Chapter 10 Can It Be Whitewashed?
Since this female classmate of mine called from the office that day, we left each other's cell phone numbers, and since then we have always found time to talk about a lot of topics, we are full of new hope for the future, we are all looking forward to the early arrival of this weekend, and we both have that heart-pounding feeling for each other.
After about three or four days, the weekend we had been looking forward to for each other had arrived, but on this weekend afternoon full of infinite anticipation and reverie, I hadn't gotten off work at that time, and I received a text message from this female classmate on my mobile phone: "On the weekend, you don't need it!" ”
Why? What's going on? We had a good conversation yesterday, but why did she suddenly change her mind today? I immediately dialed my mobile phone, but this female classmate of mine didn't answer my phone at all, and I kept calling her phone, but she either didn't answer or just hung up. At that time, the mobile phone did not have the blocking function, and I thought that if the mobile phone at that time had a blocking function, she would definitely block me as soon as possible.
The wonderful weekend date was in vain, and from the moment I saw the text message, this matter has been bothering me, why did this female classmate who had a good chat suddenly change her hexagram, and she didn't give me any reason or explanation, and she couldn't answer the phone.
People, I'm afraid of being hung in such a confused and unclear way. When I got home from work, after I was busy with the child's related things, I kept calling her, but I always didn't answer or hung up, I was going crazy at that time, I had to send her a text message, and asked her in an almost pleading tone, what the hell was going on? My pleading was not to beg for the loss of this classgirl of mine, but for her to tell me the truth.
"We're over, as for the reason, I don't want to say more, you go and ask your good friends around you!" This is my plea in exchange for the text message reply from this female classmate.
It's dark, it's late at night, and now I can't go to my friends to confront such a sensitive and troublesome topic, I have to wait until the next day's dawn to ask someone about it. I had insomnia, this problem haunted me all night, since the divorce, I went to work and school alone with my children every day, and I didn't have time to do anything unseemly. Besides, about the divorce between me and Ye'er, everyone knows that it was caused by Ye'er's eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, and not doing his job, although I didn't tell anyone about Ye'er's cheating and betrayal, but just because Ye'er was addicted to gambling, the reason for our divorce should be very sufficient. Other than that, I really can't imagine the reason why my weekend date with this female classmate failed, and what was the cause of the problem.
Two things like this happened in a row, which made me know the viciousness of Ye'er, a woman, and I don't know what more vicious things she will do in the future, but I am very calm, "respond to all changes with the same", this is the best way for me to deal with her.
Thinking like this, the night passed, and the next day was Sunday, I got up to prepare breakfast, arranged everything for the child, and went straight to Ye'er's friend, who is also my friend, to ask what the reason was.
This friend was our original neighbor, and later bought a house and moved away, but we got along very well, however, after she moved away, I rarely contacted her, after all, she was a neighbor of the opposite sex, but Ye'er and she were very close. When I found her that morning, she seemed a little unnatural, and I wondered how she always felt a little weird, and after my repeated questioning, she told the truth.
She said that since Ye'er moved out of the house, Ye'er has been saying everywhere that I am not, saying that I look at Sven, but I like to mess with flowers, have a short temper, and like prostitutes, and even contracted sexually transmitted diseases, and transmitted the sexually transmitted diseases to her, so she had to choose to divorce me and leave my home.
Dizzy! Everything is reversed black and white, obviously I made mistakes, eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, cheating, not keeping my duty, cheating and betrayal, and even saying bad things about me everywhere, in order to smooth out the mistakes I made, that is, I have to find a reason for derailment and betrayal, which is really the best among the scum.
Yes, I made a mistake, but it was only a mistake, and it was a long time ago, at least five or six years before we divorced, I never cheated and betrayed, and I didn't have the idea of abandoning my wife and daughter, I just stuck to my home for so many years, did my job well, and took care of my children.
As for recruiting prostitutes and getting sick, it was even more out of nowhere, I remember when we were together, Ye'er said that she had a little physical problem, and at that time she insisted that it was caused by my lack of personal hygiene. I didn't pay any attention to it at the time, I was a little bit of a cleanliness person, and it was impossible to make the same low-level mistakes as she said. Later, Ye'er went to the hospital a few times, and the doctor said that it was a common gynecological disease for women, but I didn't take it to heart what the specific disease was.
Dizzy! It's really a rake, isn't it interesting? When Ye'er came home a few years later, we lived together for a short time, and afterwards, Ye'er also said that it was because of me that she was sick again, and blackmailed me for 3,000 yuan to treat her. Really, until the time of divorce, you will never be able to see the character of the person next to your pillow, and the relationship between husband and wife can only wait until the step of divorce to truly see the ugly faces, sinister hearts and dirty faces of those people.
When I was blackmailed for 3,000 yuan, I didn't react until afterwards. How to be with her will have problems, I will not have problems with others! After the divorce, I also found several girlfriends, and lived for several years, but when I lived with any girlfriend, we were very healthy and clean, why did I have problems with her? I'm only now relieved that it was her misdeeds and the wicked people framed me.
Finally, my neighbor friend said to me, I know it's not your fault, I know you're not that kind of person, and I know that she's ruining you everywhere just to make amends for her own mistakes. I sympathize with you, I sympathize with how you were blind in the first place and married such a woman?! However, we have been friends for more than ten years, and I believe that you are not that kind of person, but you can't stand her ruining you and saying bad things about you when she meets people everywhere. But let her go, just take care of your children, and as for the rest, don't be angry, don't think so much, it's useless to think too much, because we all know that she's that kind of person.
yes, what can I do? What can I do? Last time, she was looking for someone to beat me, and this time she planted me everywhere and ruined me, I can't tell my misfortune and innocence when I see someone like her, right? "Pure people are self-purifying, turbid people are self-turbid", I believe that time will prove everything. However, I was relieved that this female classmate of mine had so easily believed the nonsense made up by a gambler. Yes, people who don't believe in me have lost the most basic trust between people, and if you combine with such a person, you will definitely not be happy in the future, and when you think about it, bad things become good things.
This kind of thing has happened twice in a row, which can only show that Ye'er, this woman, is really vicious, she is a woman who is "more ruthless than a wolf, and more poisonous than a snake", I don't know what Ye'er will do in the next few days, I can't imagine it, and I don't want to think about it.
I always firmly believe in the simple principle of "God bless good people", "respond to all changes with the same", this is the best way for me to deal with a vicious woman like Ye'er in the coming days.