As an older leftover girl who is almost thirty years old, I have already changed from an ignorant girl to a realistic big sister. Since I embarked on a blind date at the age of 27, I have seen too many men of all kinds.

When I was ignorant, I saw a lot of hairy men. Others, on the surface, are serious, saying that they will take you to the movies, take you to dinner, or ask you out for a walk. Those who move their hands and feet on the road seem to be your object. Others are even more excessive, saying that they will take you to the hotel to chat and watch TV. There are also married people who pretend to be single dogs to cheat sex, cheat money, cheat love, these people had better not be gullible, it's very bad.

There are even those who say that they want to BY you, and they will give you tens of thousands a month. All I can say is, resist the temptation. Otherwise, you won't know if you've been secretly filmed one day. The money comes quickly, but there are also many problems. There are many pregnancies, abortions, sexually transmitted diseases, and so on. Care about your own face, and your parents' face. In this Internet era, news spreads quickly, and losing face is a loss for the family. Don't let yourself act impulsively and regret it later on.

When I was younger, I always wanted to talk to someone, and I didn't want my parents to interfere. It's a pity that after talking about two or three things without any results, I slowly looked down on emotional matters and no longer entangled in love and love. Commuting from 9 to 5 every day, playing games, reading novels, anime, and chasing idol dramas, the day basically passed like this. You won't be bored, and you'll be free. You can do whatever you want, and you don't have to wait for the information of the object every day, and if you can't wait, you will be sad and sad and feel sorry for yourself.

At the age of 27, I'm not in a hurry, but my parents are starting to get anxious. Every day, I am urging marriage and helping to introduce partners, for fear that my daughter will not be able to get married. Tell me, now that you are young, you can still pick a partner, and the older you get, you are waiting to be picked. I was annoyed, so I obediently went on a blind date.

The object of the blind date is basically introduced by the parents' relatives, friends and sisters. I've also met on several dating apps.

The people introduced by my parents' relatives and friends are basically around the age of 30. The economic conditions are not too bad, at least I have a car or a house, and I still have some savings if I am not good. But these good conditions have more or less some problems, either the face is crippled, full of acne pits, or the face is pitted as if it has been splashed with sulfuric acid (appearance problem); Either the height is too short, generally about 1.6 meters (height problem); Either they are picky and think that this is not good, and that is not good (too demanding); either can't speak, or speaks too straight (the way of speaking); Either very passive, if you don't contact me, I won't contact you type (behavior); Either they are busy with work and don't have time to find a partner (work first); Either parents are picky and destroy their children's feelings (parental interference); Or, like me, in order to cope with my parents, I was forced to go on a blind date (not in a hurry).

Blind date man 1: Are you working as a clerk now? Clerks don't pay much, right? Taobao makes money, why not do Taobao? I am now working as an IT technician at SZ with a salary of 9,000.

I was thinking ??? Is this looking down on me? What do I do, do you have to take care of it? Taobao makes money, I will make money if I do Taobao? So easy to earn, why don't you do it? Besides, the other party with a high economic level of SZ does not include food and housing, and the salary is 9,000 very high? Does it cost nothing to rent a house for dinner?

However, what this kind of person said may be unintentional, but the listener, especially the woman, has a big brain, and she doesn't know where to go. And he didn't know it, and a few days later he said that he wanted to meet the woman's parents. You can't get past the woman's level, and then it's even more difficult, okay? If your conditions are not good enough for the woman to be willing to accept this blunt speech, people simply won't give you a follow-up.

Blind date male two: (The two sat for ten minutes before holding back a sentence, which was particularly embarrassing; This kind of object, if the appearance or economic conditions are average, the woman also doesn't want to find a topic, so she passes directly. ）

Blind date male three: (I haven't met, it's purely a WeChat chat.) You've been slow to come back, and you've been waiting for a long time; Or make him angry, he can slap you in the face. You've talked about so many people, it's the equivalent of being a lover for someone else for a few years. It's not a yellow flower girl, so what are you waiting for? Just like this, when will you find a partner? The conditions like mine are all good, and you still don't grasp it? Are you waiting to die alone? I am willing to associate with you, even if I look up to you, not dislike you. If you are willing to socialize, you can reply to me.

What I thought at the time, you didn't dislike it on the surface, but between the lines were sarcastic words. Is this a human thing? Everyone is a product of nine years of compulsory education, why are you so good? Can you be merciful, leave a way for others to live, and accumulate some virtue for yourself?

Blind date man four: (I met on social software, purely online chat.) It seems that his own conditions are very good, and he does a small business. Send me a photo of the deposit balance, real estate certificate, driver's license, house car; The disadvantage is that he is an uncle in age, divorced with a baby. Talking makes him angry, and he can slap me in the face. Thirty-year-olds, what else to pick? I can provide you with food, clothing and entertainment, and if I can take a fancy to you, you should burn high incense. Still grinding there, who has so much time waiting for you? Isn't it waste to write from home and not go out to work? Don't you marry and wait for your parents to support you? You gnaw at the old, is there any meaning in this life? What is this not waste?

What I thought at the time, delete each other, uncle. If you can't speak, you deserve to be divorced and single for so many years. I take feelings seriously, and it is impossible to get married in a flash, and then cultivate feelings after marriage.

Blind date male five: (Blind date also seeks the opinions of the people around you) I showed my senior sister the chat history of the two of us, and she thinks that you should be testing me when you speak. You shouldn't be such a superficial, realistic girl. But I still think it's better for us to be ordinary friends.

What I thought at the time, I don't want to do it with ordinary friends, okay? When talking about the object, you also need to ask how the other person is, who is talking to the object? Don't have an idea yourself? What others say is what it is? I also asked the people around me a few times, won't the woman get angry when she hears it? Be all abroad.

The man said that I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful like a flower, which is all. It's good for women to listen, otherwise it will really be a big family waiting for you after marriage. Not only do housework, but also take care of children, but also support in-laws, husbands and children. A yellow-faced woman, I still have to dislike you for not working. To live on him is simply undignified.

Of course, I'm talking about a small number of men. After all, I'm not married, and what I've written is only what I've seen. Most men are still good, after all, divorce is only a minority, which means that most people are still happy in marriage. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, trivial things, every family will encounter. Let's do it and cherish it.

In this day and age, there are too many men and women left. Both men and women are stressed and have different problems to face.

Personally, I think that the woman should be more attentive, be more vigilant, and not be carried away by sweet words. Boys too, they have to protect themselves outside, and now they have wine trays, meal trays, game trays, etc., as well as fairy jumps. It's a lot, it's just impossible to prevent. If you encounter something that makes you feel wrong, quickly find a way to evacuate.

Finally, I hope that all the remaining men and women will find a partner as soon as possible, and the lovers who have a partner will eventually become dependents, and the married marriage will be happy and happy. If you are divorced, you don't have to worry, you will find a partner.