Chapter 4: The Greatness of Men
When I learned that Ye'er had cheated and betrayed me before divorcing me, I seemed so calm at that time, in fact, I knew that it was not calm, but when you encountered such a thing that pierced your heart and heart-rending, your heart was dead, your heart was numb, your heart no longer felt pain, and the pain that could be said was not called pain; The sadness that can be cried out is not called sadness. My instinctive reaction was to ask Ye'er to leave my home, and Ye'er was extremely reluctant and helpless in the face of my eviction, so she had to pack up her things and move away from my house.
I'm used to an empty house, but I'm not used to a child without a mother, that's where the greatness of a man lies. Knowing that his woman was cheating and betraying, knowing that his woman had brought him a green hat, but for the sake of his children, he would choose to endure the humiliation that the world could not bear, he would choose to bear the weight that the world could not bear, he would choose to forgive this woman who made him pierce his heart and tear his heart for the sake of his children, he would grit his teeth and blood all the suffering and humiliation he suffered, and swallow it into his stomach together with a cup of strong bitter and choking liquor, this is the greatness of men! This is the great calf licking of a man! He will choose to give up his dignity as a man for the sake of his children! What is dignity compared to a child? Raising one's own children well is the greatest dignity of a man!
In the face of thousands of arrows piercing my heart, facing the heartbreaking, and facing the tribulations that life has given me, I want to be calm, calm like snow, crystal clear, clean and white and chic fluttering snow. I have my children, and my heartbreak does not allow me to cry bitterly, and I do not allow me to tell people about my misfortunes in order to gain the understanding and sympathy of others. Your pain is just a joke to others, and perhaps many people simply ignore your pain. When I hear about life, nine times out of ten I am sad; When I hear about love, it hurts nine times out of ten. There is no word "easy" in the adult world, whose life is not a chicken feather, whose heart is not a thousand hardships and difficulties! Suffering is not depriving you of your happiness; Suffering is crossing you.
When I calm down, I have to think about my children, only when the family is healthy, can children grow up healthy and happy. Besides, at that time, I always naively thought that Ye'er now had a job in the community, and with the job of her dreams, she wouldn't still be as unscrupulous as before, eating, drinking, prostituting, gambling, cheating and betraying, right? My kindness, innocence and fatherly love made me choose to forgive Ye'er, I called Ye'er and asked her to go home, and from then on work hard, from now on, the two of them will live well with the child, give the child a complete home, Ye'er received my call and went home that night.
I gave my heart to a dog, but the dog told me that he still likes to eat! Yes, I didn't expect that Ye'er didn't feel any guilt when she came home, let alone guilt, she still likes to eat. Ye'er, who has not been home for a long time, in the face of my forgiveness, she thought that I couldn't do without her, she thought that I was a man who could let go of her dignity for a woman, she was wrong! Her mistakes emboldened her even more. Maybe she will never know the truest thoughts in a man's heart, although she fools around with those men in the casino all day long, reading countless men, but she may never know how these social garbage animals can be compared to a normal man!
A normal responsible man kneels to his parents, he can only give up his dignity for the sake of his parents and the children he has born, as for others, anyone else, in front of this man, is a floating cloud! But a woman like Ye'er doesn't know that we are different species from two worlds, I belong to human beings, and she can only be regarded as a biped. With her, these indulging in eating, drinking, prostitution, and gambling all day long are all they pursue, and all they pursue is their own animal instincts, a minimum of sensual stimulation, and they have lost their qualifications as human beings. For them, there is no parents, children, husbands and wives of the most beautiful warm pictures and feelings of human beings, they only have the sinking, depravity and the lowest sensual enjoyment of drunken dreams and death, they have no normal human emotions, this is a group of people who can't see the sun, their activity trajectory and range of activities are carried out in a place where there is no sunlight.
I gave up my dignity for the sake of my children and called Ye'er to go home, and Ye'er who returned home and worked in the community was able to provide a complete home for my children. And Ye'er, a woman, thought self-righteously that I had re-admitted her home because I couldn't do without her. This stupid idea led her to return to her old job shortly after returning home, including the men who couldn't do without her, because she needed money. Ye'er went home without any shame, let alone the slightest sense of guilt, but with a kind of high-minded show-off, she thought that I could forgive her so easily, it was because I couldn't do without her, but she didn't know that in my heart, I can treat you as a treasure, and I can also treat you as grass at any time, kicking you anytime and anywhere! Because you're no longer worthy! A woman like Ye'er will never understand a man's accumulation of disappointments, when a man begins to accumulate disappointment with you, that is, the countdown to the beginning of a woman like Ye'er to be kicked out of the house!
A low-level woman like Ye'er will never understand that a man's forbearance is directly proportional to his strength, the more a man can forbear, the stronger the man will be, and his strength will make you not even have a chance to kneel. A woman like Ye'er is just so stupid and stupid to think that I have forbearance and tolerance for her eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, cheating and betrayal, it is purely because I am a wreck, but she doesn't know that I am just accumulating my disappointment.
When she got home, Ye'er became tall and arrogant, and soon went straight to the casino from work all afternoon, maybe it was a love scene, and she didn't go home until two or three o'clock in the evening. Every day, ignoring my persuasion, and ignoring my and my child's feelings, she has lost my original intention of calling her home, what am I doing at home!
Ye'er's homecoming has no value, and she has long lost her most basic responsibilities as a wife and a mother, and it will even bring our family back to a deeper and endless abyss, Ye'er, you can go。。。。。。
Ye'er's unscrupulousness, intensification, madness, and unrepentance finally made me have enough disappointments, and after several expulsions, Ye'er was finally forced to leave my home.
Ye'er, who left this family, finally didn't marry the man who cheated and betrayed her and caused me to divorce twice in a row, which became the most disgusting place for me and my daughter in the future.
At the beginning, he lost his conscience, cheated wildly, betrayed his family, abandoned his husband and daughter, but in the end he didn't come together, it's really funny to think about! This G man also ended up with no personal wealth, this is his retribution!
Later, in order to seek protection from being chased and beaten by those who collect debts, Ye'er soon married a man who regarded her like a dog. When you abandon a man who treats you as his life, God will definitely arrange a man who treats you like a dog to tyrannize you, this is reincarnation, but also retribution!
Soon after the marriage, Ye'er, because of this man's violent beating, called 110 and 120, and finally they ended this farce two or three months after marriage.