Chapter 1422: Everyone is a proud individual
Gu Youran smiled: "How can this be an interruption?" I like to talk to you guys and come up with ideas, it makes me feel energized, and I get moldy every day when I stay in the house."
Everyone laughed, but they didn't dare to stay longer, the pregnant woman was easily tired, and she was afraid of disturbing her rest, so she only chatted a few words hastily, and then went to Prince Lian's mansion to see Mingyan together.
As they thought, Mingyan was not doing well.
Since she was picked up by the eighth master from the house on the outskirts of Beijing, the eighth master's attitude towards her is obvious to all, more than ten times more considerate than before, almost the whole heart is stuck to her, and even the pregnancy discomfort on Zhang's side is ignored, and only let the house doctor go over to see.
All the minions in Prince Lian's Mansion can see that the master is planning to reconcile with Fujin.
But Mingyan's fiery heart had already been crushed to gray by him, and he was no longer interested in him.
If she hadn't enjoyed such a relaxing day, she would have resigned herself to her fate if he had taken her back captive, but she already knew that it was so good to live for herself, and she felt that even the man she loved was nothing.
Leisurely they are right, a woman's greatest value is herself.
Realizing your own value is not to make men look at you more, but - to live your own life.
Different from traditional thinking, after reading Gu Youran's books these days, she suddenly realized:
Women are not born with the task of carrying on the lineage;
When a woman marries a man, she does not become a slave, she must obey him in everything, and she regards him as the sky, even if she has no self-esteem and is forced to the extreme by the other party, she must obey the family law of her ancestors, endure and be humiliated
That's not real morality.
They are subject to the rules of morality, but when the other party has no moral bottom line, such morality becomes a knife for them to harm themselves.
It's a shackle, it's hell on earth.
is the most servile without human rights.
A few months ago, she categorically would not have such thoughts, and she would still think that women with such thoughts were unruly, presumptuous, and even debauched, but now that she is in the quagmire, she realizes how pedantic and stupid she is.
I feel that I was born to serve others, and even if I don't have myself, I have to carry out such a morality.
But when the other party hurt her without a bottom line, everything she had endured before became a joke.
It is precisely in this way that she re-examines her life and understands that people live for themselves.
No one has to obey others, everyone is a proud individual.
Therefore, even if Yinxi is very good to her now, so good that everyone around her is moved, she can't accept him anymore.
Because she doesn't feel secure.
I don't want to repeat the mistakes of the past.
He used to be gentle with her, but how long can such tenderness last under pity?
Mingyan knows best in her heart that if a woman wants to live with real peace of mind, she can only be afraid of nothing if she becomes valuable and strong enough to cope with anything for the rest of her life.
And relying on men can't go far.
Even if she marries him, it is impossible to rely on him for the rest of her life.
Men will change their minds and will not hold her in the palm of their hands all the time.
The only one who can cherish herself and protect herself forever is the woman herself.
Seeing Mingyan's look as if she had seen through the red dust of the world, everyone was a little distressed.
Qifujin couldn't help but say: "Alas, now the eighth master is not bad to you, it's better for you to reconcile."