In today's era, there are fewer and fewer people who have responsibilities in society, and people who have responsibilities can be a rare existence in this world. However, this also shows a social problem, that is, people in this world need to be responsible.

We can't control others, we can just be ourselves, although we live freely when we don't have responsibilities. But such freedom is actually short-sighted.

Although it is comfortable now, when the economy is getting older and older, when you find yourself alone, you may not feel how comfortable it is at that time, on the contrary, you will feel very uncomfortable.

Because it is very lonely and lonely to live alone, sometimes when we need help, we may find ourselves so helpless.

At that time, we may find that a person is actually really bad.

So some people understand, but only a few people understand this truth at a young age, in fact, this problem is true to some extent, and it is difficult to understand it clearly.

Because when we were young, everyone wanted to play, and they all felt that a person was too good, too comfortable, and indulged in playing, so naturally it was difficult to understand or understand that thing.

It is true that happiness is something that everyone wants to have, but sometimes if we are too short-lived, we only get short-term happiness.

Happiness is a rare happiness, and some people's long-term happiness is contrary to each other, or conflicting with each other. If this is the case, then try not to choose short-term happiness, short-term happiness is much simpler, but it is not lasting, after short-term happiness, it may usher in a long-term disappointment, short-term happiness will eventually be exchanged for long-term disappointment, when the long-term selfish hope is urgent, maybe the original long-term disappointment may become a long-term disappointment, such a thing is undoubtedly difficult to accept.

So sometimes we have to withstand the temptation, to resist the things that are in front of us.

Otherwise, we are likely to regret it later on.

In fact, we can think about why we have to make mistakes to know that we have repented, and why we have to be hurt before we know that we have done wrong. Why can't I think more in my spare time?

Wouldn't it be much easier for us to do this, because wouldn't it be better for us?

Although this is the truth, how many people really understand and know the meaning of this sentence?

I think there are very few people who really understand this industry, but that doesn't make us a reason to make mistakes.

When we are young, we make fewer mistakes, and we can open up the gap with others, and we can go further.

Isn't it good that we succeed after that, or that the road to the future will be smoother, and we can get more with the same effort?

Obviously, it's definitely not bad, and the idea is very good, but many people understand some truths, but they can't control themselves.

In fact, we are used to seeing such a phenomenon, we just look at it, if it is our own friends to try to pull them, if it is not our friends, sometimes we are too enthusiastic, it may attract strange eyes, and in this case, we might as well look at ourselves like that, a person works hard, they can do better if they do that, so in fact, to a certain extent, it is also a kind of help and help to themselves.

Although this seems a bit selfish, but people themselves are like this, some things are selfish and nothing, in the face of the great right and wrong, this time knowledge may not be right, but in some things, sometimes think more about themselves, this is also human nature, it is completely understandable, not everyone is a saint, we do not require everyone to be able to do, everything is for the sake of others, such people are actually difficult to survive in this cruel world.

Because this world is far from being as simple as we think, sometimes if we only know how to blindly give and do not screen, we may end up hurting, but if we work hard to identify and then help, then we may actually face some accidents.

If you think these accidents are okay with that, but if you do it again, it's not a big deal.

Sometimes things are like this, what we think is not worth it, but it is worth it in the eyes of Don Rao, and at that time what others want to do, we have no way to blame others, and then dissuasion is tantamount to a fool's dream.

Because some things are not dissuasion at all, some people are so stubborn, and we have nothing to do with them, what do we use to convince them, and some people feel that even if there is no result in paying, he will not regret it, because they care more about the process, the possible outcome, as long as it is possible, they are willing to do it.

In fact, is this a stupid approach? Actually, it's a bit silly to some extent, but sometimes, people can't live too clearly, and if we understand too much and are too rational, it is likely to cause us to lose some of the things that belong to us.

For example, some people may be difficult to contact at first, but if you stay away from them in order to prevent yourself from getting hurt, you may end up losing a good friend or even a close lover with whom you can spend a lifetime.

These possibilities exist, and if we don't do it just because of the possibility, and give up the opportunity in front of us, we may end up missing out on many, many things.

I think things are a matter of probability, and if the probability is very high, then we try a few more times to increase our probability. In this case, in fact, this is not a very stupid behavior to some extent.

And the stupid ones should be those who can't see through the final essence.

But this is also to consider their own conditions and other conditions, if the conditions are too far apart, in fact, it is difficult to look at each other, at that time we pay more may really just be a waste, for this situation we still don't try too easily, we should still choose some greater possible things, and don't pick those good things to think, a lot of things want to fall on their heads, this probability is not too big, A lot of times, no matter how much we pay for this kind of thing, we may end up with nothing.

