Man is such a creature, in fact, he constantly deceives himself again and again, and he does not want to believe in the final result again and again, and it is these thoughts that constantly strengthen his own not failure, so the farther away he deviates from the truth of the facts, the farther he deviates from the truth of the facts, and then he suddenly accepts the truth that is difficult to accept. People will feel extremely uncomfortable and extremely uncomfortable, especially human nature, we have no way to avoid it, what we can do is to understand human nature at the same time, at the same time grasp the law of development of things, the combination of human nature and the law of development of things, in order to reduce the harm to themselves, this is the only and best way. Anything else is nothing but self-deception.

We live in this world, and everyone wants to live a happy life.

It's hard to say this kind of thing, it's easy to say it's simple, it's hard to say it's because you want to get such happiness, in fact, you need to do our best to say it's simple, in fact, it's also simple because the law of happiness is traceable, he is not as illusory as success Happiness only needs to have a sincere heart, find a person who agrees with you, this piece can get happiness, of course, happiness is also divided into big and small happiness, it is indeed not too difficult, but big happiness may not be so simple, what does big happiness include? That is, it is more difficult to include the happiness of all the people in the world, including the happiness of everyone around you.

Because everyone's thoughts are different, everyone's willpower is different, and everyone's concepts are different. If we forcibly push them on, they are unwilling to do on the road, may make them feel very disgusted, and even will not listen to us at all, even if we push him up, they may also be unable to persist for a long time due to their own Bian Que, the final result may still be anything, and they will not be able to do anything to pay attention to an effort, a long time of effort, a lot of things, a short period of effort, a short period of effort, the harvest is very slim, only continuous accumulation, When the accumulation of quantitative changes, he may undergo qualitative changes, such a thing is very simple, but there are really few people who really understand this truth.

Because if you want to get big things, you need to go against people's inertia, against people's nature, many times some people's willpower is not so strong at all, when there is no absolute external environment to oppress themselves, they can't make difficult changes, such people are actually very sad, they have been enslaved by their own ** and heaven**, there is no freedom at all, their so-called freedom is free, but it is just a pastime that overdraws their potential.

Such a pastime, such an overdraft, is in a way very sad.

Why? Some people may be penniless, have nothing, nothing, at this time they need to work hard to change their lives, but the poorer they are, the more they have no way to make changes, and in the end they can only stand still in their class, and they can't even maintain the same place, and even worse than that worse reality, so that they can't survive, in that extreme case, some people may burst out of tenacious willpower and survival, they may undergo a huge transformation, And some people are like broken jars, they feel that it doesn't matter, that's it, and it doesn't matter if they live for the rest of their lives.

They see the world as very negative.

They can't be interested in doing anything, because they feel that even if they give, they won't get anything, but is it really true? It's not, it's just that they have never paid and they don't know what they will get after the output, plus they are around that kind of class, and they must see people with classes, they see too much helplessness in this world, so they are subjectively pessimistic and think that their subjective will can't play any role.

In fact, this is just a kind of self-deception and a kind of arrogance, maybe some people say how can this be considered arrogance? They are obviously living so humble, and anyone who gives him some food, they would rather lay down their dignity, how can such a person be a proud and comfortable person? In fact, the reason why such people can really intertwine is because they are very subjective and very sure that they have no power, they do not have a future, and they have no possibility. If they didn't know, how could they be so sure that they were that kind of person, and such decadence was, to some extent, a manifestation of arrogance. We must abandon the extreme character, have a good character, have a moderate character, only in this way can we overcome obstacles, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, we can calm down, do not feel so uncomfortable, do not feel so painful, and then slowly and patiently find the things that they need to change now, and then slowly change them.

For some people, what they may need most is patience, love is willpower, and when they have patience and willpower, their level may now usher in a huge change, such a change may not be aware of it, it belongs to such a change did not come and did not happen, the main reason is that they did not dare to try, they subjectively gave up, thinking that they have no future, because they have no possibility. Actually, such a thing is very sad.

Such people are also very pitiful, and some good words say that the poor must have pathetic, and the pathetic must have pity.

The hateful will have pity, and the wretched will have hate.

Although this sentence is a bit awkward, it makes clear the truth of many things, the reason why some people are so pitiful, some people are so anxious, and so poor, in fact, there is a reason, the reason is that they have some bad character, some pessimistic and some cowardly character.

If they can change, realize that this is not good, and quickly leave these things behind, and start to meet the future with positive energy and yearn for tomorrow, then their lives are likely to change dramatically because of such a change in mentality.

