And just like that, we fell in love. Ye Er returned to school to finish her related matters, said goodbye to her classmates, said goodbye to her teacher, and came to my house with her large bag and small luggage. Of course, there are also some students who feel incredible about Ye'er's decision, but in the end, they still agree with Ye'er's decision to stop losses in time, but their parents don't agree, if their parents also agree, they will also follow Ye'er's pace and choose to drop out of school, because the educational resources at that time are really very scarce, so that it will really make you feel suffocated, feel confused, and hopeless.

However, they didn't know that Ye'er decided to marry me at the same time that she decided to drop out of school. I think it comes from a long time ago, agreeing that we will meet and love each other in this life, maybe this is fate, I must cherish it.

Ye'er stayed at my house for a week, and on Saturday, Ye'er decided to go home and tell her parents about her decision to drop out of school and her relationship with me. It turned out that Ye'er's decision to drop out of school was not known to her parents, and as for our relationship, her parents did not know.

When Ye'er returned home, when she told her parents about this decision, her parents' attitude was surprisingly agreeing, and her father even said with relief: "It's okay not to go to school, I didn't expect you to be able to study until the third year of junior high school, it's much better than your two sisters, they dropped out of school before graduating from primary school, and our generations of fishermen's children can read a few words." As for the university entrance examination, there was a wisp of green smoke on the ancestral grave at all. ”

Ye'er's mother was also there and continued: "It just so happens that your two sisters are already married, and your father and I are fishing on the boat again, and we are always busy all year round, and we don't see how much money we can make, and someone has to take care of the affairs of the family, and someone needs to go up the mountain every day to find them and go home." Now that you're not going to school, you're at home taking care of your home. ”

This was the most simple idea of these fishermen at that time, as long as the children could recognize a few words and not be blind. Up to now, even after nearly 30 years, some parents in our class still hold this attitude to demand their children, and at every parent-teacher meeting, I always emphasize over and over again: a qualified diploma is the best talisman for us ordinary people. However, no matter how anxious your teacher is and how much she emphasizes the importance of children's learning, they still go their own way. Afterwards, discuss this issue with my colleagues, and think about it carefully, really, maybe our requirements for them are really a little too high, a large part of them are running around for their three meals a day all day long, getting up early and returning late, coming and going in the cold and summer, and working so hard all year round, but in the end, they often can't make ends meet, and their lives are stretched, so how can they have time to enjoy education?

Really, many times our fate is destined to be a tragedy from the beginning, but we often don't think so, we often indulge in it, and we can't extricate ourselves. When tragedy struck, we always used the arrangement of fate, the destining of fate and other things that we couldn't see and couldn't touch to excuse ourselves for what we did at the beginning.

In fact, fate is the most unreliable deceptive nonsense!

When you have nothing, your past and present are poor, and love is a luxury for you; Beauty is like the moon in the sky for you, out of reach! And when you have a lot of money, your former poverty is a classic inspirational novel, love for you, more dazzling you; Beauty is a consumer product for you.

Could this be the fate that Yue Lao said? It's all!

My fate has been destined to be a tragedy in my future life since the first time I lived with Ye'er that night.

At that time, I really didn't understand the difference between love and marriage. The point is that my parents didn't tell me this, I can't get it from books, they haven't read books, and they don't know words, they are the same as Ye'er's parents, they are such simple people, Ye'er's parents ask their children to know a few words without being blind, my parents think that as long as I can get a wife, it's okay not to be a bachelor, but their thoughts.

As for "marrying the wrong wife ruins three generations, marrying the wrong man ruins a lifetime." "I'd rather marry a maid from a big family than a daughter from a small family" They don't understand, and they haven't even heard of it, they just work so hard 365 days a year. When there is a tragedy in the future life, when there are all kinds of unsatisfactory things in the future life, they always think that their life is not good, or they think that it is a bad fate and a debt! In fact, many times, our fate is really decided by ourselves.

Girls who have not undergone a qualified and complete education, because they have not undergone long-term systematic training in logical thinking and other aspects, have not read so many books, so it is impossible to know so many people and things, in the adult world in the future, their behavior will be a lot less frames, less rules, they meet people and things with their own intuition, and will not carefully consider their vested interests and the maximum interests between the losses, even if they think, they must not think well, There will always be one thing and the other. Therefore, such a girl is always filled with a lot of wildness, and it is precisely because a woman has this wildness that many men are addicted to it and can't extricate themselves!

Because such girls are not well educated, when they go out into society to distribute wealth, they are often engaged in the most basic and simple jobs, and their income is often the lowest.

At the beginning, I didn't understand these truths at all, in fact, smart men should know that wild girls can chase, but they must not marry into the family to live, otherwise, you must be the one who is hurt.

At the beginning, I really didn't understand, I was always glad to think that my love with Ye'er was providential; As everyone knows, the love between me and Ye'er is intentional for Ye'er.

If my parents could have taught me these truths, and could have taught me to stay away from or have less contact with such girls, I don't know if it would have worked, but at least it had more or less built a firewall in my heart.

My parents, as well as Ye'er's parents, we can't blame them, let alone complain about them, really, in that difficult era, they gave us life and raised us, it was really not easy. Thanksgiving, thanks! Thank you to my parents for giving me life; Thanksgiving, thanks! Thanks to Ye'er's parents for giving Ye'er life!

Later, one of my best classmates told me that he also knew that our marriage would not end. I asked why, and he said, you are a pair of incompatible people, how can you get married in the end? You should at least be a scholar in that era, and Ye'er was able to drop out of school and choose to fall in love and marry you, your future path must not be on the same beat, can you not get divorced?

Yes, reading a book can really change a person's fate.