Chapter 472
"Mom, don't you do this? But mom, what's wrong with you? How do you feel sad?
Who upset you?
Mom, I'm old too, in fact, I know everything, okay, I know if I said something to upset you?
Really, I really shouldn't have scolded me for saying that before, and I couldn't hold the fire at the beginning when I was also from their team.
Mom, I'm sorry, I'm just fooled, but they were bewitched by them, and they just saw that our family was doing well, so they had bad intentions. ”
Who says that 10-year-olds don't have hearts, in fact, they also have their own ideas and their cautions.
It's just these adults who always treat them as newborn children, and don't treat them as equals.
In fact, they also have their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and they also have their own cautious wit, and even some of them have more twists and turns than some honest adults.
Otherwise, how can there be such a thing as a three-year-old looking old?
"Yes, it's rare, you will still say I'm sorry, forget it, then the matter has passed, but there are some things, since it has happened, it has happened, it is not that regret can make up for it.
Girl, you have to remember that it is difficult to recover from the water, what are you going to do in the future, you have to think twice, think about it, whether you can bear the consequences of what you do.
No matter what, the most worrying thing in this world is you, after all, it is my responsibility to give birth to you, so that you can live a good life and not be wronged.
Mom gave you money, you'd better not tell anyone, even if you get married in the future, don't tell your other half.
Child, you remember this money, your father has a mother and a milk day, and your future other half is not as good as what you have in your own hands.
Just like your mother was greatly wronged at the beginning, if you didn't have the ability to make money and didn't have any money in your hands, then you wouldn't leave your father.
Of course, if your father says that he doesn't want your mother, if he has to divorce your mother, then your mother can't help it.
Do you know, girl? Just like your grandparents, there are very few divorces in their generation.
But this does not mean that they have a good relationship, which is to put it bluntly, the real reason is that the women of that generation can't support themselves.
And what about the mother's family? They can't go back, and they can't go back after being greatly wronged? So what about that generation, there are almost no divorces.
But you know what? Their generation is one of the most women in our world, do you know?
Do you know how many women are just not financially independent? Was this wronged? There is no place to complain, no one to back? Do you have to commit suicide in the end? ”
"I seem to have heard a little bit about it, but I didn't think it was true."
"Naturally, you don't think that's true, and the reason is simple? Because that life is too far away from you? It's like you scolding my generation, which is almost very few people who have been wronged.
But look at how much your mother has been wronged after marrying your father.
What was it like to be forced by your father to be by your grandmother, of course, you were too young and you would have forgotten it, but I will never forget your mother for the rest of my life.
The main reason is that your mother has been greatly wronged? Your grandmother doesn't care about politics? If your mother resists, your grandparents will even follow your grandparents to bully your mother.
And now that your mom is older, she wants to do everything, but there are many things that some hurts that you can't forget for the rest of your life.
Don't say anything about the past like the wind? But there are a lot of things that really break your heart, and those that you can't forget for the rest of your life.
Of course, what about your mom now? It's not that I forget, but I don't care.
What did your mother hate in her heart before? That's because they care and hate them, and they resent them.
Now your mom wants to open everything, after all, everyone has died once? If you can't think of anything else? Then you woke up in vain? Isn't it?
As for you, I don't want to say how much you will achieve in the future, but I hope that you will study well, at least in the future, you can gain a foothold in society.
And you remember that you can do anything in this life, but never be that pure housewife.
The IQ of this woman in this world is not lower than that of men, and even when you go to school, you can feel that this female student is always more than the male student, but why is this woman's achievements in the end most of them inferior to men?
To put it bluntly, there are too many trivial things in the family after this woman gets married, and this society requires women to make no worse money than men outside, but all the housework has to be done by women, children have women, and well-meaning women watch, and even ask women to laugh, hurting the parents of both parties.
Even some bastards also require women to be unconditionally filial.
So under all kinds of troubles, this woman is slowly inferior to a man.
Girl, this woman in this world is more difficult than a man to live, if you yourself are not self-reliant and self-sufficient, then your life will be like the class soaked in bitter water.
Although you are still young, you may not understand it, but I still want to say that you should remember it carefully.
Sometimes a woman is still inconspicuous when she is young, especially when she reaches middle age, which becomes bloated and her face is full of wrinkles and melasma.
As long as the man has a better burn and no conscience, not only will they not admit it, but this woman will even kick the woman for all kinds of dedication and dedication to the family.
And our country does not protect the rights and interests of our women, especially those who are housewives.
But when people have no job in middle age and have been separated from society for a long time, how many men feel that they can't live when they leave the house. ”
Nana's words were actually a little heavier, but the child was too young, and only he knew how much he could listen to.
"Mom, if that's the case, then it's better not to get married, and it's good to live alone."
The child said as if he was angry.
"Who knows, there are actually good marriages in this world, Mom just told you how to deal with this and how to live.
What's more, when you reach your age, just like your mother desperately stops you, she may not be able to stop you, you are all from your youth, who doesn't understand this? Nana sighed.
"All these people have come from your youth, but your mother has no childhood, no youth, and has never been her own master.
And now you can be your own master, but there are many things that you can't do, and this person is not good when he is old.
Head, what to do, think twice, don't be like your mother, there are many regrets when you reach middle age, but you find that this past is like smoke, and there is no way to make up for it.
Don't wait until you reach middle age to realize the importance of learning, but now it's too late. ”
Nana felt very sad when he said this, and he sometimes wondered if the young man was kind or malicious to him.
But no matter what, I have experienced too much.
But as for himself, it doesn't take long to suffer so many losses.
But I don't know why I escaped from there, and I can't even tell where this soul will not drift somewhere one day.
I miss my parents a little occasionally, but I don't have the courage to look at them, and when I think about them, there is too much anger and despair in my heart.