Although happy things don't happen often, we can also avoid painful things from happening, or reduce things like this to a minimum, if we can reduce such things to a minimum, then it means that the likelihood of encountering such things in our life is much lower.

It also means that we will not encounter such painful things, and if we do not encounter such painful things, it means that we will not produce too many negative emotions, of course, the lack of negative emotions is also a lack of life experience, but there is really no need to produce too many negative emotions in some unnecessary things, such negative emotions are likely not to let themselves grow, but will drag themselves into the endless abyss and unable to extricate themselves.

One thing to know is that psychological illness is often the most difficult to cure.

Once we suffer from a psychological disease, want to fully invest, to some extent can be said to be almost impossible to break, do not rule out that some people are lucky enough, or strong enough, or encounter some good situations, in the end they may be completely resistant, but it must be said that although some people have fully recovered, it does not mean that all people will be able to fully recover, or that every developing person may not be able to fully recover, Saying such a thing is actually the most difficult thing to happen, we don't want to have such a thing, it's not good to eat and wait for death, because such a thing is impossible, we had better not go against the law of the development of things, once we violate the law of the development of things, then in the end it is likely to cause us to have the wrong feeling and wrong decision, with the support of this wrong decision, we do something, may make ourselves feel very uncomfortable.

If we don't want something like this to happen, then we'd better not do it.

If we don't move forward, it means that the probability of such a thing happening is reduced a lot, although it cannot be completely avoided, but it can be greatly avoided, to a certain extent, because we live in this world, every day may encounter those small probability of things happening.

There is no way for us to completely eliminate such things, but even if there are so many small probability events, but we find that many small probability events will not be able to take their turn in a lifetime, so we should not panic too much, we just need to do it normally, if we live in panic every day, it is actually very unnecessary, for example, simply drinking saliva, it is possible to choke or choke to death, but what we can find is that how many people are choked to death in the end, Maybe everyone around us may not be able to see it, so we can rest assured, but those high-probability events we still can't take lightly, we look back at the people around us who died of illness may be countless, so we must avoid it, we must take precautions.

To prevent it, such a thing will be very big, it will not happen to you, you will not feel very painful, we do this is also of high practical significance, we don't always think about those things that fall from the sky, there are things with pie in the sky, but more is irrelevant to us, if we always think about such things, it is very likely that nothing will be obtained in the end, and those who are down-to-earth step by step may end up getting more, It may be more than we imagined, it really exceeds our ideals, when we see others getting so many things, we don't have to be jealous of us, ask ourselves, we don't get so many things, is it because of what? Is it because I've worked hard enough? Is it because you have enough to give so much? Not really.

It is precisely because we pay too little, so we get very little, the gains and losses in this world are proportional to some extent, only the more we lose and the more we pay, in the end it is possible to get more, if we say that we rarely get a lot of extravagant pay, then we might as well not think about anything, because since we think like this, it is very likely to lead to a kind of expectation, and such expectations cannot happen, if it appears in itself, there will inevitably be a sense of loss, And what we know is expectation, such a small probability of the occurrence of events, in fact, is very irrational, but also very stupid, if we say a little bit of customization, may feel that such a thing will not appear in our statement, so we should not think like this, if we are wrong at the beginning.

So what do we ask for in the end? Or do you want the right thing and the right thing to happen to you? Obviously, that's not possible, and everything in this world follows certain laws.

And such a law is the law of cause and effect and giving and getting is cause and effect, liking and hating is a cause and effect, and midsummer and excellence are a cause and effect.

In short, the truth of this time, it is easy to say, it is difficult to say, it is simple because the reason is very clear, and many people can see clearly that it is difficult to become the maker of such rules, and it is difficult to follow such rules to the top. Because everybody wants to get this kind of thing, they all want to do this kind of thing, but we have to know that this kind of thing, such a place is limited, and we need to compete with countless people to get the kind of thing we want.

And if you want to compete with so many people to get what you want, in fact, to a certain extent, it is not a simple thing, it can really be said to be a difficult thing, such a difficult thing, if we don't have a correct impression, it is undoubtedly impossible to get what we want to be able to go.

So it's best for us to give up illusions from now on, stop fantasizing, start doing some right things, do some right things, and after continuous accumulation, we will finally be able to get the kind of success we want.

