Why is it said that fearlessness is the only way to gain everything? In fact, this answer is also very simple, that is, when a person is afraid to do anything, he will be doomed to have no way to fully develop the determination and perseverance to do things, without such revenge and perseverance.

In the end, it is very likely that we will fail miserably, because some things require us to make some deliberation and hesitation, even if we pay the right, we may not be able to succeed in the end.

If you give up anything casually just because of this, then it will also be destined that this person will not have much success, because it is very simple, that is, if we do everything will be said, after all, I may not have a way to do some things, and these things I have given up, in fact, it is a great pity, because no one knows whether we can do those things, some things yesterday we could not do, and these things we gave up, In fact, it is a great pity, because no one knows whether we can do those things or not, and once we do, then our previous failures will seem excusable, and there is no pity, and it may be that a success will completely fill the cost of our countless failures.

It's such a simple truth, but for those people, it seems like a nightmare for them to make a choice, because they don't want to lose what they don't want to face, the possibility of paying in the end and not ending, because their hearts are not strong enough, if their hearts are strong enough, then there will never be such a thing.

Although this question is very simple and simple, there are indeed countless people who do not understand this truth, and I say that they understand, but they do not have that courage.

There is no great courage, in fact, it is understandable to some extent. After all, everyone and everyone has a little behind, everyone has a certain amount of individual differences, individual differences, such a situation and such a thought is actually very normal, although it is very normal, but this way can never be said to be a good form of expression.

Because for the vast majority of us are ordinary people, ordinary people also mean that the things we have are very few and very frequent, many of the things we want to get are required to pay infinite efforts to get, and even some luxury goods we have no way to touch the corners of it in our lives, some people may say that plain is true, plain is good.

It is true that there is such a saying, but if we think about it carefully, we finally came to this world, we don't work hard once, don't work hard once, is it too boring?

It was not easy to be born in this world, if we are still so idle and dull in the past, it really seems a little monotonous and boring, and say that those who are ordinary are bliss, and those who are ordinary are real, do they really recognize their ordinariness and ordinariness in their hearts?

Obviously, absolutely not, not only do they not recognize their ordinary, ordinary in their bones and subconscious.

They all have a strong fighting spirit to be competitive, but it may be because they have encountered some setbacks and some torture before, which smoothed out his edges and corners, making it difficult for him to say the kind of bold words that were hidden in his heart before, when they say it again, because of too many failures in the past, they have been hit before, so that they can't believe that they can do it, and after saying it, they will also think of the previous failures, they will only feel ridiculous, and they will once again uncover the traces of the pain in their hearts.

After all, they have never done it before, and if they want to say such big things again and fail again, because they have failed too many times, their hearts are already fragile, and there is no way to bear that kind of failure anymore.

Such people are very sad, there is a good saying, failure is the mother of success, every failure is not meaningless, every failure will remind us, in this matter of our own shortcomings, what we can improve, and with this as an experience, we may be able to do better next time in the same thing or similar things.

The truth is indeed the same truth, but they may have reached the psychological load of their own existence in their hearts.

They couldn't bear that huge pressure anymore, so at this time, they chose to say that the kind of rhetoric and ambition that were originally hidden in the deepest part of their hearts affected them even deeper, and thus buried them.

Even though they have some regrets about this matter, they feel that this is also a relief, after all, they will not feel the pain of the previous pain again, and even if they feel it again, the probability is much smaller.

If they are still born calves like before, they are not afraid of tigers and do not know the height of the sky, and they only know how to blindly rush forward, and in the end they will only feel very uncomfortable, because those experiences, such practices, remind them of the previous failures.

To some extent, people are a creature with an excellent memory, and they will remember the setbacks and failures they have suffered in the past, of course, some of the very few people are that kind of optimist, even if they are painful, they are really uncomfortable at the time, but after that period of precipitation, they will never remember again, or things like this are forgotten a lot.

So when they encounter the same thing again, when they experience something similar, they don't feel so painful, after all, they can't think about it, it's like starting a new life, a new journey.

In a way, it's like changing a personality.

Many times some people put forward such an idea, if all the memories of a person are tampered with, and all the characters of a person are tampered with, although there is no change, but they actually change a person, or become someone else?

The vast majority of people will feel very shocked when they hear this question for the first time, because this idea completely subverts their previous assumptions, they used to think that becoming another person will have to change the whole body dramatically, but in fact, it is only the memory tampered with, the personality is tampered with, then the form of expression is the same as the previous person, but the appearance is different, and the final state can be said to be almost the same without looking at the appearance.

