Chapter 741: It's man-made
Obediently, her mother's consciousness is about to go to heaven.
This level of consciousness is too high, isn't it?
"I ...... I'm also struggling, and I'm a woman. ”
Yu's tone was much lower, and a trace of regret and hesitation flashed on his face.
Although Mrs. Li said this politely, she did not deny it, and she really felt a little hot on her face after hearing it.
But on second thought, she didn't seem to be wrong.
Where did she go wrong?
She was just a weak woman, and there was no one else behind her to help her.
It is not easy for her to rely on her own strength to pull her daughter to grow up.
In this world, orphans and widows, how can they live so well.
And just making tofu was enough to make her tired, not to mention anything else, she couldn't even think about it.
"What's wrong with the woman? Do you look down on women or on yourself? ”
"Is my daughter still a woman? Look at her, how powerful! ”
"Let me tell you, when I was in the village, my family was poor, and it was my daughter......"
As soon as Mrs. Li opened her mouth to talk about Bai Jinli's various deeds, she became speechless.
At first, Tan Xiaohua was still whispering to Yu Huan, but after they heard Mrs. Li talking about Bai Jinli's past, they involuntarily approached.
In their eyes, Bai Jinli is a very powerful person, and it is also the person they especially want to become.
And after Mrs. Li saw that two more little radish heads took the initiative to come over and listen to her, she became even more energetic when she spoke.
She didn't even feel that she was sleepy, and she could use her nap time to give these people science about her daughter's glorious history.
However, Mrs. Li only spoke for a short time before being interrupted by Bai Jinli.
"Mother, what are you talking about? It's all gone. I'm still here, and you've been praising me like this, is it really good? ”
"What's so bad? My daughter is excellent, why did I praise her? What's the matter, you haven't violated any of the laws of the Great Qi Kingdom, right? ”
"......" Bai Jinli.
Her mother's mouth is really getting worse and worse!
"But Aunt Yu and they are going home for a while, so it's not okay to keep them all the time?"
"Really? Are you in a hurry to get home? Don't worry, when I'm done, I'll send someone to send you back safely. Mrs. Li spoke directly and strongly.
"Well, I'm not in a hurry." Yu spoke silently.
"Girl, look, people are not in a hurry, I just chat with her, if you are busy, go and get busy, don't worry about us."
"Don't worry, this is your friend, even if I look at your face, I will definitely treat them well, and I will definitely not bully them."
"Mother, I understand what you want to say to Aunt Yu. Do you think Aunt Yu can also learn from me, go outside and fight hard, don't limit yourself because of your gender? ”
Bai Jinli saw that Mrs. Li was so energetic, and Yu didn't make an excuse to leave, so she simply joined in the chat.
"Isn't that what it is? Isn't there a saying that things are man-made? She just said that she was a woman and had a hard time. ”
"What's wrong with a woman, can't you make a living from cooking? Can't you find a way to live a good life? Who says women can't work so hard? ”
"Look at our family, if it weren't for my daughter's hard work, maybe our family would still be gnawing in the ravine and ravine in Stone Village, can we have today?"
"Have you read the story of that picture book that has been popular on the market recently? It's Mulan's. ”
"Hua Mulan is also a woman, but if you look at other people, she was able to join the army for her father, go to the front line to fight, and finally make a contribution."
"The same woman, the same is alive, why can people live so chic and work so hard, you have a hard time?"
"Doesn't that Mulan's family have any troubles? She's a lot harder than you, okay? ”
"And she chose to go to the front line to fight, which is something that will die if she feels a little uncomfortable."
"And you, it's just that you can use your best cooking skills to make a living, to make more money, and then live your own life well, is that difficult? Even if you fail, you won't die, right? ”
"Needless to say, don't you know how you cook? With such good cooking skills, even if you go to a restaurant to find a job, you can earn a lot of money, right? ”
"Okay, even if you don't go to the restaurant, you can open your own stall to buy and sell, why do you have to fight with tofu?"
"What's the matter, Tofu provoked you?"
"Or do you think that women who become chefs will be gossiped about, will have bad business, and will not be able to do it?"
"It's all there." Yu nodded a little embarrassed and extremely embarrassed.
In fact, a long time ago, she also mustered up the courage to go to a restaurant in the capital.
But when she went, when people heard that she had applied to be a cook, not a dishwasher, they immediately burst into laughter and sarcastically mocked her.
Said that as a woman, she should stay at home.
Chefs are all things that men should do, what does it have to do with her?
She is just a woman, and she still wants to be a chef? What do you think?
The woman can only help those chefs, and she has no qualifications to be chefs at all.
