I've had enough of all the disappointments in three years, and we're just scuffling together. However, men can say the most ruthless things, but often they can't do the most ruthless things; Women can't say the most ruthless words, but they are often able to do the most ruthless things, and this is one of the differences between men and women. Although I really wanted to smash the hateful woman in front of me with the plastic square stool in my hand for Yanzi's hateful behavior at that time, I was not willing to hit this woman after all, but Yanzi this woman stuck to me like a dog skin plaster, dug out several bloody cuts on my face, and shouted violently: "Divorce!" Divorce! Whoever doesn't get a divorce is a brute! ”

"Divorce, whoever doesn't divorce is a brute!" I chimed in, then went back to my bedroom and hurriedly got some clothes, pushed the door open and went back to my old house on the outskirts of the city.

When I returned to my old house, I didn't tell my daughter about our quarrel, so I borrowed 3,000 yuan from my classmates and asked her to go out on a trip with a few classmates. I lived in the old house on the outskirts of the city for three or four days, and I didn't know that my departure this time was because God was pitying me, God was taking pity on my efforts, and God was pitiing me for not being worthy of her! But at that time, I was so stupid to think that this time it was the same as every quarrel before, and maybe it would be reconciled in a few days. The kindness and cultivation that comes from my bones make it impossible for me to do things that are detrimental to my wife with my conscience, even if I don't love her! Even if we're just going our separate ways!

After about three or four days, one night I went home in the city, and I was going to get my change of clothes, and I was still so naïve to think that this time was the same as every quarrel before, maybe in a few days when we both calmed down, we would choose to be together again, but I was wrong, everything was the best arrangement, God had already arranged for us. When I got home and opened the door, the door was locked from the inside by this woman, I had to keep knocking on the door, and the woman was inside, otherwise the door would not have been locked from the inside.

There was a call coming from inside, and I just kept knocking on the door and shouting, "If I don't open the door again, I'll smash it!" Maybe my words played a role, maybe the help she called was coming soon, anyway, she opened the door.

I didn't pay attention to the woman Yanzi, she didn't pay attention to me, she opened the door and went back to bed to play with her phone and watch TV, I was packing up my clothes. After a while, the rescue soldier brought by the woman Yanzi really arrived, and it was her mother. I saw that after her mother came, she also had a cold face, and didn't say a word, as an elder came to my house, which should have played a role in resolving conflicts and resolving contradictions, but her arrival made me feel like a stranger, and she didn't speak, her face was cold, and the air suddenly became suffocating, she came to my house and walked straight to our bedroom, stripped to bed, and watched TV with her daughter on the bed.

All this is my wishful thinking, I thought that when I returned home in a few days, when the two of us slept in the same bed at night, maybe the conflict would be resolved, and they all said "quarrel under the bed and in bed", I think as a husband and wife, this way of resolving the conflict should be correct. He also said that "going to bed is a gentleman, and getting out of bed is a villain", which is also about how husband and wife get along. The meaning of these two sentences is that as either party to the husband and wife, do not choose to separate because of quarrels, those who do not choose to separate are "gentlemen", and those who choose to separate are "villains". After all, many conflicts between husband and wife are mostly trivial and, sometimes just one action in bed, everything else seems redundant, and when the day dawns, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, they will often be safe and reconciled as before.

Although I don't have love for Yanzi, we just have our own thoughts, but as a second-married couple, this is often the truest portrayal, and the two are just living together in peace. However, it was so amusing to me that Swallow and her mother were sleeping in our bed with her, which clearly made it clear that she and I didn't want to live this life anymore. However, since you don't want to be with me, just make it clear, why bother to be so self-indulgent? What kind of person is your daughter, and as her mother, don't you have a little idea in your heart?

However, as a mother, she really didn't know what to do. Even if her daughter is wrong and does not do well, she will protect her daughter's interests everywhere, and add fuel to the vinegar in front of outsiders to ruin me, this is her struggle and resistance, only in this way will she deny herself and maintain her own and her daughter's tall image in front of outsiders. If she admits that her daughter is bad, she is actually admitting her failure in disguise, and for any woman, she is often unwilling to accept this cruel fact, which is also one of the evils of human nature.

Looking at this funny and seemingly pitiful mother and daughter, I decided to go back to my old house on the outskirts of the city to sleep. My kindness and forbearance made me unable to open my mouth to a woman like Yanzi after all, and said "break up"! This is actually one of my evils, my kindness and forbearance have belonged to a kind of pathological attachment, there is a saying that "excessive kindness, that is evil"! People's justice, the rule of law and humanity make people always let go of bad people, and when you let go of these bad people, they will only retaliate against you more cruelly, and even revenge on society, such examples abound throughout the ages. Sometimes, we really can't always blame and crusade against the evil of the wicked in this way, and a large part of the reason why the wicked are evil is because we are too attached to the good, and it is our goodness that condones the evil of the wicked step by step.

We always try to change a person through educational persuasion, but we often end up failing. People are different, people are also divided into levels, some people are like mud, that can never hold up the wall, her evil is brought from the mother's womb, just like "the farmer and the snake", "the hunter and the wolf"! However, no matter which society or which era there is no textbook that specifically tells and teaches people about human nature and how to identify people, so people will only gradually understand that people are really different from people, snakes have snake venom, and people also have human poison. It's just that by the time the kind people come to their senses, they often only have half a life left, and he has been wounded all over his body.

My kindness and forbearance made me never say the word "break up" to a woman like Yanzi after all, and I had to go back to my old house and wait for it to be natural.