One of the few things I regretted in my life was about this divorce. At the beginning, I was so stupid that I didn't let this woman bear the responsibilities and obligations she should bear, and Ye'er should bear the expenses of the baby's upbringing, education and other related expenses.

But at that time, I divorced Ye'er twice before and after, and I didn't propose to let her take on the responsibilities and obligations that she should bear as a mother, at that time I just stubbornly believed that I had the ability to help her raise my child, and I didn't need a mother who abandoned her child to bear this cost, although this cost was indeed a bit high. "Father's love is like a mountain", I think this is my responsibility and obligation as a man and a father, I don't need others. Besides, I don't want to have anything to do with this woman for this money for many years to come, and since I am gone, I will also leave, and it is better to never see each other.

Although after more than ten years, in order to raise the baby, I went to high school and college。。。。。。 It took a lot of my time, my energy, and a lot of money, but for me, it was all as it should be, and I have no complaints. However, after a few years, I regretted that my love was not understood by my daughter, and after my daughter became an adult, I discussed this topic with my daughter once in a while, and my daughter actually said that all this is what I should do!

Yes, I should, otherwise, what can I say?! Therefore, don't sympathize with a person casually, when you show your true feelings and sincerity to sympathize with and help a person, looking back, it will not have any conscience at all, it will only become more unscrupulous and hurt you more! Human beings are really a very poisonous species, and when they are ruthless, they are not as good as animals!

Years later, I regretted that I had not let this woman take on the responsibilities and obligations that she should have as a mother.

In this divorce, everything was according to Ye'er's request, and we divorced again. This divorce, I have thoroughly seen through and let go, I want to sort out my mood and start a new life with the baby. When Ye'er and I divorced, we had an agreement, that is, for the sake of the healthy and happy growth of the children in the future, we would not make a public announcement about our divorce and let it be, maybe this would be more beneficial to the growth of the children.

There are about 20 days for the baby to go to junior high school about three kilometers away from home, the junior high school students at that time are riding bicycles to school, I urgently need to buy a new bicycle to give to my daughter, my daughter graduated from primary school, about to become a junior high school student, time flies so fast, unconsciously, the child has grown up slowly.

In the past few days, my daughter has always been urging me to help her buy a new bicycle as soon as possible, but at that time, I didn't even have two or three hundred yuan to buy a bicycle, so I had to say to my daughter, when my father pays her salary this month, the first thing is to help you buy a bicycle.

In addition to continuing to help my daughter buy a bicycle and need money, I also have to find a way to borrow money from others as soon as possible, so that I can give Ye'er the 40,000 yuan that should be paid to Ye'er because of the divorce as soon as possible, as long as the problem can be solved with money, it is not a problem. Although I am destitute now, I believe that with my efforts, I will be able to pay off these debts due to divorce in less than two years. Because I have my salary, I have a storefront on the street to collect rent, and I am looking forward to a better life.

After a week or so, I finally waited for the day of salary, when I got the salary in August, I did not delay for a moment and immediately took the car to the city, came to the bicycle shop, picked left and right, spent a long time, and finally helped my daughter buy a bicycle, a very expensive and beautiful bicycle, because in the future, this bicycle will accompany my daughter at least three years of junior high school life, so, the quality of the car must be good, and the child must like it. I bought a bicycle with a curved beam, the bicycle with a curved beam is suitable for children to get on and off the bike, and the tender green is a little fresh, which is a color that is very suitable for my daughter. When I got home from the city on my newly purchased bike for over an hour, my daughter was very happy and she loved the bike I had chosen for her.

Because I wanted to give Ye'er 40,000 yuan, I was thinking about borrowing money from others, and at the same time thinking that I should sell my motorcycle to repay the money I owed to Ye'er. I have a broken bicycle at home, repair it, it should still be able to ride, so that I can get a sum of money, and without a motorcycle, I can at least save a lot of gas money every month, I sold the motorcycle like this, and intermittently borrowed money from others, and finally slowly repaid the money owed to Ye'er one after another.

Today it is two thousand, and in a few days it will be one thousand or three thousand。。。。。。 I am repaying the money that should be given to Ye'er because of the divorce, I don't want to owe her, I just want to pay off the money I owe her as soon as possible, never see each other again, and my children and I will live happily and quietly from now on.

In the blink of an eye, this summer vacation is coming to an end, it is time for the baby to go to school, and it is time for me to go back to school.

Just three or four days before the start of school on September 1, Ye Er called one morning, Ye Er said on the phone that she wanted to go home because she had already found a job, and informed her to officially report to work on September 1 and serve as the director of our community women, mainly about the work of women and children in the community.

Listening to Ye'er's call, I was neither happy nor so unexpected, because in the years before our divorce, I had been thinking about helping Ye'er find a job, maybe when Ye'er had a formal job, Ye'er would no longer gamble. We have been looking for relevant people in the past few years, but Ye'er has neither a diploma nor technology, at that time, we after comparative analysis and search, and finally agreed that it should be a good choice to enter the community work, community work is not too high for people, as long as you are good at communication, strong language skills, and this is really Ye'er's strength, Ye'er can make up things that have not happened as if they were their own personal experience, Ye'er can use her disguised sincerity to turn a straw into a gold bar, and she can convince you! Another major reason is that the income of community workers is relatively high and stable, and these conditions are deeply attractive to Ye'er and me.

However, at that time, the community had already recruited village officials for college students, and the difficulty of wanting to work in the community could be imagined how difficult it should be, at that time, Ye Er and I had already discussed, we should find someone to find someone, and we should trust the relationship to entrust the relationship, maybe there really is a day, the opportunity comes, Ye Er's wish to work in the community may be realized, and the people we are looking for also say this to us, at present, it is more difficult to enter the community to work, only waiting for the opportunity to come.

Unexpectedly, Ye Er really found the opportunity to work in the community as she wished, and Ye Er was officially notified to report to work on September 1.