At that time, we may become very tired physically and mentally, and our bodies will be bruised, and finally we will lose all our enthusiasm, and then we will spend years or even decades in a dull way, so that we miss the good years.

Some people may think this is alarmist, of course, it may be true for some people, but it may not be true for most people, because some people or most people are like this, not as strong as we imagined, everyone is actually very vulnerable.

And there are too few people who are very strong at the beginning, unless they are like Ming, they have experienced a lot of personnel warmth and coldness, and have experienced a lot of personnel setbacks, like this, they understand the cruelty of reality, and at the same time, they have begun to accept the cruelty of this reality since their age, they have gradually had a corresponding mentality from the beginning, and even later their hearts feel slowly numb, only such people can face these things, but they will perform better later.

But it may just be better, although it is much better, in fact, it is not that simple, the piano is a difficult hurdle for many people to overcome, there is a saying that a good hero is sad to pass the beauty level, even if it is a great hero admired by tens of thousands of heroes, it seems that everything is omnipotent, and the big hero may still not be able to step through this level.

Because love is the most complicated, the most incomprehensible, and the most tormenting, and this is a relatively advanced human need.

The reason why feelings are complicated is because the main thing is that the human heart is complicated. People are not only sentimental, sometimes they can't even see themselves clearly, they are very fickle, sometimes I think this is good, sometimes I may think that it is so good, how is it good? What is the real situation? No one is accurate, because people are constantly changing, and after having different experiences, they will naturally have different personalities.

And even if it is the same experience, in different years, when they need to face different things, their bodies will change, and they will naturally treat some things, or have different attitudes towards some things, which is also caused by the changes in human feelings.

This is the difference between human beings and other low-level animals, low-level animals may have a personality for a long time, but human beings, but in different periods have different performances and different personalities, different emotions, but different personalities are completely possible, sometimes some children are naughty, but long words may be very sensible, may be very sensible, but I don't know why, when I grow up, I become very rebellious, Do things that even others can't believe at times.

Such a thing is completely existential and possible, because there is no one who is sure about the future, and it is understandable to some extent that there is no one who knows what to be stimulated and how to change.

In fact, most people are kind, they are willing to help, and they don't like to be greedy, but sometimes life is too cruel, if people don't do this, it is very likely that they will lose some benefits, and they don't have much in the first place, if they lose their interests at this critical time, they will eventually become nothing

Those people themselves have a heavy mentality, for many things they see others do, if they don't do it, maybe their hearts are not balanced, or they always feel that they have a very uncomfortable feeling.

Some people don't have any perception of this uncomfortable feeling, but some people are really hard to bear, the people around Deng Jiazhi persuaded them, maybe they couldn't resist the temptation, and followed those people to do some things, some things may be good, but most things are obviously not wise and rational enough, you must know that the world really knows that I do what most people do in the hands of a few Rao, it is too common to some extent, and I can't get much benefit, Of course, sometimes you can't do something by how much you get as the standard, but most of the time you still need to measure it in this way, because if you want to live in this world, you must first be strong yourself, and you can talk about helping others.

Otherwise, you are too weak, and even if you see something unfair, it will be useless.

For example, a group of strong men are in front of them, they want to have any bad thoughts about themselves, even if they can resist and resist for a while, they will definitely be cleaned up and obedient after a while, which comes from the gap in strength, which is difficult to change or reverse.

Because there is no strong enough strength to change, what wants to defeat others, but it is just a fool's dream.

In the end, whoever has the biggest fist in this world will have more say.

If your strength is very weak, but you don't see this reality clearly, but do those things that only strong people can do, if you really do this, then there is a great probability, you will encounter some not very good things, and you may even regret it for life, because there is a good saying, the gun shoots the first bird, we don't have the strength to match it, but like the author's dream that seems to be only human beings, what will become in the end, I believe that people with a discerning eye can see this result clearly.

So this sentence is also encouraging us to a certain extent, to become stronger around us, to become stronger, to be able to protect what you want to protect, to become more powerful, to be able to protect others, to be able to protect yourself, otherwise only relying on verbal shouting, it will not have much effect, you must know that in this world, the power of language is there, but it is not the final decision on the final direction of a thing.

In the end, it is still possible to decide whether something is realized or not, or by strong power, your own strength. As long as you can conquer them, then victory will naturally be your own. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127