"It's finally over." After taking a bath, Shen Cha collapsed directly on the soft couch, with a helpless face, "I didn't expect that those foreigners didn't cause trouble for us, but their own people caused so much trouble." ”

"Who said that the foreigners didn't make trouble with us? The Ah Bai of the Erhutang who fought with you, isn't he a foreigner? Shen Haolin walked over wiping his hair, and when he saw Shen Cha like this, he snorted and laughed, "Why are you tired like this?" ”

"The main thing is that I am tired, and I am not tired of arranging troops and fighting a big battle." Shen Cha spread out in large characters and closed his eyes slightly, "If Hongye is telling the truth, even if that Ah Bai is not a foreigner, he is also a native of Daxia, and he is still a trouble for his own people." She sighed softly, "The Zhen family's family lives in this kind of deceit and intrigue every day, don't they feel tired?" Just listening to them tell me about the process was physically and mentally exhausting. It can be seen that people like us are still very happy, and those women who struggle and seek survival in the backyard every day are really pitiful. ”

"Whether it's you, Jin Miaomiao and Momiji, or those female generals in the army who are charging on the battlefield, how can you compare with those women in the back house?" Shen Haolin wiped his head, took a new handkerchief, helped Shen Cha up, let her neck rest on his lap, and wiped her head very gently. "You are all people who cherish the righteousness of your family and country, and every day you think and think about how to strengthen your country and not be disturbed by foreigners. If you weren't in the front, how could those women in the back house be able to intrigue with peace of mind? Shen Haolin leaned down slightly, straightened Shen Cha's hair, and continued to rub it, "So, you can't understand their lives, and they can't understand your lives, since you can't understand them, don't force yourself, just complement each other." ”

"That's right." After drying his hair, Shen Cha turned over on Shen Haolin's lap, "However, Zhen Dabao's child is also quite pitiful, he was born with a disease, and he was destined not to grow up that day, and then he was used by his relatives at home as a pawn for revenge." In the hall today, I have been thinking about a question. ”

"What do you think?" Shen Haolin moved Shen Cha back to the soft couch, moved it himself, asked Shen Cha to rest his head on his chest, and said, "For a while, you were obviously in a fugue, pondering something? ”

"I'm thinking about what kind of parent makes a responsible and qualified parent." Shen Cha found a comfortable position in Shen Haolin's arms, rubbed it twice, and said, "Our father and mother are responsible parents, and Uncle Xue and Aunt Xue are also responsible parents, including the first emperor and the queen mother. They have taught their children what tolerance is, what love is, and what generosity is. My mother always knew that I had a lot of grievances against those two people, and she had been trying to explain me. ”

"Smart people can't punish themselves for the mistakes of others, and if you target them, you will become the same person as them."

"That's right, that's what my mother often tells me." Shen Cha snorted twice, "If it weren't for my mother's persuasion, those two would have disappeared a long time ago." ”

"For the New Year, don't be too angry!" Shen Haolin patted Shen Cha on the back, "However, if what they do threatens the safety of Great Xia, we don't have to be merciful, this is great love." ”

"Brother is right, this is great love." Shen Cha sat up, reached out to touch the teacup that was placed on the side, took two sips after touching it, put the teacup back, and lay down again, the whole process, she closed her eyes. "Obviously, whether it is Mr. Zhen, Mrs. Zhen, or Meng Wu and Miss Zhen, they are not qualified parents, and the first thing they consider is not the feelings of their children, but their own feelings."

"It's not just them, even the people around them, the old housekeeper, the nurse, one mouth can't do without the eldest lady, the old boss, they don't take the child seriously at all, Zhen Xing back then, Zhen Dabao now, are just tools they use to fight the so-called enemy."

"That's right, the source of the tragedy of Zhen Xing and Zhen Dabao is actually in them. Because the child is not the one who lives with him, he naturally dislikes and doesn't care, and he takes it for granted that he has no responsibility to discipline the child. No matter what kind of character this child grows up to become, what kind of person he becomes, as long as the child is alive and he is not accused by outsiders of mistreating his young son. But they didn't expect that kind of indifferent and indifferent attitude is very harmful to children, and will plant a seed of hatred in their hearts, and with the passage of time, this hatred will slowly take root and sprout in the hearts of children, and treat anyone and anything is a hostile attitude, if they are allowed to develop, it is really a very big hidden danger. Shen Cha spread his hands, "That Zhen Xing would never have thought that Zhen Dabao would retaliate against him, and he never thought that Zhen Dabao would throw firecrackers into his stove, right?" In the current situation, it is not a lose-lose situation, all the people involved are losers, and no one is a winner in this game. ”

"I remember when I was very young, I overheard my father's and mother's chat, it seemed to be a friend of theirs, and there was something similar to the Zhen family we met today, which made the whole family restless. The couple who had the accident were the eldest brother and sister-in-law of their father's friend, these two people were married purely for the sake of interests, and before they got married, they each had someone they liked, and they reluctantly walked together because of some interests of the elders in the family. After getting married, the life of this family was very lively, with a small fight in three days and a big fight in five days, and there was no day that was not noisy. ”

"Do they have children?" Shen Cha yawned, "If you have a child, the child is really unlucky." ”

"There must be a child, the child was born and sent to the village in the countryside, except for the nurse, the girl, the little girl, there is no one around, the parents don't look at it, so let the child fend for himself. My mother told my father at the time that even if it was a marriage of interests, the two parties could also discuss how they should live in the future before they got married, even if they couldn't reach an agreement, could they not have children? Isn't it sad for children born in this kind of situation that you are reluctant and I don't want to, and the parents are irresponsible and use the child as a pawn to blackmail each other? ”

"Mother is right, what happened later? Did the kid get it? ”

"That kid is a backbone, since no one cares, just take care of yourself, about six or seven years old, he ran out of the Zhuangzi, because those evil servants in the Zhuangzi are also high and low, although this child occupies the position of the eldest son, but does not have the dignity that the eldest son should have, and they are not willing to waste time on him. So I have been ignoring him, and I have been hungry for him for a meal or two from time to time. The kid ran away, and they didn't find out right away, it seemed that it took almost half a month before they realized that something was wrong, and if they looked for this kid again, they would have disappeared a long time ago. ”

"Where did the kid go? Where can a six- or seven-year-old child go? ”

"No one knows except him, and when he appears in front of everyone again, he is already a great general with great achievements, and his official position is far higher than that of his father, and he is a copy of his father in terms of appearance and body shape. His father wanted to recognize him, but he didn't pay attention to his father at all, and directly asked Song Jue for advice, completely cutting off the relationship with the family. ”

"This story sounds familiar." Shen Cha rubbed his ears, "How do you feel...... Brother, is this kid you talking about Wei Daoqing, the general of the expedition to the west? I remember the name Daoqing, or after the separation, he changed it for himself. ”

"That's him!" Shen Haolin chuckled, "This is a more inspirational and positive example of this type of family." ”

"What a strong will it takes to be able to reach the point of General Wei, and a child like Zhen Dabao, who is played with by the women of the back house, may not be able to do it." Shen Cha's voice became smaller and smaller, "Turn around...... Well, write a ...... to Your Majesty Folding, suggesting that he ...... Consider...... Think about how it should be ...... Well...... Protection...... This kind of family comes out ......"

Shen Haolin waited for her to continue, and what he waited for for a long time was the sound of long breathing, and he lowered his head slightly and glanced at it, only to find that this girl had already fallen asleep.

"Good day!" Shen Haolin kissed Shen Cha's forehead, "Get a good night's sleep!" ”