Superwrite (3) Crisis resolution

Today is the Dragon Boat Festival, and before that, I had spent two days of vacation. I'm really idle right now. So, I decided to write about a friendship crisis this week.

Before that, I want to explain that it was the last one that I had a feeling, but in fact, after I felt it, I thought about it seriously, and I felt that my idea was incorrect.

It reminds me of the history textbooks when China was still weak. If it doesn't develop, then how badly it will be bullied. Anyway, this technology has to be developed after all, and I think we are a treasure of feng shui here, why not make good use of it! And if it really develops, then it will be easier for me to find a job when I grow up, and I don't have to go to other places

And when I wrote the first part of the seven subjects before, I thought there were still some mistakes. I think that English is actually quite useful, not that you can use it when you go abroad, you can actually use it at work in China, I used to think that English is useless, I think I don't go abroad anyway, in China are all speaking Chinese, all speak Chinese.

But if you don't go abroad, people will go to China... And that politics is actually quite useful. In the past, I thought politics was useless, because when I first started learning, he always told you how to study and how to deal with setbacks, and I thought that those were useless at all, and they were all big truths. It doesn't hurt to stand and talk

Of course, I still think what he said is useless. Why do I find politics useful now? We've learned another thing now about the law.

I think it's still very useful to study this law. I never knew that Gong Wei had so many rights before. Of course, there is also an obligation, I think it is really important to understand the law, I remember an incident that happened before. My aunt stopped the car while going uphill and didn't hold anything steady, so the car slid down and hit a child and a woman. The woman was a shrew

In fact, I didn't make any money, but I just scratched some skin. The woman went to check it alive and dead, and then after checking it for thousands of dollars, she asked for compensation, saying that she would take the child to buy something to eat. Then my aunt was not happy, and the woman gathered people to besiege my aunt's shop.

My uncle-in-law is also a coward, and then my uncle also has some strength, so he went to bring someone to negotiate with them.

Anyway, in the end, they still came to find trouble, and my uncle took someone there again, and I didn't know how to solve it in the end. Anyway, I didn't look for the police or anything

I think this can be solved with legal knowledge. Why do you have to be so rude? Now that I've learned this, I feel like I have an amulet. *٩(๑´∀`๑)ง*

Okay, let's get back to the point and talk about that friendship crisis

I said before that I have three good friends: Yue: Jane: Yin

Then on Wednesday, the third period of evening self-study, when the class was about to end, it rained heavily. The people in the classroom were so anxious that they could go back immediately. Why is it raining, have been there asking who has an umbrella

I'm not worried because I have an umbrella. So I still learn my English words there. But I'm a little irritable when I'm studying. No, English words are the past tense and past participles. There were four rows, and there were more than a dozen in a row, and I just memorized them all the way, and when I looked back, I forgot them. Over and over again, I'm going to be annoyed, and I'm going to have to check it tomorrow

Then the bell rang, class ended, and everyone went back one after another. After class, you can choose to leave at ten o'clock, or you can choose to continue your studies and go back before half past ten. Of course, I chose to continue to study first, I didn't have the habit of going back so early. Anyway, there was nothing fun to go back to, just listening to other people's gossip, and I still haven't remembered the words, and the rain was still quite heavy at that time, and I didn't want to get my shoes wet.

About ten minutes later, Moon came to us. Yue is in a different class than us, she is downstairs from us. She called us back and didn't pay much attention at the time, I was sitting furthest from the door. I only saw his head and Yinzhen and I both refused, because we didn't want to go back yet. At the time, I thought he was just as small as usual, and when he went back, he would go upstairs to find us to go back together. If there were a series of things that happened in the future, I knew I would have gone back with him at that time!

And then he left on his own, and I didn't notice what was wrong with him. Then when we went back, the rain was gone. Yin was still there in the classroom, and Jane and I kept sighing when we went back. I didn't ask, because wouldn't it be embarrassing if he didn't want to say it. It's easy for me to get embarrassment.

Then at noon the next day, my girlfriend and I ate at the same table. My best friend and Yue are in the same class, and they are both in the house, and then she told me what happened to you and Yue yesterday? Why did he cry, and he cried miserably.

As soon as I heard it, I was blindsided on the spot, why did I cry? Why? Then my girlfriend said that when he came back to the dormitory, he looked at the rain, and he was afraid that you didn't flash to send an umbrella to you, but you let him come back directly, and we comforted her for a long time yesterday...

