If there is another person who understands the shame of waste and understands the finitude of his life, and does not waste too much time on things that are not necessary to be wasted, then in this way, they will be able to devote more time to what they should spend, and then continue to work in one direction, and finally become an expert in this field, or make good and great achievements in this field.

At the same time, we should not be arrogant, don't think that we are too unpunished, we can understand how many people in the world have achieved great things, are the kind of people with outstanding talents, undoubtedly talented people are indeed easy to achieve things, but this is not absolute.

Because a thing makes a person rich, success often does not depend entirely on talent, but also depends on the opportunity of the whole person, and the opportunity is not the opportunity and opportunity that can be obtained casually, it is left to the prepared people to deal with such a problem, many people must have heard, but have heard, but not everyone understands or understands, and there are still very few people who really understand the truth of this sentence.

Because they have seen and heard, too many talents are decided, so that they have no way to believe in themselves, and some people have failed too many times, and they have failed again and again, they are about to lose confidence, and it is indeed easier to subvert peace and contentment and peace, but what is said well, the wise man has a thousand thoughts, and there will be a mistake. A fool will eventually get something out of his thousand thoughts.

This is all told by our ancestors, how can this be a thing that is also rich in life experience and truth, people always can't think of it, and every day they need to believe the gossip of those media tabloids that come out of nowhere.

Those people are ill-intentioned and ill-intentioned to a large extent.

Their purpose is to create anxiety in some way.

Then they're willing to come up with a way to release anxiety when they try it, and then come and harvest people's money.

After we understand the real reason behind this, there will be many people who will become a little more confident, but why didn't we be more confident before? Why do you just trust others casually? There is a good saying, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, this time after understanding in this place, then we don't just understand such a problem simply.

We need to extend this kind of thinking to the back of our lives, and let us know one thing, and that is not to trust others easily.

When we hear about this kind of thing, we have to think about one thing, whether it is the right thing.

And according to the right and wrong of these things, we should not use perceptual thinking, but should use our rational thinking, because rational thinking is still not subject to any constraints, is 1 is 1 is 2, and the results analyzed in this way are the most accurate, and perceptual thinking is likely to be affected by many things, so the results we get in the end are not necessarily completely correct, and even a high probability will be some special emotions, which will lead to their own overturn.

Don't think that such a thing is alarmist, we can turn the page of history and take a look at those people with lofty ideals who don't know how many people in ancient and modern China and abroad, because some perceptual thinking and judgment finally led to a misstep and hatred for thousands of years.

It is undoubtedly painful for us to have such a thing happening. Even if it takes endless effort, there may be no way to recover it.

So we have to do our best to achieve our desires no matter what.

It is to realize such a wish, we must be careful not to let ourselves make a major mistake, once a major mistake occurs, then the price we pay may be extremely huge, and this price may make us regret and pain for life.

If I say that I have not done something in the end, and still leave endless impressions and pain, then I am also a failure, which is likely to cause a positive and optimistic person to become introverted and silent, which I have never tried, and such things want to avoid, to some extent it can be done, but to do such a thing, it must require a person to keep thinking anytime, anywhere, all the time.

In this way, we are able to get timely and accurate responses and feedback when things change on our side.

When we introduce this kind of feedback, we can constantly adjust our plans and perceptions, and then we can keep our thinking and reality in sync as much as possible.

Either we find the result, or otherwise, we get the judgment of the result, which is undoubtedly the most accurate, with the most accurate plan and judgment to execute, what we should do, then in the end we get the result, unconsciously, it is possible to bias the solution we want to get.

How can I say it, we can think about it, the world has changed all the time, if we use an outdated and disappearing news to guide the world that we have changed, then the final result will definitely not be correct, for example, yesterday a pound of fruit sold for 5 yuan, but tomorrow it may become 8 yuan, if we can still save 10 yuan to buy two pounds of fruit at this time, Then in the end, we will find ourselves to buy it, and we can't buy it at all, and the final result is undoubtedly disappointing.

After all, I have worked hard for so long, and finally when I was about to see the results, I found that my thinking was completely wrong.

That would be a huge blow to a person whose normal mind is not so tenacious and determined, and such a blow may cause them to collapse.

What is the point of getting such a result that none of us want to see, and if it doesn't necessarily make people feel that it's not worth it?

So if we don't want our efforts to be in vain, then we have to be clear about one thing, and that is that we have to be vigilant all the time, and always look at the changes around us, and incorporate these changes into our thinking, and these harsh people will adjust our behavior and the way we do it.

