Chapter 4 It's like going back to the old days
Ye'er saw that I was in tears, knowing that her own words hurt me, and she also knew that I loved my little treasure very much, so she didn't force me to do anything. The next morning, before it was very light, Ye Er took a taxi to the small county town she said below. Because Ye'er owes money to people near my house, Ye'er can only go home after dark and go out before dawn, but fortunately, it is very convenient to take a taxi online now, and it doesn't feel too troublesome.
When Ye'er was playing cards in the chess and card room in the small county town, she would have a video with me to tell me what she was doing, and she would go home every other night, but when she went home at night, it was usually three or four o'clock in the morning.
Once, my daughter and a few classmates had a small gathering in a hot pot restaurant in the city, when Dabao told Ye Er the news, Ye Er happened to be not playing cards at that time, she actually took a taxi back and forth sixty or seventy kilometers to go to the hot pot restaurant where her daughter and her classmates got together.
However, it was this hot pot restaurant that embarrassed my daughter and made me see Ye'er more clearly.
It was a very happy thing for her daughter to have a reunion with a few classmates that day, but Ye Er called to ask her daughter what she was doing, and her daughter told her to have a reunion with a few classmates. When I arrived at the hot pot restaurant and found my daughter, my daughter had already ordered food with a few of her friends, and she was ready to dine just waiting for Ye'er to arrive. Unexpectedly, as soon as Ye Er sat down, she shouted: "Who ordered this dish?" This is fat sausage, can fat sausage be eaten? β
"Why can't you eat it? These dishes are all ordered according to our own preferences, whoever likes to eat can order what, you don't like to eat doesn't mean that others don't like to eat. I've already ordered your dishes for you, if you don't like them, you can order a few more yourself. Ye'er's words had obviously embarrassed her daughter in front of her friends.
Unexpectedly, Ye Er continued to be unsatisfied, and was still shouting there and continuing: "Look at what kind of dish you ordered? Do you know what fat intestines were originally used to hold in pigs? If you fill a bowl with, wash it, and use it for rice, will you eat it? However, there are still people who order the dish of fat sausage! β
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"If you like to eat, you can eat, and if you don't like to eat, you can order your own meal. That's how my mom is, let's leave her alone, let's get started. The daughter was already extremely impatient, so she pretended to giggle and started to eat with a few classmates, but Ye'er's shouting and picking made her daughter and classmates' party today embarrassing, and it was also very impressed, and when she finally checked out and paid the bill, no one moved the fat intestine and chopsticks, in fact, the fat intestine was the favorite of one of her daughter's classmates!
When my daughter came home from dinner and told me about this embarrassing and annoying incident, I said to her, "Didn't you notice? Did your mother come home this time to live with us sincerely? β
"I can't see it, but my mom can be really overdone sometimes." The daughter said.
"At this stage, I was thinking about it every day, was Dad's decision really hasty? Your mother is always picking and screaming when she comes home this time, and her purpose is very simple, she wants to show that she is not a nasty gambler, but a woman with good taste. I analyzed my daughter.
"That's what you brought on yourself, too! I told you at the beginning, and now you regret it, right? My daughter said to me angrily.
"I can't talk about regrets, how can I know the result without experience? There are many things that you will only understand when you have experienced them. Many chicken soup in our hearts, many life coaches, and many psychological gurus are always teaching us what kind of formula we should use to solve what kind of life, but in fact, they are all wrong. Because the explanation and concrete implementation of many things are not the same thing at all! Many times, they are themselves abnormal people by nature. I said to my daughter.
"You know! If it weren't for you marrying my mother, would I be like this? The daughter said angrily.
"You're doing well now! After graduating from university, you are now a respected doctor, and your future path is up to you. As for your mother, if I hadn't married your mother, I wouldn't have you! I said.
"Don't mention my mother to me, last time I went shopping with a few classmates, I met one of my high school classmates, grabbed me excitedly, and excitedly told me that once I sat at a table with my mother to play cards and gamble money, saying that my mother is very gambling king, when I listened to it, I couldn't wait to find a crack to drill down."
Yes, as a parent, you should make your child proud and proud, but what can you do when you meet such a mother? This conversation with my daughter made my daughter very unhappy.
Ye'er continued her career in the chess and card room, and I went to work at home with Xiaobao at the same time.
Xiaobao is really sensible, and with a father like me, Xiaobao is really happy and lucky. Every morning, I always let Xiaobao and I get up early, wash up, dress up cleanly, we go out to the breakfast shop for breakfast together, and then send Xiaobao to kindergarten, and then I go back to work, even so, we are never late.
At noon, Xiaobao ate in the kindergarten, I ate in the unit canteen, and in the evening I got off work, just in time to go to the kindergarten to pick up Xiaobao back. Generally, when we pick up Xiaobao at night, we don't go home directly, but go to the supermarket first, buy some Xiaobao's favorite dishes and snacks, and then go home to cook food. Because Dabao generally does not go home, there are usually only me and Xiaobao at home, and the evening is the happiest, comfortable, relaxed and enjoyable time of the day, cooking one or two dishes that I and Xiaobao like to eat, Xiaobao is eating, I am pouring a glass of wine, looking at the happy Xiaobao, drinking my own wine, thinking unconsciously, Dabao has worked, thinking, maybe just a turn, my Xiaobao also graduated from college and started workingγγγγγγ When there is sunshine in the heart, there is hope everywhere in life.
At the end of the week, Dabao came home, and Xiaobao scrambled to tell her sister about the happy things in her kindergarten, and my sister also happily or distressed to me about the people or things she met at work during the week, and I leisurely drank my wineγγγγγγ Yes, the family sits, the children are coquettish, and the lights are amiable, this is the most beautiful scene in the world.
Although their mothers have left home because of divorce, we are very happy because of the big and small treasures that God has blessed me.
However, now because of Ye'er's homecoming, this quiet and peaceful life has begun to be slowly broken.