"River." Xiaoyu read it again. Didn't write it down as usual.

"Your father's dragon boat saved a lot of people yesterday, it's amazing!" Zhen Zhen continued to talk about this topic.

"Aren't you afraid?" Ye Xiaoyu asked Zhen Zhen softly.

"I'm afraid! Of course I'm afraid! There was so much blood! Zhen Zhen said.

"What do you do when you're scared?"

"I've been with my mom since yesterday's explosion. Staying with my family is less scary. Today I feel much better, so I came to play with you. My mother agreed. Zhen Zhen said.

"I'm scared too." Xiaoyu's voice was still very soft, but it was heard clearly. The Chen family and Qingqing in the room were listening silently, wondering why they refused to get out of bed to play after persuading Xiaoyu for a long time, but she was willing as soon as Zhen Zhen came?

"It's normal to feel scared. Just like crying and laughing, sweet and bitter, fearless and fearless. Because each of us is not omnipotent, it is impossible for everything to be perfect. If we can't do it, we will be worried, we will be afraid. Zhen Zhen said.

"Really?" Xiaoyu was a little disbelieving, she looked at her mother and Qingqing.

Zhen Zhen remembered what Chen said, "It's okay", and this time he wanted to help her round things up: "When the explosion just happened yesterday, your mother was also very scared. But when she later saw that you were not injured and that your father was still carrying a dragon boat to save people, she was not so afraid. Your mother said that it was okay, referring to the fact that our Lu Guogong Mansion was safe and sound, and everyone was safe. ”

Chen Shi met Zhen Zhen's gaze and immediately understood what she meant: "Sister Zhen is right. I was so frightened that my legs went limp, and I sat for a while before I got up. Fear indeed. Fortunately, the Anlan Pavilion where we stayed was fine, everyone was fine, and I was relieved. ”

Qingqing was left in the room and didn't speak, and Zhen Zhen gave her an encouraging look. Qingqing said: "Miss, you don't know that the New Year's artillery battle can scare me, yesterday's incident, I was actually very scared, I just pressed it in my heart and tried not to show it." I'm afraid that if I'm scared too, it's going to make you feel harder. ”

Zhen Zhen squatted down and looked at Xiaoyu and said, "It's not that adults aren't afraid, they just have experienced more things, so they have learned to regulate their mood and let themselves not be affected by those things yesterday."

Xiaoyu asked, "Then can I learn to regulate my mood when I grow up?"

Zhen Zhen said: "You are now learning to regulate yourself!" If you think about it, isn't your mood as scared as yesterday? ”

"Well, but there's a lot more, and I always think of the red river." Xiaoyu said.

"Where did you see Red Red crossing the river?"

"On the top floor of Anlan Pavilion, it is very high and you can see it very far."

Of course, Zhen Zhen knew that she was in Anlan Pavilion, but now was the time for Ye Xiaoyu to confide and tell the story.

"I'm on the third floor of Anlan Pavilion. What did you do at the top level? ”

"Qingqing and Mama Wang accompanied me to watch the dragon boat, and my mother said that she was busy greeting guests and was not there."

"I was on the sixth floor." Chan said.

"What else do you see?" Zhen Zhen asked Xiaoyu.

"It's scary. Many people fell into the river, covered in blood...... The river is red. ”

"It's really scary. And then what? Zhen Zhen agreed with Xiaoyu's feelings.

Shao Min screamed all of a sudden, which scared me a lot, and I also screamed after her.

"Oh, Shao Min is there too. Then you two must be scared. I heard a lot of people screaming downstairs. Zhen Zhen continued to agree, making Xiaoyu feel that her behavior was not abnormal and annoying.

"Shao Heng, Shao Feng, Tian Jing and Tian Ming are all here, and there are a few children I don't know." Xiaoyu said.

"What about them?"

They were all screaming in fright, and Shao Heng ran around in circles.

"What about the adults around you?"

"Mama Wang covered my eyes and didn't let me look. It made me uncomfortable, I broke away from her hand, and she covered it again. ”

"Mama Wang covers you, do you want to make you uncomfortable or hope you don't get frightened?"

"She was afraid that I would be scared, and she always said, don't look at the unclean."

"Is Mama Wang so good?"

"Okay."

"What else do you see?"

Xiaoyu shook her head: "It's nothing, Mama Wang carried me downstairs and saw my mother." We went together. ”

"When everyone wants to go downstairs, are they crowding you?"

"No, Qingqing is behind me."

Zhen Zhen secretly thought to himself: Xiaoyu's two subordinates are quite attentive. She said: "When I got home yesterday, I was also a mess of nonsense, and then I wrote a few brush words, and then it got better. You can also give it a try. ”

"I don't know how to write a lot of words." Xiaoyu said.

"Then you can draw it. Draw whatever you want. Zhen Zhen handed the brush to Xiaoyu.

Children are generally not good at expressing their feelings in words, and negative emotions are like a piece of glass slag stuck in their hearts. And painting is a great way to help them get rid of glass shards.

Xiaoyu held the pen and stood in front of the long case of Lihuamu, without moving.

Zhen Zhen walked to the round table where the brown sugar ginger soup was placed, and tried it with his hands, and the warmth was just right. She brought the ginger soup to Xiaoyu: "Take a sip first and find out how you feel."

Xiaoyu had just eaten sugar, and now that she had some activities and had a better appetite, she took the bowl and drank more than half of it, and suddenly there was a warm feeling on her body.

She dipped the brush in a full stroke of ink, and then pressed the pen directly on the white paper, smearing it up and down like a mountain.

The pen ran out of ink, so she dipped it in water again and continued to apply. When the whole white paper is finished, I can only see various shades of black and gray.

Chen looked at Zhen Zhen with some confusion, not understanding what the child was drawing.

"Is that what you're thinking about right now?" Zhen Zhen asked Xiaoyu.

"Hmm." Then, she picked up the pen again and drew large and small circles on the paper, continuous and discontinuous circles.

Zhen Zhen whispered to Chen: "It doesn't matter what the child draws. The key is that she is willing to draw, and being able to draw what she thinks in her heart shows that she also has the ability to self-recover. ”

"Self-healing? Can she get better on her own? Chen's tone of disbelief.

"You have been with her for so long today, and you can also warm the child's heart." Zhen Zhen said, "In the past two days, the child can do whatever she wants, as long as it is not a wrong thing in principle, you might as well follow her and make her feel that her home is safe, and then she will be willing to go outside." ”

"Oh, so she said scared, and I'm going to say scared too?" Chan said.

"If you feel the same way as your child, you might as well say it and let her know that she is not the only one who feels this way, so that she will not feel excluded and isolated."

"If you say so, a brave child is not afraid of such a thing, and should not say it?" Chan drew inferences.

Zhen Zhen nodded affirmatively and said: "Indeed, saying such things will make the child hide their fear in their hearts, and the deeper they hide, the greater the trouble in the future." What we have to do is get her to speak out about her fears. ”

"It's like sweating when you have a fever, and you'll be cured of your illness?" Chan relates.

"Your analogy is interesting."

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