People have unlimited possibilities and opportunities from a young age, we should not be too arbitrary, and we should not be too decisive that they are not that material, but the vast majority of people in the world are still mediocre, and those mediocre people can break away from their own class and affect a better life, which fully illustrates a truth, for ordinary people for ordinary people there is also a turnaround, as long as we have hands and feet, there is a chance to possibly, even if we lose our hands and feet, We can also be redeemed or changed in another form, standing under the heavens, without bothering those who are in the middle of production, although they are physically disabled, but they have stronger perseverance. There is a good saying, if God closes a window for you, it will inevitably open a door for you, and God will close a door for you, and it will definitely open a window for you.

If we don't look closely, we may not be able to find such a truth. But when we look closely at the people around us, we may be able to see these truths easily and clearly.

And then we have discovered these truths, but we do not use them in our lives, in fact, it is useless to some extent, we must discover them, and use them flexibly in our lives, and take them as warnings, and take those experiences that we see in life are good, and we learn from them as the stories and laws that we take as warnings.

Constantly acquiring good things and constantly changing bad things, then in this way, our character and personality can be well improved and perfected.

The people who don't have much time are we going to get better and better at what we do, so much so that later we get the vast majority of what we want.

Almost everything is constantly accumulating slowly, when the accumulation is more, it will slowly form a huge change, when you don't start to accumulate all of a sudden want to eat a fat man, then at this time people's mentality is not right.

With such behavior, with such a mentality, the final result must not be very good, because it is very simple, such a mentality must not be able to make a correct behavior, and without the correct behavior, it will inevitably not get a good result, everything is the end of the causal cycle of cause and effect, and we know that cause can also infer a certain effect to some extent.

Even I may not be completely in line with the future changes, but there must be something similar to that in some way, so that it is enough, and the prediction of the future is not bad, and it is not something that can be done by man, perhaps only God can do it.

Even God may not be able to do it.

From this, we can see that such things and such ideas are very absurd, and we must throw away the absurd ideas in our minds and instill in our minds the kind of practical methods and solutions, so that we can become a man of action, a down-to-earth idealist, rather than a fantasizing in the sky every day.

Some ideas, some solutions do sound very comfortable and comfortable, but if we sell carefully, we can find that some ideas, some ideas cannot be implemented. If you deliberately maintain it when you know that it cannot be done, it is very likely that some unacceptable bad results will happen in the end.

This may be acceptable, but some of the results may lead to the biggest consequences, and then I may engulf myself and even the people around me, making them feel painful and uncomfortable.

Each of us has a certain conscience, looking at those who care about themselves well, because they are implicated, everyone must feel uncomfortable, and some people may fall into constant torture because of such things, no matter what, they can't pull it out, unless the result of the matter does not cause greater consequences.

But is it possible for such a thing to be possible, but the chance is slim, so such words are largely unsolvable, here tells us a fact, that is, we don't let such a thing happen at the beginning, try not to make mistakes at the beginning, small mistakes can be big mistakes, once a big mistake is made, it is likely to cause great harm to us and others, so that we and others spend countless hours in the future It is difficult to completely repair the scars in our hearts and small mistakes. To a certain extent, we still try our best to avoid it, but we also have to be clear about the fact that we are all human beings when we think and do things will inevitably make mistakes, which is understandable, it is understandable to make some small mistakes, but it is unreasonable to make small mistakes for a long time. Such a small mistake made for a long time, mistakes to a certain extent, in fact, is a manifestation of their own lack of effort, some people may work hard, but they may be fooled by others, so at this time we must begin to reflect on ourselves, what is wrong with me, where I need to improve, find out where the problem is, the key. If we fail to grasp the key to the problem and the core of the problem, we will be able to accurately and greatly stifle those mistakes, so that we will return to the right path again. Some people may say that this matter is too difficult, and we don't have such a ruthless vision without such a far-sighted vision.

It's true that the vast majority of people can't have such qualities, but if they can't have such qualities, they can't do that kind of thing. The answer is obvious, absolutely not. You have a good saying, there is always a trace of the wise man in a thousand miles, and the flame is high, even if we continue to think, we can also get some good solutions, so when the individual can not achieve it, we must learn to be flexible, that is, with the help of the strength of the team, with the help of the strength of others and themselves to think of a better way. In this way, the problems we encounter may be able to be solved, of course, some problems can not be solved is also a norm, and no one can guarantee that the problems they encounter can be solved perfectly, even if the talent has can not be done.

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