Memoirs (4) Grandpa and Grandma
Today is the last day of June, and tomorrow is the beginning of July, which also means that the results are about to come out (ಥ_ಥ), and the call of the seven aunts and eight aunts is coming. Visit directly
Forget it, don't talk about it, anyway, I think I played normally in this exam, anyway, I don't have any regrets.
Today's talk is about a year ago when I decided to say it, but I haven't started to say it until now. It should have been five years since the incident, and I had written about seven subject teachers in the second year of junior high school, in fact, the purpose of writing this is to draw out the history teacher in the second year of junior high school, okay! Now into the memories.
I remember that the second year of junior high school had just started, and as soon as our history teacher came to class, I was seconded. Because he's an old man, I've actually met a lot of old people! But there has never been one that has struck me so strongly and reminded me of my grandfather......
Grandpa was a very kind person, and so was my grandmother. It's our bear children, no matter how skinny, they will listen to their grandparents. The wardrobe is all very well-behaved, I remember when I was a child, I liked to eat chicken and duck feet or something, I was still studying in the field, and then when I came back from winter and summer vacation, my grandfather would buy me a big bag. He was very protective of us, and every time we were chased by our parents with sticks in the back, he came out to protect us.
And then my grandparents are also very upright people, they used to be officials and leaders, I remember my mother said that because of some corruption, they didn't want to go along with it, and then they didn't do it properly, they resigned, and there was a rival at that time, and then that rival was the villain. Uh-huh! In such a way that it is easy to understand, he became the village chief and swallowed the money in our village alone
It is said that good people do not live long, and disasters will last for thousands of years. My grandfather had lung cancer and was dying, and at this time, the rival went to his grandfather's house and proudly said to him, "You have been planted in my hands all your life." "My grandfather was very unwilling, but helpless.
But then Dad helped Grandpa out of this breath! Overthrew the position of village chief! That is to say, your people have long been tired of him, but there is a lack of a leader, and on the day of the re-election of the village chief, he only got a few votes, and after the new village chief was elected, everyone set off firecrackers to celebrate, but grandpa didn't wait for that day............
It's easy to say, but the effort and price behind it are really too much, in order to canvass for votes, Dad invited people to dinner everywhere and used money to buy those tickets. Then I often quarreled with my mother for this reason, and I was only in the fifth or sixth grade at that time. My brother was in junior high school, and I was the one who faced this alone. They also left me with a nightmare...... [I'll talk about it later, it depends, I really don't want to recall that experience]
The year my grandfather was first checked out seemed to be the year we went back to my hometown, and I will always remember that when I was out of town, I was diagnosed with cancer, and I will always remember what he said on the phone, "As long as I can wait until you come back and call me grandpa, it is enough." ”
He still waited, and that year we had already returned to our hometown for a long time. In the early stage, we often went to accompany my grandfather, and my grandfather was also very clear-minded, and in the later stage, he began to have a clear mind, I remember several times when I went to see him in the afternoon, he still recognized me, and then he asked me. Have you had breakfast? ……
Then he slowly began to lose his memory, often not remembering who I was. Who is everyone? I also went from sitting to lying down and couldn't move. The last moments of my life are here. That's fine, spend it in the room, because he can't just walk around, that kind of lung cancer is contagious, so he can only stay in the house.
I didn't believe in heart-to-heart before. But I think there may be a ...... I remember one Wednesday morning in fifth grade during recess, when I was playing outside. Suddenly I felt a lot of pain in my heart, and it took me a while to recover, and then at noon, when I was on my bike home, I had a picture in my head inexplicably. I saw that my door was closed, and then I went to my grandmother's house
My house is on the side of the road, so when I ride out, there is a road across the road, and I can see my house. Really, when I rode to the side of the road, I really saw that the door of my house was actually closed. Then I went to my grandmother's house
It's really weird, I think...... I would have thought of such a picture, but I didn't know that my grandfather was gone.
Then when I rode to my grandmother's house, my grandmother came out to pick me up, helped me park the car, and said, "You're back." My voice was very hoarse, and then I asked stupidly, "Grandma, do you have a cold?" Grandma didn't answer, just silently helped me park the car. I saw my grandfather's room, and the door was closed. But I still didn't realize anything at the time.