In this way, we can have the greatest possibility not to take a detour, not to embark on a wrong road, so that we have spent too much effort on the wrong road, and when we look back, we will find that we are so stupid, even if we have too many things to do in our hearts in the future, we may lose that self-confidence and courage because of this implementation.

And it is also possible to find that you don't have that much time to support yourself to accomplish such a thing, then such a thing will undoubtedly feel very sad.

However, at the same time, we must always consciously cultivate our ability and ability to withstand setbacks.

Because even if we do more protective measures, we can't guarantee that some bad things will come to us, such things are often difficult to control to some extent, they are completely out of our control, and if we don't prepare in advance, if we don't have a strong heart in advance, when such things suddenly come to us, we may feel extremely uncomfortable, and then the spirit is greatly impacted.

So much so that we become confused.

The beginning of a person's becoming ordinary and mediocre is not that they start low, nor how high they start.

It is the loss of self-confidence and the loss of courage, and a person who has no self-confidence and no courage is undoubtedly a cowardly opportunity in front of them, and they may not be able to seize them.

Because they may be cowardly and they will worry a lot, and it is estimated that they are afraid that time will be wasted if they are constantly thinking and worrying. And then the opportunity was missed.

In the end, they found out that in the end it was just an empty joy they would feel regretful, if they didn't care so much at the time, didn't think so much, and then they still had the opportunity to seize it, they might be able to turn over and make their current class, but there are no regrets in life and no regret medicine to buy, so they are only immersed in endless regrets.

And then those who have a bad mentality may have no way to reply at all, there is no way, after all, this is caused by them, since they have walked down, then they have to reap the consequences of their own contact.

These are things that others can't help us to bear, after all, this is our own demons, after all, the bell needs to be tied to the bell, and the only person who can unlock their own demons is themselves, of course, others can also play a certain auxiliary role, but the most important thing is to look at yourself.

If you can't get out, then it means that it's really hard for you to get out.

Therefore, those who have no way to help themselves out from the heart are very pitiful to some extent, but at the same time, they must also bear it, after all, their own responsibilities should be fulfilled by themselves.

This is where the cruelty of this reality lies.

But we can't escape, we have to face, if we only know how to blindly escape, then our ability will not get any growth, when the crisis comes, if our ability is not enough, then we have no way to save our own life through ourselves, we can only rely on others, and relying on others is very easy, but at the same time not very reliable, because we don't know how much those who can help us can help. And even if he can help us a lot, it is not necessarily that they can always be there for us to help us solve the crisis, there will always be a moment when we need to face it alone.

At this time, we are the only ones who can rely on ourselves.

And at this time, if you can't help yourself solve it, then the result is obvious, that is, you won't have any results.

Don't feel that such things are far away from us. We live in a world where we face challenges all the time, and if we are not adequately prepared, we may be caught off guard when those crises strike suddenly. At worst, we may experience pain, and at worst, we may lose our lives.

This kind of thing sounds terrible, and the reality is so terrible, the reason why we don't realize their horror is because we have seen too little, when we really enter the society, do not rely on our parents, we can only rely on ourselves, then we will find that the world is not as easy as we imagined, the reason why we feel relaxed now is only because there are some people behind our backs who have paid for us and contributed to us.

If there is no one to contribute without their efforts, we may feel much more difficult now, but what, when we feel relaxed now, why can't we find out such things in advance, and then make a plan in advance, that is to work hard in advance, when we can't rely on them, at that time we have seen the wind with the wind, not before we didn't realize it, and then lead to ourselves in a mess, and when they can't raise us, We hadn't grown 1.1 drops of wings yet.

This will not only make them feel uncomfortable and painful, but it will also make them feel uncomfortable and painful, and they will feel uncomfortable because they have put so much effort and energy, but they still do not have the slightest bit of consciousness, and in the end they still live as they do not want to see. I also feel that all my efforts in the previous decades have been in vain.

And seeing that we still can't feed ourselves back at that time, they will also feel regretful.

Of course, in most cases they will not blame us, because his love for us is selfless, it does not need to be giving, it is the purest such pure love, it is difficult to find it in other people except in our parents. There is nothing wrong with such a thing, after all, they gave birth to us, we are their children, and they watched us grow up. So it's not a no-brainer.

But we should not be glad about such things, but rather we should feel uncomfortable. Because when we should have fulfilled our responsibilities, we have not been able to fulfill our responsibilities, they have given us so much, they have raised us for so long, but we have no way to return to consciousness in the end, shouldn't we feel ashamed and guilty?

Presumably, as long as there is a little bit of conscience, people will feel sad and guilty because of such things, so if we feel guilty, then it also prompts us to do it.

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