Chapter Twenty-Nine: Wanting a Child

I'm slowly accumulating my disappointment, but the woman Yanzi doesn't know that she is still so stupid to claim herself by virtue of her thick and thin figure and unflattering appearance, thinking that she is the woman I am reluctant to leave behind in my life, alas, this world is really wonderful, and anyone dares to have such confidence!

In the future, when I met classmates and friends, I still only informed her and didn't take her with me, no matter how her phone was bombarded with dozens or hundreds, or when I came home, she always pinched me and wouldn't let me sleep, if she could stop in moderation, we would be fine. If she doesn't give up, I'll get up and smash the cup, life is so simple, the world is so wonderful, and being safe is the greatest harmony and joy in the world.

However, from now on, as long as it is a quarrel caused by my drinking at night, no matter how much Swallow asks her parents for help, her parents will not come. Later I learned that it wasn't that they didn't want to come, but that they themselves knew what their daughter was doing, and that she and her parents were at home and friends, and that what had happened was something that made them unreasonable, and that in the end, they needed me, and I didn't need them, and that was what made them feel the most wary and careful.

Although we live together with our own thoughts, after a long time, especially as women, we are still so eager to have a child of our own. The swallow wants a child, and the swallow's parents are even more eager to hope that the swallow can give birth to a grandson or granddaughter for them.

Yanzi did not give birth during the first marriage, and it has been nearly two years since I was married, Yanzi still does not have any signs of pregnancy, Yanzi is very anxious, Yanzi's parents are even more anxious, I am not in a hurry, go with the flow, because I have my own baby, so not again, it is not so urgent for me.

Swallow's thick and thin figure and unflattering appearance made me not interested in her, and we rarely lived as husband and wife after marriage. Since I bought the house, Yanzi, Yanzi's mother, and girlfriends have wantonly trampled on my dignity and insulted my personality, so that I can't raise any interest in married life. In fact, the essential reason why a man has not been interested for a long time is not only because of a woman's figure and appearance, but also because of the kindness and tenderness that a woman should have. The kindness and tenderness of a woman from the bones of the body is what obsesses men the most, and it is also the only magic weapon that can allow you to keep men permanently. However, a woman like Yanzi doesn't know that the woman's hole cards she thinks and understands are just because she is a woman, just a woman, and this is the most basic difference between the genders of people, she can be arrogant, she can do whatever she wants, she can do nothing, she can be lazy, she can enjoy a man's kindness to her infinitely and let this man raise her willingly! Is this possible, you say? It's funny that this woman Yanzi doesn't have a hole card, but she still has such full confidence.

Swallow is desperate for a child, and this desire has been particularly strong lately. Every night, Yanzi would pretend to be very unnatural and want us to live as a couple, but I didn't buy it, and one night Yanzi was so angry that she said to me: "If you don't cooperate, I'll go out to find Xiaosan!" ”

"Yes, if you can find the mistress, I will definitely invite you to dinner with your mistress." I replied sarcastically.

In fact, Yanzi's mother, including Yanzi herself, they all knew that Yanzi was difficult to have children, but they kept it from me behind their backs. However, in the long run, the strong idea of wanting to have a child of their own is the most normal idea of a normal woman, and I understand their thoughts. After that, my kindness made me actively live a normal married life with Yanzi, but after two or three months, Yanzi still did not show any signs of pregnancy.

One weekend, at Yanzi's parents' house, Yanzi's mother said to me, "You've been married for so long, and you haven't seen a child. While we can still move, you have a baby early, we can also help you bring it, you can just take advantage of the weekend to go to the hospital with Yanzi tomorrow to check and see what the reason is. ”

After Yanzi's mother saw my casual expression, she said to me so sincerely and sincerely, you don't need to worry about all the expenses of the child's growth in the future, as long as the child is born, everything about the child, including the child's raising expenses and the child's growth expenses, and even the house of our child when he becomes an adult, I don't need to worry about it, because their retirement pension and the house they have now are enough for them to have the confidence to raise our children to grow up.

Although the old woman who spoke to me had come to my home to insult me, she was still my current mother-in-law, and as a parent, I understood the urgency and strong feeling that my child could have a child of her own.

The next day, I took Yanzi and the two of us to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination, and later I knew that this kind of examination was just an illusion made by Yanzi's mother and Yanzi, because Yanzi didn't know how many times she had been to the hospital for a check-up because she wanted to have children when she got married, and the result of each examination was that Yanzi was difficult to have children. The reason why they let me and Yanzi decide to go to the hospital for a check-up after nearly two years of marriage is purely because they want to try their luck with me, and they will not admit that Yanzi is difficult to have children unless they have to.

The results of the examination came out soon in the morning, and my physiological indicators were normal, but the physiological indicators about the swallow and fertility were a mess and miserable! The swallow's fallopian tubes were blocked on both sides, and the doctor didn't tell me the reason, but I understood it with my own imagination, because the swallow's food is lazy and lazy, because the swallow's living habits are unhealthy, and the swallow's body is obese from the surface to the inside.

In the past, when we were walking, in autumn, melons and fruits were fragrant, and the harvest season was abundant. The ginkgo trees planted on the side of the road on our street were all lined up, and the swallow asked me curiously, "Why are some ginkgo trees so fruitful?" Some ginkgo trees are general, and the fruits are very scarce? ”

I pointed to the ginkgo tree and said, "Look closely, all those fruit-bearing ginkgo trees are thin and leafless. And those ginkgo trees, whose fat leaves refuse to fall with the autumn wind, rarely bear fruit! ”

Speechless, when I unintentionally said this conclusion that I had reached after careful observation, the swallow, who was still so interested when I was walking with me just now, suddenly became speechless! My unintentional description hurts the swallow's self-esteem, yes, maybe all things in nature are strikingly similar in terms of physiological indicators of fertility!

In addition, the swallow's blood pressure and blood lipids are also extremely exceeded, which I don't understand, I only know that they are all exceeded. However, there is one physiological indicator that I understand, and after the description of the doctor's image, I quickly understood, that is, the swallow's palace cold!

This is really a good doctor, and a good doctor who deserves to carry out medical promotion and popularization. Faced with my doubts, the doctor teased me and said, you are a teacher, don't you know Gong Han? "Gong Han" means that the inside of a woman is too cold, and it is the baby's cot, which should be warm and soft. But your wife's cot for your baby is very cold, and your baby thinks it's too cold, so he doesn't want to go to bed, you know? If you were asked to sleep in a cold bed, wouldn't you? Not to mention a baby! At this time, your baby has a tantrum and is messing around, your baby is very sleepy and naughty, and your baby wants to quickly find a quiet and warm cot to sleep and rest, you know? At this time, your baby will be hungry and choose where to go when it is warm, the fallopian tube is very warm, and your baby will run to the fallopian tube to sleep as if he has discovered a new continent. However, the fallopian tube is not a small bed that can be used for the baby to sleep in a large enough way, it is very thin and narrow, anyway, the baby at this time is very sleepy and tired, and your baby can't take care of so much, where it is warm and comfortable, where to sleep and rest. Later, your greedy baby slowly fell asleep in the warm and soft environment of the fallopian tubes, and in his sleep he grew bigger and bigger, and the final result was that because your baby continued to grow up, the fallopian tubes were finally burst, bleeding profusely, and it would be fatal! This creates an "ectopic pregnancy", you know?

In the face of my shock and confusion, this very responsible female obstetrician and gynecology doctor said to me teasingly, it doesn't matter, it is impossible for your wife to have this kind of ectopic pregnancy, because your wife's fallopian tubes are blocked, that is unable to discharge eggs, can't release eggs, how can there be a baby?