In this way, it is indeed like a new person with a new personality.

Whether this idea is a bit flawless, but some people don't think so, they feel that although everything is the same, but after all, the core and previous experience are a person's witness, and they are all characteristics that are different from others, although the economy has changed since then, but the previous life and the previous time cannot be tampered with, so they think that even if such a person changes, it is only a change in themselves, not another person.

The two attitudes have their own truth to both ideas, and it is not clear which point is the truth.

It is also difficult to evaluate whether a person is good or bad to some extent, because good people may do bad things, bad people may do good things, and even people who are not bad may do bad things, and they may do bad things or do good things.

Because people are like this, this is the nature of human beings, if we understand this truth, it will not be so simple and easy for a person to define it with such a few simple words and vocabulary.

And you will also find that it is very inaccurate to look at people in the past.

Because I was too young before, I used to define a person in such a simple way, and after thinking about it carefully, I realized how ridiculous the original approach was.

Understanding this truth will be refreshing, but it is also a sign of a person's maturity, when we are young, we define the world too simply, and when we grow up, we have experienced a lot of things, and after experiencing a lot of helplessness, we have discovered the hidden dark side of the world, after seeing the dark side and the good side, our hearts will produce a struggling mentality, after experiencing a struggle, our hearts begin to sublimate and transform.

It is no longer as simple as before, it is not as simple as before, my thoughts are beginning to mature, and when I do things, I will not speak as freely as before, and I will carefully consider whether saying this sentence will bring unhappiness to others.

We will make a lot of restrictions on our behavior, so that it is difficult to simply fully present the state of our minds, as for what we think in our hearts, maybe only we know, even if we are close to people, we may keep some little secrets.

At this time, it may not be because we are too vigilant, but because we are afraid that some things will be known by those who care about us, and they will worry about us. This way is also a manifestation of love, so sometimes we don't look at a person who is not telling the truth to another person, that is, it must mean that they do not believe in him, be wary of him, on the contrary, many times the deeper the love, the more they feel this way, the more they feel pain, but even if it is so painful, they still choose to do this, and the root cause of this is worth exploring.

Of course, some people may say that this is someone else's secret, and it is best not to inquire too much, but there is no way to refute such a statement. The main purpose is not to say that we should care about other sisters, but to say a way of thinking when we see a situation happening. First of all, don't get too excited, even if it looks like hurting someone else, even so, we should make things clear and then say, just in case, 1% probability. Such a probability may be very small, the vast majority of people will not meet in a lifetime, but the fact that others cannot meet in a lifetime does not mean that we can't meet it, after all, people and individuals are different, and people and people's luck is not the same. Once you encounter it, you have done something wrong at that time, and if it causes serious consequences, you may not know how to make up for it at all, and how to make up for it. When you have that kind of irreparable consequences, at this time you will definitely feel very regretful and painful, that kind of thing, even if you spend a lot of thought, you may not be able to completely make up for the mistakes you found, just like people can't be resurrected from death, once they cause harm to others for no reason, I don't agree with the guest, so I can't make up for it by all means, this kind of thing can be said to be very regrettable and sad.

That kind of thing will not only make you uncomfortable, but also make the person you have a good relationship with the person you have a good relationship with.

Their pain may be far beyond ours, and we think about whether we feel very uncomfortable when we feel guilty, but they are more uncomfortable than us, or they cause double discomfort for others and ourselves, and we may feel more guilty and more panicked and painful.

In any case, it will have a great impact on yourself and others, and it will have a huge impact on yourself and your life.

There is a good chance that such a thing will leave a permanent scar in the hearts of oneself and others.

Such scars may not be able to heal, and for the rest of our lives or the rest of their lives, such scars will always be faintly accompanied by bouts of severe pain. It's a very uncomfortable life. Those who have not experienced it may not be able to appreciate the pain given in this few words.

Although we have not experienced it, we can imagine that it is 10 times more painful than we remember, 100 times or even more, and such pain is not short-term, but extremely long-term, as for how long the time will last, no one knows, it may be a lifetime of 10 years, 20 years, 30 years.

The world may seem strange, but it actually exists. Let's not think that things we can't imagine, or things that we haven't experienced, can't exist.

On the contrary, we have not experienced things that we have not experienced, and we must pay attention to what others say, so that we can avoid the possibility of these things happening to us to a certain extent. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127