Until I walked into a room full of relatives all dressed in black. The atmosphere was heavy, and I walked up to my mother with a puzzled face, and then she also asked me to take off the red scarf in a dumb voice. Said not to go to school in the afternoon, grandpa left............
It's been five years now, and when he left, his eyes weren't completely closed, I think there are still regrets, all the relatives were present at that time, including the eldest sister who had divorced her uncle and followed her mother, but my brother was not there, and when he called his homeroom teacher and said that they were holding a school sports meeting, my brother was the leader of their class. As soon as he left, the backbone of their class was gone, and their school was still a bit far from our home, so he might not be able to catch up. My brother didn't come back in the end, and my mother also asked the teacher not to tell my brother first, so as not to affect him first, and wait until he came back on Friday.
When Grandpa was in the first seven, my brother was there, and then everyone's mood calmed down a lot and accepted this fact. When I knelt there to send my grandfather, my brother was next to me, his tears have been falling silently, crying very fiercely, and then every time Qingming went to sweep the tomb, he was very serious and serious when he worshiped his grandfather, I think he also had regrets and guilt...
Grandpa, I have suffered a lot from snacks, and my life has finally gotten better, but I have a complexion, but I am gone......
I also want to talk about my grandmother's feelings...... It's not fair...... I don't really know how my grandmother left, because I wasn't very close to my grandparents. I only go back to see it once or twice a year, and I was still dragged by my mother. Maybe she was sick from hard work when she was young. She used to have a very hard life, but she left when she was just getting better. It seems to have left a year after Grandpa left
I remember I was at school the day she left, and in the afternoon school asked us to do hard labor! That's right! It's just that the school building is broken or we have to make up for it, we have to move sand! It was winter, and it was easy to get dark, and after working for a long time, it was almost dark. The teacher just let us go! Some students waited for their parents to come, and then followed their parents. That's it...... It's hard to put into words
Then we were just ready to go, and my dad came just after I walked out of the school gate...... Yes! I'm so tired, after a year, I'm no longer the cute baby I was at the beginning, usually my mom comes to pick me up, and today suddenly my dad came to pick me up! I was suddenly confused, but I didn't ask.
Then I went to my grandmother's house for dinner. I noticed that my mother was not there, and then I saw that they were all dressed in black, and I suddenly seemed to understand something, but I ate silently without saying a word. They didn't tell me either
Then Dad and Grandma were laughing and talking, and I suddenly felt a little unbalanced. When my grandfather was leaving, my mother was also crying. A lump, that's from the heart. You don't have to cry like a dog, but you have to say it...... That's my mother's dearest person, why doesn't it seem like it's okay
But even though I didn't have much sadness myself, I didn't have the heartbreak when my grandfather left, and my grandmother was a very close person to my mother, but it seemed to me that ...... Compared to grandma, the weight is still a little lighter......
My grandmother is also very good, but maybe I am unfamiliar with her because I have been living with my grandparents, and this is what I think is unfair, and I will not allow such a thing to happen in the future (ง •̀_•́)ง
At night, I was alone at home, our door was electric, I heard the sound of the door opening, I turned on the computer to look at the monitoring, and saw my parents come back, my mother was holding a bottle in her hand, which was estimated to be wine, she was holding it and spraying it everywhere, before my grandfather left it was also like this, this is a custom, now I am more convinced, grandma is gone...
I felt sad for a while, but I didn't want to cry, just regretted, I looked at the sky and the moon, mentally recited the sentence "Grandma, let's go" and then went to bed, because it was 11 o'clock at that time
For the history teacher in the second year of junior high school, as soon as I saw him, I thought of my grandfather, and then my respect couldn't help but be very strong, I listened to his classes very carefully, completed his homework very seriously, and usually scored well in the test, so I wanted to repay him with a good score
I don't get distracted in every class, in fact, his class is hypnotic for other students, and every time I go to his class, everyone ignores it, and I am serious to the end, and I also work hard to complete my history homework
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History at the end of the second semester: 56 points
………… Perfect ending............
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