Only we may feel how sane we are doing it right, and we will feel how right we were in the first place.

We will feel heartily happy and heartily happy.

Then this kind of emotion will prompt us to be more motivated, to do something we want to do, and finally we will find that after we mobilize the subjective enthusiasm, the efficiency of doing a lot of things has increased a lot, many things originally seemed impossible to accomplish in our eyes, but in our general self-confidence and perseverance planted a different result, that result will make us more happy and happy again, and so again and again after being happy and getting timely happiness, It's easier to get the constant reciprocating cycle within the cycle.

Anyone with a discerning eye should understand whether this logic is correct, and if this logic is correct, then why don't we do it? Isn't it logical to know that the world works? Obviously, yes, although sometimes people play a certain subjective role in it, but is there no logic behind everything we humans do? Obviously, there is, so although it seems to be emotional, but in fact, if we dig deeper and think about everything together, we can clearly find one thing, that is, there is a certain causal logic behind the perceptual rationality of everything we do, but there are some causal logics that we are not optimistic about, and we can't say that they are not obvious, so that we have wrong views.

If we have a negative view at the beginning, a wrong view, it may lead to an extremely powerful negative emotion in our hearts, and under the domination of such negative emotions, we may become a completely different person, and we will become an irrational person who is completely unfavorable to us to realize our dreams.

Or even if it helps to realize their dreams, but it is not necessarily better, and such results are often accompanied by a great price, even if the gain is greater than the price, but if you get too much, the price is too great, we will not really be happy, because some things are really lost once they are lost, and after they are lost, they bring us permanent regret and heartache also exist, and some people may slowly amplify this regret over time. This action is slowly amplified, and then this pain. are more than their own happiness, so we should not be limited to the immediate reluctance, to look a little bigger, a little farther, so that is really conducive to the development and growth of each of us, if everyone has such a lofty vision and views, then each of us will undoubtedly develop better, but at the same time we must pay attention to things, that is, the competition will be more intense, but there are also benefits to more fierce competition, That is, the fierce competition can often produce better people, and can sharpen themselves to be stronger and more perfect.

Although it is impossible to say that complete perfection cannot exist, but economic imperfection is still possible, because this world is so wonderful, we don't want to admit that it is such a logic, if we still don't admit this logic, then in the end it is we who cause harm, because we have a wrong understanding of this world, we will definitely plant a wrong cause in our hearts, the influence of the wrong will end, the right fruit is impossible, and if you want to contact the good fruit, it is even more difficult. Only with the right response can we get the right pass, and only then can we get good results.

Some people may have too little experience, there is no way to understand anything thoroughly, but what, if we see it like this, it is undoubtedly a pity, even if we think it is not quite right, but we calm down and think about it, is there something we can learn from such things, in fact, everyone has their own strengths, everyone has their own disadvantages, we think about the results of others, in fact, to some extent, we have perfected our own thinking, And we can find out the shortcomings of our own thinking in their thinking, and then correct them, and after correcting them, we can make our shortcomings longer and the strengths of the ground, and to some extent, become better because of the blessings of the shortcomings.

Don't think that such a thing is unbelievable, if we think it is impossible at the beginning, and start to deny our own words, if we don't start in the first place, then what is the result of what we can talk about? There are many things that can be achieved by just thinking about it.

That must be carefully considered, must be well acted to practice, and finally it is possible to get the results we want, otherwise, everything is just our foolish dream-like fantasy, some people may not want to wake up, like have been immersed in such a dream-like fantasy, but we must know that these dream-like illusions, he cannot exist forever, their existence is temporary, if we say that we are short-sighted, this is limited to this city, A pool is only limited to this minute and a second, so that we give up more possibilities in the future, and then we look back in the future, and now there are people who want to slap themselves and scold themselves, thinking that why they were so irrational and stupid in the first place, why can't they take a long-term view, if they take a long-term view, they may not be so miserable today.

But we must know one thing, that is, this world has not been repeated, there is no regret medicine, once it happens, it is destined to really happen, once it really leaves a mark from our lives, it is impossible to completely blow them up, because I can't go back to yesterday, because I can't go back in time, so we can't completely ignore the impact of past events on the future, once something happens, it really happens, and he will intervene in the future. It will leave his shadow on future events, and such a shadow may be able to partially or mostly intervene and want to completely intervene, which is almost impossible.

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