes were also full of panic, "Is it so terrible to grow up?" Then I don't want to grow up! ”

Hee-po looked at everyone blankly, completely unaware of what the adults were talking about.

Luo Zheng knocked the stinky boy's head with chopsticks, "Don't talk nonsense, as long as your sister likes it, it's okay if you don't marry for the rest of your life, I'll keep it." ”

Yu Youqing's eyes widened, and it was the first time he heard his father have such a request for his daughter, "Brother Luo, how can my daughter not marry?" ”

"What's not to do? Is it that in order to enter the grave of Lao Shizi, you still want the daughter I raised to be a cow and a horse for others? Luo Zheng has experienced a very bad family environment since she was a child, and she feels that if her daughter can't meet a good man, she will be good for her life, and she will not marry.

"This ......" Yu Youqing's thinking is old-fashioned and outdated, and the general thinking in the rural areas is like this, and it is very unacceptable to accept such an idea.

If a girl is raised to marry and have a baby, how can there be any reason not to marry?

Like when the sister did that kind of immoral thing, their family also thought about marrying the sister hastily, and if they couldn't find a good one, they could only find the second, in short, they must marry the person to the end.

They see this behavior as a parent's responsibility.

However, Yu Xijuan was pregnant at that time, and she had to wait for Qi Shanwen to come back, and the matter of marrying would not be over.

"What's the problem, if my daughter is alone in the future, she will be buried with us, what's the problem?" Luo Zheng said directly.

He just hopes that his daughter will be happy for the rest of her life, how to be happy.

Is it possible to swallow your anger when you encounter a beast like Zou Gangling?

Shen Ning pushed Luo Zheng's arm, "The more you talk about it, the more outrageous it becomes, don't scare the child." ”

As parents, they naturally hope that their children can live in a safe house built for them by their parents, and be happy.

But when she thought that the child would grow up one day and have to face the wind and rain outside alone in the future, Shen Ning was actually very uncomfortable in her heart.

Hong Weidong said: "What Brother Luo said makes sense, people's lives are so short, and they will be clean in three or two clicks, why do you care about those cliché things, besides, what kind of lonely ghosts?" These are feudal superstitions, the dregs of the old society, there is a celebration, you don't want to mention it in the future. ”

Yu Youqing finally had the eyesight to see it once, and he couldn't shut up,

Hong Weidong clinked glasses with Luo Zheng and said: "It's still that the people in your city have ideas, and the ideas always stay in the past, which is really not good, the society is progressing, people, too, have to progress." ”

Shen Ning smiled: "Secretary Hong is very insightful, my lover and I have always felt that men and women are equal, I hope that my children can have equal rights to pursue happiness in the future, and I hope that all children in the world, regardless of boys and girls, can also have the right to decide their own future." ”

"Women can hold up half the sky, I know, I know." Hong Weidong has been a soldier for many years, and he has seen a lot outside, and his thinking is much more insightful than that of people in the countryside all the year round, "When our village makes money, I will definitely let the children and daughters in our village go to school, and strive to get out of the countryside and go to the world......

Shen Ning: "Secretary Hong, I am glad that the Shanyang Brigade has a leader like you, and I toast you with tea instead of wine." ”

"Don't dare to be, don't dare to be a ......" Hong Weidong still picked up his wine glass and clinked glasses with Shen Ning.

Shen Ning took a sip of tea, and then said to Yu Youqing: "Whether Sister Yu wants to get married or not, let's respect her choice, okay?" ”

Yu Youqing said: "Of course, anyway, her son is better than anyone else, and I can't worry about her getting old in the future, it's easy to say anything if she has a son." ”

After eating, Luo Zheng took Hong Weidong and Yu Youqing to the reinforced cement factory to talk to someone.

Yu Xijuan was also worried about them, and couldn't help but say to Shen Ning: "Do you think this can be done?" ”

"Let's be patient."

Yu Xijuan: "Whether it succeeds or not, I have to go back to my hometown to see, I haven't been home for many years, but when I leave, the children at home ......"

"Don't worry, Sister Yu, my parents are retired now and can help take care of the children, you don't have to worry about this, go visit your father with peace of mind!"

When Yu Xijuan heard Shen Ning say this, she was relieved.

While chatting, Qi Shanwen came to the door with two bags of specialties.