Haoxing asked with a serious face: "What should I do if I meet a frightened person outside?"

Zhen Zhen thought for a while and said: "Ordinary people often crave the care and understanding of others after experiencing danger, and at this time, a caring action, a glass of warm water, and a piece of clothing are worth thousands of words. The feeling of warmth on your shoulders, in your hands, in your body, and the way your eyes see your caring movements are what people need most. ”

Haoxing very recognized: "Therefore, actions speak louder than words." Anything else? ”

Zhen Zhen said: "If you want to say something, the most wrong thing to do is to say don't be sad, don't cry."

"Oh? So it seems that I was wrong in the past? Haoxing said.

"Who have you comforted?" Zhen Zhen asked gossipingly.

"When my mother-in-law died, your sister-in-law cried for days."

"Sister-in-law, you can hug her and say that there is me. That's enough. ”

"Ahem, you little girl, do you know what to hold or not?" Haoxing was ashamed.

"What's so embarrassing about that?" Zhen Zhen said generously, "If you see other people sad, the correct way to deal with it is to give him a handkerchief, he will feel that someone can finally make him cry happily, and the discomfort in his heart will naturally be relieved." You can also tell him that when encountering such painful things, crying and sadness are natural manifestations, which is normal, not a man's weakness. ”

"Do you say the same thing to the kids today?"

"It's a little more complicated to talk to children. Because the little ones may not know what is going on. I'm going to tell him that we were hit by an explosion and caused a lot of damage, but all of us are working together to get through it. They are also assured that their families will take care of them and that life will soon return to the way it was. ”

"Aren't they afraid? Why don't you do it? ”

"If you see it with your own eyes, your child will definitely be afraid. I asked them how they were feeling or if they were worried about anything these days. Children also need this opportunity to tell what they have been through. I'll just sit here and listen to him. Tell him that the fear reaction is normal, and that everyone who has been through the bombing, including me, has had that experience. ”

"And what's the use of these gadgets?"

"Some children don't want to talk about it, and some children are too young to say it clearly, so I can let him draw or express it with these gadgets. In general, it is important to tell what he has experienced, not only to help him understand what happened on the day of the Dragon Boat Festival, but also to allow him to vent his hidden emotions. ”

"Does it really work?"

"Today was the first time. It will take at least a month to recuperate. Later, he will teach these children to deal with the problems caused by the bombing, such as fear of the dark. Encourage him to learn to solve these problems in a positive way, so that he knows what methods he can use to deal effectively with similar situations in the future. This can help children control their fears and grow up better. ”

"I heard you say this, and I think there seems to be some kind of truth behind your set of things, how did you realize it?" Haoxing's comprehension ability is very strong.

"This is Zhen Zhen therapy. But it will be ineffable. Zhen Zhen didn't intend to explain.

"You haven't even finished yet. Does anyone believe it? Haoxing asked.

"Believe it or not is their business. It's my business whether I say it or not. I just need to be myself, I can't control other people's mouths or other people's hearts. ”

"Then you still have to go to the Lu Guogong Mansion tomorrow?"

"yes. Let Xiaoyu and these children communicate more with each other. Children can get support from each other, reduce insecurity, and learn from each other how to deal with problems and get through difficult times. ”

"I don't care what other people's children do, my own sister can't be tired, you have to take care of yourself, don't let your father worry."

"Brother, don't worry, I can take care of other people's children, and I can also take care of my own body. Telling you about my own feelings like this makes me feel relied on and secure. Thank you, brother! ”

"I'm your brother, and I promised my father to take care of you for the rest of your life. So what's the polite way to do? Haoxing was disgusted on his lips, but his heart was like a warm current.

"Brother, you said that my father was originally opposed to me going to Dr. Zhang's for a consultation, and now he agrees with me to do it at home, why is there such a change?"

"You are doing things at home, and you are receiving children and mothers, you can't show up, you can still play your strengths, how good is this trick that my father came up with!" Haoxing touched his sister's head to show reassurance.

"Sooner or later, the Prince's Mansion will know about it."

"Don't worry, you are accumulating virtue and doing good, Dad will definitely be able to help you speak, or he will not support you. I'll help you explain it when I see Hanzhao. If the Prince's Mansion refuses to marry because of this, won't I still have to support you. Haoxing smiled.

"Then I wish you and Dad didn't explain."

"Why?"

"Let them refuse to marry. I'd rather you feed me, or I feed myself. ”

"Why do you still say such childish things! By the way, I thanked Hanzhao for helping you today. ”

"What did you say?" Zhen Zhen is as nervous as a rabbit with its ears pricked up.

"I said you put the jewels in the storeroom, distributed the fabrics to your family, and carried two boxes of books into your own house."

"Did you know that there was a brand new copy of the Agricultural Administration in the box?"

"I've read the book. Now there are them in every county office. It is said that it will spread to every village. Haoxing said.

"Did Han Zhao Hanchen find someone to write it?" Zhen Zhen asked excitedly.

"I guess so. It doesn't really matter who wrote it, what matters is that it was your proposal and it was adopted. Haoxing was also very excited.

"But what should I do if what is written in the book does not match the situation in some places and is not applicable?"

"Do you still have to say that? Isn't it written in the book? Try it out on a small scale first, and then promote it if it has an effect. Haoxing said.

"I know there's this in the book,"

"What?"

"I mean I'm worried that some people are too rigid and won't be flexible, and that's what the book says. Or some people are too unconcerned to do it. ”

"Don't worry, everyone knows that it is better to believe in books than to have no books. Otherwise, if you write a book and let everyone follow the teachings in the book, and don't fight, make trouble, or do evil, wouldn't the world be peaceful all of a sudden? "Haoxing's social experience is obviously richer than Zhen Zhen's.

"I really want to see it for myself."

"I read it, and I'll write back to tell you that it's the same." Haoxing comforted his sister.

"Well, in a word! It would be great if grain production could increase this year! ”

"Like you said, if you do your own thing well, you will have a clear conscience."

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