When we really understand these truths and understand these things, our lives may be because of different text messages, because we finally begin to admit our mistakes, and finally start, we can change ourselves little by little, instead of always deceiving ourselves there, and have been immersed in our own world pollution, once in the time we have constructed ourselves, it is very pleasant, but for a long time, we have been in that kind of thing, we also mean that we have lost, know this thing, The ability of this value.

Because in the world we have constructed, we are completely inclined to our own to a large extent.

The end result of escapism is to cause us to have a wrong perception and deviation of the world, which means that we have lost the ability and qualification to understand the real world for a long time. And it's still very difficult to do, even if you have a very innocent self, but such a self, to some extent, is not conducive to your own survival in this world, because it's a good thing to come over every day, but this world is not as we think, infinite There are some competition and disputes, if we think that the world is so beautiful, we are likely to be counted by others when doing things, and we don't know. Some people may think why the world is so cruel, why is there so much competition and strife? Isn't it good to say that there is less strife and competition among everyone? In fact, the existence of this kind of thing also has its inevitable significance. What is the meaning of this statement? In fact, it is very simple, competition and strife is a kind of circle power, the driving force that promotes people to improve themselves and progress, if they lose their spirit and strife, many people will feel too expensive and comfortable and give up competition. In the comfortable environment where people live for a long time, people have no positive fighting spirit.

Without struggle, it means that we can't improve, and it's hard to make progress in this time, so if you think about it this way.

We will find that the struggle actually has a practical meaning.

Learning to be as simple as we imagine can be useless, except for trying to hurt people's feelings for each other, there is no use, if we still have this idea, to a certain extent, it really seems that some children have his two-sided nature in everything, we don't only see his bad, but also do not perceive his good, when we perceive its good, we will find that the existence of some things has its real inevitability, with its practical meaning.

We should not always see only one side of it, but should diverge our thinking, only in this way can we understand a thing more comprehensively, and after we have a more comprehensive understanding of a thing, we will find that the world may be completely different from what we saw before, or at least the gap is quite large.

With such a huge disparity, sometimes we may wonder if we have lived in vain, but in fact, many things are not like this.

It's just that because we used to look at things too narrowly, it constrained us, and we didn't have a good understanding of the world. However, we must not be too depressed, because as long as we live, as long as we are willing to work hard to struggle, to fight, we will one day be able to completely obscure the true appearance of the world, even if there is no way to peep, the world is complete, or can support the tip of the iceberg, for many of us are a kind of attraction, I don't know how many people in the world can realize their wishes, and I don't know how many people in the world can really understand and understand, In this world, we don't want too much luxury, sometimes we can get some,

We should learn to be content, instead of being content after having a lot, wanting to know that this is everything under the world, wanting to have everything under the world, and thinking like this, of course, is the best for ourselves, but we can't say that this is extremely greedy, we need to get so much, and to some extent we also squeeze out other people's resources, because the resources under the world are still limited.

When we get a part, it will inevitably mean that others will get a part less, to a certain extent, squeezing out other people's resources, but we don't have to feel guilty about this, because the things under this premise are originally capable people, if we can really cultivate our own mind, that is to say, after we have enough things, if we say those things, we feel that we don't need them, or we have a sympathetic heart, we can completely donate more things we get to others, Share it with others, but when we share it with others, we also have to learn to teach them how to fight for it themselves, not just give it to them, and they don't get anything like this, and they are likely to feel that I need to work hard to get it and make them lazy, obviously this approach is not desirable, and it is not very good, at least not the optimal solution. Say, or only explain, we should pursue but, if we really don't scold it, we don't have to be lonely and forced, because yesterday you thought, sometimes it doesn't belong to this thing too much, you may eventually find out, but because of this, you are injured all over the body, so this kind of thing is not very desirable to some extent, but we can't, we don't fight for anything, everything is very annoying.

Still give up competition when you have nothing, and the results we can achieve in the end are undoubtedly not too good, because this is the foundation of the development of everything, each of us wants to have good things, and good things are limited and limited things after all, if we all want to compete, it is impossible, so only people with stronger ability and better luck may compete for what they want in the end, otherwise it may just be a ridiculous joke.

Some people don't think so, but in fact, some things don't mean that you don't think so, he is not like this, many times we still need to play our own advantages, but also to play our own abilities.

