Chapter 218
"So that's the case, one place and one custom, I thought...
Forget it, I won't talk about it, but I think it's actually good for you guys to be like this.
Although it feels a little impersonal, I really said everything in advance about all the bad things that could happen, and it was nipped in the bud. ”
Han Zijun remembered that he was still a little uncomfortable before he got married.
But now that I think about it, I and my ex-husband have to talk about everything before they get married, which is actually a very good thing.
For example, if you want to really AA system, then he will always have to pay for the stage of pregnancy and childbirth, right?
Even if it's an AA system, he should compensate him, and he can't let himself. Let's eat by yourself completely at the time of pregnancy.
Then after giving birth, I took you to give birth to the child, and I didn't dare to divorce.
You don't even give your child milk powder money, and no one takes care of you.
And when the time comes...
But people won't here, the so-called AA system here, this pregnant woman is pregnant, this man is on this side.
You will be fully responsible for your expenses, even from your pregnancy to childbirth and even to the stage of watching your child.
And all of this is marked, and there are even all kinds of compensation for Bao Ma.
As for himself, he has a fart, and even the child is a little older, so he asks his mother-in-law to help watch the child.
It's true, you have to give your mother-in-law living expenses again, and give him a lot of money.
I have to bow down every day and look at people's faces.
Even when you come back from work, you will immediately throw your child at your family's house, and you have to hold your child to get yourself and your child to stutter.
That's the kind of life that's it...
To put it bluntly, he is not ruthless enough, and he doesn't dare to have children at all.
That's not going to work, isn't that kid starving to death? Who makes himself unwanted?
This child doesn't starve to death, if he gets sick twice in three days, you can't afford to be a mother.
So, I have been married for so many years, and I am tired of all kinds of problems, and no one says yes.
After the demolition was developed, they kicked you out, and you even made a fuss out of the house.
The only thing that can be done with the little money you save is that money is really serious, and it is the little bit that you save from your own salary from your mouth.
If you want to say why you refuse to go back, it's because you feel too wronged in your heart.
It is true that the man has never beaten his wife, and even said that he has no vices, and he does not take anything from eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling.
But I almost didn't feel this feeling of happiness.
Then, I felt like I had become the kind of shrew I hated the most.
Every day, my heart is full of negative energy, I am not curious about what I see, and sometimes I even want to destroy everything.
This is also the reason why I refuse to go back, even though my current husband has cheated.
Because it doesn't feel good to go back?
Especially in my hometown, what about this man, even if he really cheats, or divorces you and is with other women, no one will say anything.
But even if you, a woman, are divorced, but you remarry, and then you are dumped again, then you will have a bad reputation again.
Is this kind of thing fair? It's not fair.
But what about unfairness, this is the reality of life in my hometown.
It's not that if you think it's unfair, it can be changed.
What's more, if you really want to go back, you still have to face a lot of problems.
It seems that this woman will not be recognized no matter what contribution you make to the family.
And you have to be a little bit stronger, and you will be attacked by some people.
Anyway, it seems that for women, in the kind of place in their hometown, it seems that they are particularly harsh on women.
And although he looks amazing, he is actually quite cowardly, especially for those who are older.
Although I also want to learn from those shrews, I scolded them like that, and even wanted to beat them.
But I can't scold or fight, of course, I also feel that even if my emotions are too out of control, I can't bear the consequences.
If that old person really got into the hospital or was paralyzed because he was fighting back against the elevated blood pressure at that time, or how did he get into the hospital.
Then I am not only guilty of a great sin.
But who ever thought about how angry and aggrieved he was at that time.
I even sometimes think that if I am always in that state, I will get depression if I don't seal it.
But no one can understand themselves, and their bad mood or involuntarily want to cry.
In the eyes of most people, even in the eyes of almost everyone in my hometown.
That's your hypocrisy, that's that you're looking for trouble.
To be honest, I'm really scared, I'm really scared to go back to my hometown.
This kind of fear should be something that many people can't understand.
"So, as long as we have a banquet here, we are considered husband and wife.
And even if we sign an agreement, we, as husbands, must pay our wives for their living expenses.
These are conventional, even after the divorce, as long as the ex-wife is not married.
We basically pay alimony, but it's just a matter of price.
But of course, even if it is less, it is definitely enough, and the most basic life of a gemstone by yourself in the early stage.
But think about your ex-husband, or any man in your hometown, who would have taken care of a woman?
And most of the women there are abandoned in middle age, right?
You accompany them to endure hardships, accompany them to suffer, and when you are older, you are old and yellow, and your body is bloated.
And they think they have money in their hands and go out and do that kind of thing.
Don't you think that kind of man is actually more hypocritical and more bad? ”
Ye Jiuchen said again and again.
"Even if there were examples like that, so what?
But it doesn't mean that after you men get married, cheating is like eating and drinking, simple and non-binding, right?
I said, why are there many people on your side who have held banquets and don't get marriage certificates!
To put it bluntly, it's just that there is no punishment for this cheating. ”
Even so, Han Zijun was still angry.
Ye Jiuchen, this bastard is not a good thing, he actually gave himself the matter of cheating, and he still wants to clear his name, how is this possible?
But honestly, I can understand what those people are saying now.
It's that after this man cheated, just like the money that fell into the toilet, you pick it up disgusting, don't pick it up, there's still a little bit of that, anyway, how uncomfortable is it
Although I have no feelings with this person, I even said that getting married at that time was a bit of child's play, and it was even some kind of cooperation
But his stupidity actually had a little bit of dependence on this person.
Who does this depend on, and this can only rely on yourself? It's not that he doesn't know Han Duoduo, but he committed suicide because he was abandoned by this bastard Ye Jiuchen
Even knew that Ye Jiuchen, a bastard, was going to harm the 18-year-old innocent little girl of others.
And I was so special at the time, especially after I got married, I thought that Ye Jiuchen was tired of playing, and he had to learn well and live a good life.
However, it turned out that all of this was really overthought by myself
Just like this dog can't change eating, this guy Ye Jiuchen will never be able to change his lustful problem