Bi Min was asked, and he was stunned for a while, and then he burst out and shouted: "But those beggars, at least they are free, they can go wherever they want, and they can do whatever they want!" And what do I have! I can only be trapped in this house, fed, clothed, and go to school! ”

"Okay, so have you told your parents about these ideas? What do you want, have you told them? ”

"They won't understand."

"Did you say that?" Zhen Zhen asked, "If you don't say it, how will others know what you think?" ”

"They won't say yes."

"It's your business to say whether you say it or not, and it's your parents' business to say yes or not. But you blame them for not agreeing without saying it, isn't it unreasonable? ”

"You're right. It's that I'm unreasonable, I can't do anything well, and everything I do is wrong. ”

Zhen Zhen didn't expect Bi Min's self-efficacy to be so poor and his self-esteem to be so low. One sentence can knock you down.

She thought differently: "If a person can live to be seventy years old, you are only a third of the way by now." How do you know if the rest of your life journey isn't exciting? How do you know if you're not doing well? ”

Bi Min looked at Zhen Zhen and didn't speak, as if there was a trap in her words

"Would you like to try something you haven't done before? Is there anything in particular you'd like to do? ”

"I ...... I don't have anything in particular I want to do. ”

What kind of parents this is! suppressed all the needs of the child, so that he became a person who "has no desire and no desire" except for fame, and after failing to seize fame, he completely fell into self-denial.

"Let's think about it." Zhen Zhen encouraged him.

"I want to die, but I don't even dare to die." Bi Min has weakness.

"Why don't you dare?"

"I'm afraid my father and mother will be sad. I'm afraid of pain. ”

"That's a very good thing to say because you think about how your parents feel! Yes! Zhen Zhen habitually raised his right hand, wanting to high-five Bi Min, and then was embarrassed to find that he didn't understand the meaning of this action.

Is it a forced retraction? No!

Zhen Zhen said, "Raise your right hand, like me." ”

Bi Min raised his hand with an ignorant expression, Zhen Zhen leaned in and slapped it crisply: "Well said!" That's right, let's give a high-five celebration. ”

Bi Min looked at his hand, and suddenly felt a little lighter.

Zhen Zhen said: "Then let's start with the small things around us." How about we clean up this study? Come on, do it. ”

Zhen Zhen began to pick up the books on the ground: "Quick, take a hand." ”

Bi Min slowly swallowed the action, Zhen Zhen stuffed the few books he picked up into his arms, pointed to the bookshelf and said, "You come to see which books are of the same type and put them on the same level of the bookshelf." ”

Driven by Zhen Zhen, Bi Min quickly packed up the books in one place.

Zhen Zhen looked at the neat bookshelves and said: "You see this is the bookshelf you set up yourself, you know which book is in which position, and you can get it as soon as you reach out and get which one you want, isn't it great?" Yes! ”

Zhen Zhen raised his right palm again, and this time Bi Min reacted much faster and stretched out his right palm. Zhen Zhen encouraged: "Work hard! ”

The two slaps made a crisper sound.

Zhen Zhen looked down and saw that the book was taken away, and there was a layer of ash on the floor, which had obviously not been cleaned for several days. She walked outside and ordered a bucket of water and rags to be brought, but she didn't expect to see the Taishou couple and Feng Qi secretly hiding outside the study. She raised her index finger in front of her lips and made a silent gesture, and the three of them nodded like garlic.

The water and cloth were brought up, and Zhen Zhen took Bi Min to wipe the floor again: "Isn't this kind of manual work that doesn't require too much brains to do?" If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world. Why? House chaos is a kind of disorder, and from disorder to order, it needs to be tidied up. The chaos of the world is also disorder, and the governance of the chaotic times is also from disorder to order, so the truth is the same. When you do a lot of things, you will know whether the written strategy is feasible or not. ”

Bi Min looked up and thought for a moment, then buried his head in the floor again.

Zhen Zhen took the time to tell Feng Qi to prepare for the next link.

After wiping the floor of a study, Bi Min was already sweating profusely, and a flush appeared on his pale face. Zhen Zhen called Feng Qi over and said to Bi Min: "This is my guard captain, Feng Qi, go take a bath with him later." ”

Feng Qi smiled at Zhen Zhen and said, "Miss, don't worry, you must have been taught!" ”

Zhen Zhen waved at them. Previously, she explained to Feng Qi: "Take him to the bath, don't help him, don't touch him, you can wash it for him, you must teach him to wash himself." After taking a bath, he was taught to wash his clothes. If he doesn't do it, you tell him that there will be a reward for washing it. You treat him as if he was thirteen when he was a child, he doesn't understand anything, and he wants you to teach everything. ”

Feng Qi took Bi Min away, and Zhen Zhen called the Taishou couple who were hiding on the side to talk: "Master Bi was a high school jinshi back then, but he failed to win the top prize, he has always regretted it in this life, right?" ”

"You, you, you, how do you know?" Bi was shocked, he had never shown such "ambitions" to others.

Mrs. Bi slapped Bi on the hair and glared at him, blaming him for asking a stupid question. In her opinion, how could Zhen Zhen not know what you were thinking?

Mrs. Bi was already completely convinced of Zhen Zhen. No matter what the rumors are, as soon as Zhen Zhen makes a move, his son is not the wooden man who sits in a daze and lies down and sleeps, it really works!

Zhen Zhendao: "Parents often impose their unfulfilled life ideals on their children, hoping that they will realize that ideal for themselves. ”

Taishou and his wife looked dazed, and Zhen Zhen had to let them be at a loss, she really didn't have time to deal with the complexes of the previous generation.

It's good to maintain a sense of mystery so that they can be more obedient and follow the doctor's instructions.

Zhen Zhen asked: "Master Bi, what kind of subordinates do you like?" Is it only able to write articles, or can you do things? ”

Bi Fa said: "Of course I can do things. ”

Zhen Zhen said: "If Ling Lang enters the officialdom one day, what kind of person do you think he will become?" ”

Bi Fa couldn't answer, Zhen Zhen asked a question he had never thought of.

Zhen Zhen said: "Do you really think that everything will go smoothly if you are admitted to the top prize?" Can you become a capable minister? ”

Zhen Zhen asked Mrs. Bi again: "Madam, how old do you think a person can grow up?" ”

Mrs. Bi sighed for a moment and said, "The woman is fifteen and the man is twenty and crowned." ”

Zhen Zhen asked again: "In your opinion, when a person grows up, what should he learn to do?" Learning to walk at the age of one and learning to talk at the age of two, what should a twenty-year-old learn to do? ”

Mrs. Bi said: "Yes, you should be able to read and learn." ”

Zhen Zhen felt too dissatisfied with this answer. But she found that Mrs. Bi seemed to be a little out of state, she was always staring at herself, blinking her eyes violently, looking at her expression, as if she was sounding an alarm? 166 Reading Network