Chapter 398: Introspection
The son didn't know why he was entangled in these problems, but Jiang Nuan understood that he had realized the influence of his family on Huangjiakou.
That's why I subconsciously linked Tie's affairs with my own family.
He didn't realize it himself, and he had unconsciously touched the essence of the problem, and this kind of acuity, whether it was the third son or the younger son, could not be compared.
The two of them are smart, but they don't think so deeply, or they don't think so sensitively.
"Mother doesn't blame her son?"
"What do you blame?"
"It's okay to find trouble," Boss Huang explained by touching his head embarrassedly, "My son doesn't mean this, he just thinks that a lot of things have happened recently, and they are inseparable from us, and my son feels a little guilty about giving birth to an aunt like this." ”
As he spoke, Boss Huang lowered his head.
He felt like he was going too far this time.
Even if this matter really has something to do with one's own family, it is someone else's mistake first, how can you think crankily because others are miserable.
"You didn't do anything wrong this time, these questions are buried in your heart, they will only become pimples, only by speaking out and eliminating doubts can you untie the knot in your heart," Jiang Nuan finished speaking, and continued to teach earnestly, "Things in the world are like this, different statuses, and different consequences, now, even if our family doesn't do anything, others will do certain things because of scruples."
You don't have to have any mental burden, our family can indeed influence other people's choices, but we can't make decisions for them, the real master, or themselves, we don't do bad things ourselves. ”
"That's right, as long as we don't do bad things," Boss Huang heard these words, and suddenly felt enlightened, and the haze in his heart disappeared at once, "Mother, my son understands, and he won't think nonsense in the future." ”
"It's good to understand," Jiang Nuan stretched out his hand to push open the window, looked at the red plum in the corner, and said abruptly, "It is human instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, most people will bully the soft and fear the hard, which is why some people want to get ahead when their heads are broken, and they don't want to be the one who is stepped on, so they can only grit their teeth and climb up. ”
She will do her best to pave the way for her son, but the future will ultimately depend on them.
Boss Huang's change made Jiang Nuan reflect on himself, whether the decision to directly give up all his efforts to cultivate the boss and the second child was too arbitrary.
It is true that the two are indeed not very smart, especially the second child, who is simple and upright, and not stable at all, which makes people really feel at ease.
But in fact, every child has his shining point.
is like the eldest child, although he is not as smart as the next two sons, but he is extremely sensitive to things, and because of the tempering of these days, he has become very stable.
There is also a second son, who is not very smart, but he is very obedient, and his intuition is very accurate, although he is stupid, but I have never seen him suffer.
The more she thought about it, the more Jiang Nuan felt that she should change her strategy.
All the training plans she made before were mainly based on Huang Xiaosan, supplemented by the eldest and second, but now, she has decided to be impartial.
I used to think that the situation was different, and there were no waves in a safe and stable life, which was better for the eldest and second.
Is this really the case?
I didn't even try, and I denied them, how unfair is it?
As a mother, even if it is for the good of her children, she cannot be so dictatorial and do not even give the most basic respect and trust to her children.
Thinking of this, Jiang Nuan was silent.
She always thought that her bowl of water was level, and she didn't favor anyone, but before she knew it, she almost made a big mistake.
"It seems that I still have a lot to learn on the road of motherhood."
With that, she laughed self-deprecatingly.
"Mother," Boss Huang didn't hear Jiang Nuan's whisper clearly, and asked suspiciously, "What were you talking about just now?" ”
"It's nothing," Jiang Nuan changed the subject, "Boss, you go and call the three of them over, don't forget your cousin." ”
"Cheng, I'll go."
After Boss Huang left, Jiang Nuan picked up the pen and wrote a letter.
The content is still seconded, but not to deal with the Tie family brothers, but for his own son.
Professional things still need to be done by professionals, and it is more efficient to ask the master to teach you than your own half a bucket of water.
Her son has lost a lot of time, and she must seize every minute now.
When the four of them arrived in the hall, they all stared at Jiang Nuan in confusion.
"Mother," Huang Xiaosan asked suspiciously, "Is something wrong?" ”
As he spoke, he glanced at Boss Huang, and he always felt that this matter was inseparable from his eldest brother.
"There is indeed something," Jiang Nuan straightened his face and spoke seriously, "First of all, I want to apologize to the eldest and second child, my mother was prejudiced against you before, and felt that the two of you were useless, and you have always been biased." ”
Hearing this, the four of them were all stunned.
Especially the two Huang bosses, their faces were full of uneasiness.
"What did my mother say," Boss Huang stood up nervously, "My mother is very good to my son, my son is not as smart as the third child, and he can't stand it." ”
"I'm not even smart as my eldest brother," Huang Lao Er immediately followed to persuade, "It's already useless, and my mother doesn't have to blame herself." ”
Huang Lao Er really thinks so.
also began to learn to read, Boss Huang had to be a few days later, but he was the worst one in the family, and he felt that he was the rotten wood that Xiao Si often said.
He knew that Jiang Nuan didn't pay attention to himself, but he didn't mind at all, he was stupid and stupid, and he was slow to learn things, so it was useless to pay attention to himself.
Even if you are self-aware, you actually have a little bit of sourness in your heart.
It's just that I usually smug a lot and subconsciously ignore it.
Hearing Jiang Nuan say this, he realized that he actually still had a little bit of mind.
It was also this sentence that made him completely relieved of his past.
What he wanted, from beginning to end, was Jiang Nuan's approval.
This kind of recognition, no matter how much flesh or silver, can not be replaced.
This sentence also had a great impact on Jiang Chao.
The first time he saw the elders give up their faces to admit their mistakes to the juniors, it was because of this kind of thing that he didn't have to care about at all.
Yes, in Jiang Chao's eyes, this kind of thing really doesn't have to be cared about.
People's hearts are biased, how can it really be a bowl of water, and there is nothing to blame for reusing smart and motivated children.
Whether it is food, drink, clothing, or family business, my aunt is impartial, which is very rare.
She has fulfilled her responsibilities as an elder.
Jiang Chao felt that having a mother like his aunt was a blessing for Boss Huang.
Now, my aunt apologizes for her partiality.
Jiang Chao felt incredible at the same time, he was also very envious of Brother Huang.
He suddenly understood why he liked to stay in the Huang family, it was this kind of respect that made him unable to extricate himself.
The Jiang family will never be able to experience this kind of respect, no, maybe after the career is successful, the elders will put down the shelf......