We don't think that anything can be obtained simply, if we have this kind of thinking at the beginning, then in the end we will be hit by tradition, because this is not to say that we blow ourselves, but to say that this is the reality of this world, we have to do this, otherwise it will violate the truth and law of this reality, and we will naturally not get our small things in the end, which is inevitable, and we can only get what we want by doing this, Even if there is a lot of unwillingness in our hearts, we still should not give up.

Just when we have strong enough ability and strength, we are qualified to choose, to be qualified to do what we want to do, and to provoke what we are not willing to do. And when we are young, when we don't have anything, if we are too critical, we may be ridiculed by others, although we don't need to care about other people's eyes many times, but this unnecessary ridicule, we still don't have to get it, no matter how we say that each of us is not a saint, it is impossible to be indifferent to anything, and we will still be subject to some disturbances and fluctuations in the face of some negative emotions.

And to minimize these negative emotions, in fact, to a certain extent to make our mood better, for our development, for the improvement of our self-confidence in all aspects, have a very important practical significance, do not think this is ridiculous, in fact this is not ridiculous, but do not admit it, blindly avoid, this is ridiculous, but I don't know how many people in the world, in the end will only escape.

And the final result of escaping, that is, the future of their dreams, will be farther and farther away from themselves, and the more they want to get it, the more they can't get it, because if you don't work hard, how can you get it in the end, you will only make a huge gap between your psychology and reality, this huge gap, and you will be depressed for a long time in your heart.

We will more or less produce a certain mental illness, once the mental illness is generated, many times it is difficult to cure, because the most difficult thing to heal in the world is mental trauma, because the more we control ourselves, when we don't want to do something, we will find that there is no way to control it, the more we don't want him, but we want to think, this is the physiological function of the brain, we have no way to avoid the pursuit of the best way, that is, don't let such a demon appear, if such a demon does not appear, If we are so troubled, we will be able to use a more positive and optimistic attitude, and having such a positive and optimistic attitude will be more conducive to our development and growth.

So we must learn to adjust, to a certain extent, we have learned to adjust, has reflected a lot of people, at least we can adjust faster when we are sad, to be able to adjust faster, which means that we can be less disturbed by those negative emotions, and we can put more time and more efficient efficiency into what we need to do.

Instead of sitting there and getting nothing.

Many times in our lives are not too smooth sailing, which means that it is absolutely necessary for each of us to have a good attitude, and it is very necessary, but sometimes people don't notice, when they are young, they are too carefree, at this time they think everything is beautiful, they think they don't have to worry about anything, but when they grow up, they find that the world is not as we think, and our lives are actually a lot of unsatisfactory. Our life will also be full of many challenges, if we are not able to overcome these challenges, in the end our results will not be much better, so it is necessary for each of us to have a mental quality.

It's just that at the beginning of this, some people didn't notice, but not noticing does not mean that the matter is not heavy, on the contrary, not noticing, often proves that in this blind spot, we need to be greatly improved, we need to be greatly changed, worthy of us, otherwise what is the meaning of our previous efforts, everything we have done before?

If we don't want to make ourselves too miserable, then it's best to avoid such things as much as possible, as much as possible to avoid such things from happening, so that we can really do our best, otherwise it's just a dream, but we shouldn't be too optimistic, because these things are not as simple as we think, and even more difficult than we think.

In the end, it is very likely that there will be some accidents because of our freshman emotions, and when these accidents really happen, we want to remedy them, we want to make amends, we want to redeem them, it is impossible.

Because it is very difficult to save a thing, we can't even succeed in a city, so I don't have any extravagance, and actively try to redeem it when things become particularly bad, of course, it may happen to redeem this, but I don't know how many times it will cost us many times more than before. I don't know how many times it will cost me something before.

So to some extent, the probability of such a thing has dropped a lot, we expect that it is better not to think about it, if you don't think about it at first, it may be a better thing for us, and if you have too much hope at the beginning, we may still feel hopeless in the end, don't think that some things are very simple, in fact, many things are not simple, and they may require us to spend countless energy to solve. to be able to redeem it.

If we deal with it at the beginning, then we will naturally not encounter such a thing in the end, but if we don't deal with it at the beginning, we will eventually suffer such a blow, for such a blow, many of us may not be able to accept it, but if we can't accept it, can we not accept it? Apparently this is absolutely not the case. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127