The truth is so reasonable, but in fact, if you want to meet this kind of friend, it is still a very test of ability, not everyone can make so many friends casually, you must know that in many cases, the reason why you can make friends is mainly because you have some value.

For example, if you are a beggar, if you find an ordinary person to make friends, it is estimated that they will dislike you, this is not a manifestation of inequality among everyone, but that people have more or less certain punishments for certain things, and it is difficult to break this stereotype if you are not a general referendum.

So to a certain extent, if they are willing to make some ordinary friends, then they can only identify with themselves, because in their own cognition, such people cannot become their friends, and once such people choose to be friends with you, then they should have qualities that are not ordinary people, they will appreciate this quality from the bottom of their hearts, so as to feel that this person is very charismatic. It is very likely that they regard them as their true friends in their hearts, and such a thing is understandable, but is this really the case, in fact, it may not necessarily measure a Rao standard, not because of his status and money wealth, but to see whether a Rao material world is sufficient, whether it is abundant, such a person can become a rich and rich person, and if it is only a high status and a lot of wealth, he cannot be a saint and cannot be a saint.

But a lot of Rao's cognition is not so clear, most of the cognition is relatively vulgar, and everyone can understand this kind of vulgar thing. However, understanding is understanding, but it is better to have the mentality that we live in this world and treat everyone equally.

Because if you think this way from the bottom of your heart, of course, you will be recognized and admired by a lot, and people with such good qualities will be more likely to make true friends.

Sometimes I don't agree with the appearance in my heart, and if I always pretend, I will be really tired, and sooner or later, if I pretend, I will show some horses' feet, because pretending is not real after all, and the various performances and displays it brings are naturally not the most appropriate.

People with a little bit of music theory can clearly distinguish the truth from the false, and after distinguishing it, if you want to expose yourself, then it is really embarrassing.

If such a thing doesn't happen to you, then you can only let your heart agree with this sentence, instead of pretending, pretending to always be exposed, and if it is true, then there is no such problem.

Although this kind of truth is very simple, but there are not many people who understand this, because if you really understand, there will not be so many people, duplicity, it is actually more difficult to be a tight-lipped person, but it is more difficult does not mean that it is impossible to achieve, as long as we think so in our hearts, the more we want to make it to that place, in the end it is possible, and there is a chance.

And if you think it's impossible at the beginning, you're timid, in fact, you'll miss a lot of opportunities, because many times things are not as difficult as we think, as long as we're willing to take the first step in life, then we may make the impossible possible, what we thought was impossible before, in fact, it's just an illusion of ours, not real, and what we have to do is to overcome that illusion to complete what we want to accomplish, as long as we take a step closer to success, In fact, sometimes we don't have to think about whether we can do it first, as long as we are willing to do something, we will be half the success, and if we are timid at the beginning and dare not do it, even if we have a good idea in our hearts, there is no way to put it into practice, and if you don't put it into practice, how do you know that it is not feasible, so don't deny yourself at the beginning.

It is to try first, if you really find that it is not good after trying, it is not too late to deny yourself at that time, deny yourself at the beginning, it is really not a very rational behavior, it can really be a bit stupid behavior, so people should not be so anxious to deny themselves, sometimes people do not know how much potential they have, only if they do it themselves are possible, it is really clear, everything is possible before we do it, as long as we believe that we have achieved half of the success of our own things.

If you deny yourself at the beginning, then it means that you have no way to succeed, people live in this world for such a short time, if you haven't seized some important opportunities in such a short time, so that you finally lose the last chance, and when we are old, it's too late, and no one is to blame, everything blames yourself, at this time you are willing, obviously unwilling, when you are young, you should try to do more facts, before things are real, Don't deny yourself too early, deny yourself too early, sometimes it's just an illusion of yourself, a manifestation of unconfidence, people sometimes need to be confident, even if they don't have that ability, but if you are confident, you can indeed make yourself stronger, at least when you encounter some things, you will be relatively calm, only calm can you make the most correct scholar Of course, self-confidence does not mean blind conceit, blind conceit is also not advisable, Sometimes things are too much, not too much, and not too much.

We must find a balance point, only by finding a balance point can we do things better, so what is the balance point is going on, in fact, it is not good, this kind of thing is very subjective, you can only rely on yourself to grasp, no matter how much others are not as good as you to perceive, to experience it yourself, to experience it yourself, to experience it yourself, to be able to truly grasp the core content, and no matter how many others are, it is also the things that others encounter in doing things, the feelings encountered, everyone does the same thing, and the ending can be the sameBut the process is definitely different, if we foolishly believe in the words, then sometimes we may seem very at a loss, because in the encounter with some problems that are not obviously different, we have no way to come up with our opinions, and want to start our blind superstition of other things, resulting in us not doing a good job of the corresponding mental plan.