After she was ridiculed, she was kicked out by the restaurant boy.
The little guy spoke very ugly, and she was in a bad mood when she said it, and even self-doubted.
It was from that moment that she suppressed this thought to death.
"You are self-seeing, or you can say that you are self-contemptuous, understand?"
"People just say two words to you, and you are cowardly? You're terrible, aren't you? I really can't figure out how you brought up your daughter over the years? ”
"Then if someone says they want you to die, will you go?"
"It's all mothers, why are you still so stupid? But the brain is following the line or what? ”
"......" Bai Jinli couldn't help but pull the sleeves of Mrs. Li's clothes again.
Her mother's mouth is very poisonous, and she doesn't care about Yu's feelings at all.
"Pear, don't talk to me, am I wrong?"
"She can raise her daughter so big, she must have suffered a lot of criticism."
"She said that her man is not dead and will definitely come back, but everyone must have persuaded her and gossiped."
She listened to all those words, accepted them, and knew how to discern them. Why did people say that she was a woman and couldn't be a chef, so she gave up? ”
"Is she not confident in her cooking skills or is she too cowardly to have the courage? Or is it that you even look down on yourself and feel that you are a woman and can't do this? ”
"I ......" Yu Shi was seriously asked by Mrs. Li's heartfelt words.
She really didn't know how to refute it.
Because what Mrs. Li said really sounded like what she thought, what she subconsciously ignored, and she never cared about.
In her eyes, in her heart, she did think so.
She thinks that she just knows how to cook, where she cooks.
And there has been no news of any woman being a chef in the Great Qi Kingdom.
She didn't have that confidence in herself at all.
Even when she was learning cooking with her grandfather, she was often despised and disliked by her cousins.
"What are you, let me tell you, my daughter was ...... back then"
Mrs. Li began to chatter about Bai Jinli's previous past, and even mentioned the two fat people that Bai Jinli had helped.
"Mother, why are you talking about this again?" Bai Jinli touched her nose.
"Girl, why are you still here? Aren't you going to be busy? Hurry up and go, don't get in the way of us talking. ”
Without saying anything, Mrs. Li got up and drove Bai Jinli away.
Bai Jinli glanced at them with a smile and a smile, and after giving Yu a self-conscious look, she really went to do her own thing.
This is the first time she has been disgusted by her own mother, hey.
However, she also saw that Yu Shi did not show any impatience, and she did not interrupt when she heard Mrs. Li talk about those quite serious looks.
Yu is relatively isolated in the village, and he doesn't have many friends.
can listen to Mrs. Li talk like this, I'm afraid it is a rare communication for her.
After waiting for a cup of tea, she was sending someone to find an excuse to get rid of her mother, or find a way to send Yu and Yu Huan away.
After Bai Jinli left, Mrs. Li continued to pull Yu Shi to be an audience for her, and she was happy to talk about it.
Not to mention, for the Yu family, Mrs. Li's words did poke at the heart.
It even stimulated her sensitive spot for a while.
But she is not the kind of person who drills the horns of the bull, and after Mrs. Li's continuous talking, she has figured out a lot.
When Mrs. Li talked about her, there was no gossip in her eyes, no aggressiveness, no schadenfreude, and no contempt.
She was genuinely talking about it, about what she saw.
And what people said is not wrong, and they didn't stand on the commanding heights to point fingers at her, they were just talking about things.
said that she was nosy, but Mrs. Li didn't say it too bluntly.
And as long as she wants, she can stand up and find an excuse to pull Yu Huan around and leave.
But she didn't, because she gradually found that it seemed quite interesting to listen to Mrs. Li talk about Bai Jinli.
She also gradually gained a deeper understanding of the affairs of Bai Mansion, especially Bai Jinli, in Mrs. Li's words.
Even in the process, a lot of thoughts and insights burst out of her mind.
After talking for a while, Mrs. Li became a little thirsty, and she couldn't help but stop and start drinking tea.
That is to say, the fragrant tea arranged by Bai Jinli also came.
Xiangming gave Yu a look, and then casually made up an excuse to Mrs. Li, planning to take Yu and Yu Huan away.
However, after Yu glanced at Xiangming, he made an excuse to excuse himself.
The implication of this is that she is still willing to stay and continue to listen to Mrs. Li.
Not only her, but even Yu Huan was reluctant to leave, wanting to hear Mrs. Li talk more about Bai Jinli.
These things sound as interesting as listening to a story.
Xiangming saw that they volunteered to stay and chat, so she went back to her life.
After Bai Jinli heard this, she didn't say anything, and got up and planned to go to her sister-in-law Yan's yard.
Because, she just heard a good news.