Chapter 1262: How to Refuse

In fact, whether a boy likes a girl or a girl likes a boy, if you don't like the other party and really don't like it, it is a difficult thing to get rid of him without hurting him, so that he needs to firmly refuse the other party and not give him any hope.

You don't like him, this is actually a very normal thing, although it is difficult for us to say clearly why we like a person or don't like a person, but in fact there is no love for no reason and no hatred for no reason, you don't like the part of him is not yourself, but you don't recognize it, on the other hand, what is the reason why you don't like the part of him, this needs to be investigated according to the deep exploration, you didn't say some problems in the relationship, Therefore, there is no way to know some things in the depths of the heart.,So if you want to carry out an exploration of the emotional type,,It must be a corresponding exploration from the original family.,Just like the reason why the fat man himself doesn't like his childhood sweetheart,That's because deep down I feel that my childhood sweetheart is the same as his father.,Or.。

It is because the girl's family has a good relationship with his father, so many times when he tells some words, it is almost a reflex to transfer the girl to a feeling of his father and a situation in the environment. However, from the perspective of some judgments in emotional understanding and some ways of model feedback, we must first find some of our own purposes, and experience some of our own feelings in our leisure.

Of course, for rejecting others, this requires a certain sense of boundaries.

For example, he has clearly rejected this girl, but it is indeed difficult to refuse in this matter, and from the interpersonal relationship, there is also a phenomenon that it is difficult to reject others, how to say it, if it is just the relationship between him and the girl refuses, in fact, there is no big classification, if the relationship between the girl's father and the family is told in some special way, so some of the problems in the imagination are more complicated, of course, from the interpersonal communication and relationship of a backdrop, A development in the model and a change in ideas, there is always a corresponding concept, if you are afraid of being rejected after being sad, the heart can't bear it, so it is difficult to refuse, then there is also a sense of boundary here, that is, if the boy rejects the girl or the girl thinks that the boy is because he feels sad, then.

Is it true that the sadness caused by rejection must be responsible for an emotional problem? In terms of a state of pattern and behavior, in fact, sometimes it is really not like this, that is, if you feel sad because of refusal, should you carry out a slight responsibility in other aspects? If you really don't feel that such a thing has a corresponding impact from your feelings, and there is also an aspect of your own in the return of feelings and the classification of goals, then a value generated by the process of thinking and understanding some aspects of behavior is a good way.

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