In the end, once we really encounter something, we can't do it in our hearts. Sometimes things can be difficult, but if we have a solid heart and a strong heart, we can overcome many problems.

We can try to think about it, in the past ten or 20 years of our lives, many times we can't think that we can do some things, but in the end, they are done unexpectedly.

A lot of such accidents actually come from our usual accumulation and our affirmation of ourselves, because one thing is insisted on before it is possible to go to the end, if we give up at the beginning, we may not be able to succeed before the opportunity comes, and we identify a thing, if we work hard to do it, it may be very bumpy halfway, but as long as we do not give up, once the opportunity arises halfway, we seize this opportunity, and we can come to the side of the result we hope for all of a suddenIt's very comfortable, but at the same time, we're aware of the problem that if we give up talking at the beginning, then we won't be able to meet that opportunity.

Sometimes the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared, this sentence is actually not wrong at all, relatively it is actually very correct, because if you are not prepared, then the opportunity will not come to your side, any opportunity is a threshold, if you can't reach the threshold, naturally there is no way to achieve the goal you want, no way to achieve the goal you want, of course, people will be very discouraged, the source of all this business comes from their previous unprepared talk, If you are ready before, you will not encounter such a thing, so we must be fully prepared to work hard in any way, of course, the choice is also very important, sometimes we know that we can't do it, in fact, unless it is related to our very important things, or it is not recommended to do this, because it is not possible to do it, in most cases it is a waste of their time and life, but there are some things we have to do, if we have to, we can't do it at this time.

With such a mentality, we can burst out of our potential, improve our strength to a certain extent, and finally be able to complete what we are looking forward to.

Such a thing is completely possible, because Rao potential is not the same, for example, if someone is hit by an arrow, if there is no person who has experienced it, he may think that he will definitely fall after the heavy sword, but in fact this is not the case, after the middle of the person will face an extremely excited state of stress, at that time the adrenal hormones in the human body will be excessively secreted, resulting in the person's ability to resist injury, so that even if he receives some fatal injuries, he will not fall down in the first time. In fact, many people are aware of a problem, that is, we usually waste a lot of time, and we don't make full use of it, if we make full use of it, we won't be like this.

In fact, many people are not stupid, but very smart, but in the end they end up doing nothing, in fact, a very important reason is that they don't use their damn strength on the right path, if they use it on the right path, maybe there is no way to be like this.

And the reality is very cruel, when we play, if we don't work hard, then when we grow up, we have to use time to repay those things, the only thing we can do is to be aware of this problem from the beginning, and start working hard, so that we can be more comfortable when we are young, and we can play more happily.

This kind of thing happens all around us, and we go back and see if the people who used to be at the top of the list are really in the same situation when they grow up. What about the most advanced part of the army, in fact, there are, but some are not, so why is this the reason? In fact, the answer is not difficult, that is, at the beginning, they may have relied on a little fu to complete some things that do not require much effort, but the more things will become more and more difficult in the future, his endowment is not enough to support him to be able to achieve good results in the case of playing, and at that time if the mentality does not change, then their grades will plummet, and finally they will face two choices after seeing their grades so poor, one option is to be ashamed and then move forward bravely, But there is another situation that is self-pity, self-abandonment, gradually becoming numb, and finally willing to fall, and finally achieving nothing, both of these kinds of people exist. Which kind of people are more, it's not good, but it's not good.

But there is a kind of inertia in Rao's bones, in the absence of external persecution, few people can consciously complete some more difficult things, because more difficult things will make people fall into an uncomfortable state, not very easy and free state, if there is no strong perseverance, there is no way to complete, and most people are adapted to this comfortable life, and slowly have maintained this feeling of numbness.

When I encounter difficult things, I run away, and when I encounter something that can make me happy for a short time without consuming my mind, I hurriedly devote myself to it

In the end, time passed rapidly, so that they became gray-haired, at that time they realized the preciousness of time, only to realize that they did so many ridiculous things when they were young, and at that time it was actually very difficult to change, time is gone, it is impossible to go back to the past, but whether the future can be grasped, in fact, this is also an uncertain thing, because the future is not accurate, and when people get older, their energy has declined in all aspects, There is no way anymore, like when I was young, I kept so excited energy, and when I didn't have such an excited experience, so that many things that could be done in the past may not be able to be completed when I am older, such things are very realistic, and I am also very helpless, if you don't want this kind of thing to happen to your side, then you must learn to work hard from the very beginning, otherwise you may really be eliminated by the world. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127