I was stupid on the spot, maybe you guys are crying for this little thing. Actually, I can quite empathize with that feeling. There is a distance between the dormitory and the classroom, and both are downhill, so the water is all downstream. Almost every time it rains, from the dorm to the classroom, there is not a single time when the shoes are not wet and ...... We also ............ It's like when you were a kid, you worked hard to do housework and clean up, and you wanted your mother to praise you. Then my mother said lightly. That feeling

Then I hurried to tell Yin, who was sitting next to me and Jane went to the dormitory to take a shower.

Yin didn't say anything after hearing this. Anyway, I held back my tears all the way in the dormitory, and I cried in bed all of a sudden.

He's actually very sensitive, and there's actually one thing I didn't write about in it. There was a singing contest at school, and Jane and I had a conflict in the last few days, and a lot of things happened anyway, and then when the competition was about to start, Yin walked to the position and cried and told me. He can't speak, and he's always prone to offending people. Anyway, you can say that you are as miserable as you are. How useless it is, it's useless, and I don't know what he went through? When I was about to ask, the teacher said that it was assembled.

Come on, this incident touched her sensitive heart again. She cried a lot, yes and then I went back to the dorm Jane was doing the laundry. I told him about it and he said he knew it yesterday, and I was surprised to say, you know she was crying. But he didn't know she was crying

He went to eat alone in silence. I took a shower, took a shower, and then went to the next door, that is, the class he was in to find the moon, and then someone told me that he was taking a shower, and then I had no choice but to go first. Because the bell was about to ring at that time. And others say he just got in.

When Jane went to look for him, the bell rang just right. Then Jane came back with a lonely face. He sat down on the bed in a decadent manner, and was about to lie down, but his head hit the pillar next to him. Then she sat up at once, clasped her hands on her knees, buried her head under her and cried. It should be that she couldn't bear it and her mood exploded at this moment. I don't know how to comfort her. That can only be left to it

In fact, I don't need anyone to comfort me when I'm sad, and the more I comfort me, the more I can't help crying. So I'm going to treat everyone equally, and don't comfort them.

At that time, I was thinking, Mom, what's wrong, all three of them are crying, I have to be strong, I am now the backbone of this team! Outcome......

Thursday evening self-study session 3. It was also about to end of class, and I was writing math problems, and then I was solving them, and suddenly I remembered them in a cranky way. When I thought of some things from before, the more I thought about it, the more sad I became, and the more I thought about it, the more aggrieved I became. It was the end of class and I wanted to talk to Jane because she was my tablemate. But there are people everywhere, and I don't want to tell anyone about it.

It happened to be there, and she was the only one around. Well, that's it. I later realized how wrong I was to make a choice. Anyway, I wanted to talk to him, but he wasn't on the same channel at all. In the end, I didn't want to talk to her at all. I've said before that it's good to find the right person, and finding the wrong one will only make you more aggrieved.

That's right, I was seriously ill at that time, I looked at my watch, and ah! It's almost time, let's go. Anyway, I couldn't hold back the tears.

Jane saw that I was about to leave, and he hurriedly followed. But I don't really want her to follow me. I want to refuse, but I can't! I couldn't open my mouth at the time, and I was going to cry when I opened my mouth. I don't cry in front of others. That can't be helped, then you'll have to follow.

Then the road from the classroom to the dormitory was quite dark, there were no lights, only some faint lights. It's just right, no one knows I'm crying anyway. I just walked and the tears flowed down my face. Since I can't talk about it, I'll be able to bear it. I think Yin is a nerd! Was it the day of the singing competition? I watched him say to me like that, I suddenly thought, eh, maybe this can become a bosom friend, and then go back to the classroom after the singing competition, I want to tell him, or let's go early, in fact, I want to talk to him alone, she said, you go first, I still have to study. I've given up on the idea ever since.

It's good to vent my tears, but I met a few classmates, they greeted me, and I had to answer them in a cheerful tone. It's called forced laughter.

When I got back to the dormitory, the lights were turned off, and I was relieved to cry again, but in the end Jane found out, and then he comforted me, and my mood that was about to calm down came again! I really don't need to! I don't need comfort. The more you comfort me, the more I want to cry, so let me be alone!

In the end, he also let me be alone and quiet, and he accompanied me in his way to cry with me! Because the next morning I saw that he also had tissues by his pillow. But I guess I touched his emotions today.

In short, the two of them have been in a groggy state for the past few days, that is, they have to cry every time they come back from looking for the moon.

I've been looking for it a few times, but each time it's either he's not there or he's taking a shower.

What about the two of them, every time they go to look at the moon with very indifferent eyes, and they let her go to play the moon without going. In their words: she looked at us coldly, like a stranger, and we wanted to play with him, but he ignored us.

Then I saw that there was really nothing I could do, I had to save them, and since he didn't want to hear us, I would write to him.

Actually, I'm a lyrical expert, but I like to write letters, write diaries, or whatever, for example, prepare greeting cards for my classmates, everyone draws, and I just write a lot of words. I love to write about things, otherwise I wouldn't have written this book.

The main content of the letter is Yin and Zhen, the situation in the past few days, and some of my things and Yin's feelings. In fact, I didn't write a lot of apologies, so I wrote one or two sentences, because I thought that apologies would seem very false if I said too much, and I would feel that it was completely perfunctory.

Jane didn't trust my letter at first, saying that I don't feel like your ideas represent ours. Then I'll let them write, and they don't know what to write. I think my letter is very useful. I'm going to write myself to tears.

Of course, this letter lives up to expectations. He succeeded in touching the moon, and when we went to look for her again that day, she saw that we had come out on our own initiative, but we were talking to a classmate at the time. He went in again, and then the bell rang and we had to go back to the classroom.

I was thinking that I had already guessed it. I've always had this thought. I thought she wasn't angry in the morning, she just wanted us to coax her. Then I told Jane what I thought, and she still didn't believe me!

Then I asked him to tell me the details of the past few days, when they went to look for the month, because I was not there every time they went to look. I just want to beat them up after I hear that.

They said that one time they went to her and wanted to buy something, but he wouldn't come out, and then they couldn't help but leave. I just want to say that if he doesn't come out on his own, won't you go in and drag him out!

Then they said that every time they went to her, she refused. Then I just want to say that she refuses, you won't be dead faced? Use strong means to drag him away directly.

Me and my girlfriend......... Forehead...... I haven't had a fight, so I'll just say how I coaxed an angry person. At first, I wouldn't mess with her to calm her down for a day, but when the anger subsided, I would be very shameless to stick to her, ignoring all his expressions, he was not happy? Drag it away!

And he didn't let you go, you just left, and she asked us to go back with her before that, why didn't you leave?

People are all trying to coax, but Jane was embarrassed when she heard it.........

After reading it late, Yin went to find the moon, we didn't follow, and then we went down, and they were crying in one place, in fact, the moon was not angry for a long time...

Then in the third period, when the evening self-study was closed, Yue also wrote us a letter. The general idea was that she had always thought we didn't care about him. Because he sees that we are all good. And in fact, every time we go to her, she has to cry and want to forgive us, and he actually wants us to stay, but he thinks no, every time he takes the initiative, he doesn't want to take the initiative this time, he wants us to take the initiative. He wants us to coax her,

In fact, everyone is in a place where each other can't see each other. Sad and weeping, so no one knows who is sad in the mood. I dare say that if you don't communicate, you will definitely continue to misunderstand. Moon messed around, thinking that we didn't care about him, and they would always think that Moon was always angry and didn't want to be okay with them.

I was instantly happy because my letter was written right on point!! Hahaha! I wrote in it that after the two of them cried, and then I said, why are they crying? Because they care about you!

And also! I guessed it!! I'll just say he's not angry anymore, it's just that we're going to coax him! Originally, I thought about it tonight, and I went to the dormitory early tonight to wait, and as soon as he came back, I hugged his thighs directly and begged for forgiveness. I didn't expect his letter to pop out so quickly!

Should I take a break from psychology in the future? Hahaha! In short, this crisis was solved perfectly because of me!

I can't believe it! The three of them have been together for a long time. I've only been with them for a year. I didn't expect to know each other better than they did.

Actually, I think the main reason is that they can't put it down. Treat relatives and close friends, I have always been shameless, and I want to lose face and suffer from it!

What does this tell us? The other party must communicate with each other, if you don't communicate, you can't solve any problems, and you will continue to misunderstand!

Don't die to save face, face can be eaten.

Thanks to me~~~~~ (*^ω^*)

Now it's more than 4,600 words, and I didn't write it twice, so let's do it today... Bye! Happy holidays!