It's a good idea, and almost everyone has thought about it.

But when people gradually grow up and mature, they suddenly realize what a stupid idea this is.

Because human nature is complex,

When they were there, because they didn't have to care about anything, they just needed to grow up well, so they didn't have any scruples in their hearts.

But as they get older, they have more things to pursue, or more things to consider. Gradually, they also have to be attentive, because if they don't care, they won't get anything, only after they are attentive, they will start to compete with others constantly, and they will have their own future, otherwise it is just a fool's dream.

Because some people are like that, they will do everything to provoke their own things, and if we don't have a little bit of defense, it is very easy to be cheated by others.

At that time, due to simplicity of mind or other reasons, people often don't think too much, and because of less experience, less seeing, and courage, they dare not do anything beyond the boundary.

However, after slowly entering the society, some people have expressed too much unwillingness, and then a kind of resentment is born in their hearts, which gradually and continuously erodes their hearts, and then soon, they fall step by step. In the end, they did something they couldn't believe in, and if they hadn't been sanctioned once, then they would have more and more luck and impulses in their hearts, and then they would continue to take risks again, because they had already tasted the sweetness.

After tasting the sweetness, he has not been punished,

Then they will be given a psychological hint that they are doing this, that they are doing nothing, that they will not have such things, that all of this is just a false idea.

As long as you do this, there is absolutely no problem with your heart. If they maintain this mentality, after doing one thing after another, they still don't receive a little punishment in the end, and gradually, they will become more and more intense, and finally become a person who is afraid of everyone who sees it.

In the end, he slowly went further and further down the wrong path. You know, the net is magnificent, negligent but not leaky, often walking by the river, there is no shoes that do not get wet.

There will always be an old man who will take revenge on them.

But sometimes revenge or punishment may come too late, so that some innocent people lose their precious things like that, and then it becomes a pity forever.

Let everyone who sees such a real person have a kind of regret in their hearts.

Because some people are too hateful, and some people are too innocent. 、

Obviously, they or they are so kind, but in the end they met some terrible people, so they have an extremely dark memory, if there really is hell, then those perpetrators will definitely go to hell.

And those innocent people are forever with regrets, so that the original optimistic attitude has changed 180 degrees, although the body may be fine, but the soul may have been full of holes. I don't believe anymore that the world is beautiful, as long as I want to believe in this world.

Such a thing is undoubtedly very worrying.

So in order to avoid this kind of thing from happening, each of us needs to establish a good defensive heart at the time, don't imagine yourself too lucky, and don't imagine the world too beautiful, after all, the world is so big, there are always some places where the sun can't shine, if one, because of our negligence, intrudes into that area, then it is very likely that something particularly unpleasant will happen in the end.

And in the midst of these things, there is a bit of a possibility that people will regret it for life, and they will not be at peace for the rest of their lives.

Although such things are rare and rare, they can't relax their vigilance because of this, after all, once it happens, there may be no way to reverse it, and many things in this world are like this.

For example, because of his own carelessness, he didn't look at the road, and then there was a car accident, which caused his own injuries, which are often very fatal, and may suddenly leave a lifelong disability and a half-body paralysis.

In such a situation, how should I live my life from then on?

Will such a life be sunny, and will there be any meaning in such a life?

Will there be no pain in living like this?

Obviously, this is not the case.

After that, when you are really unable to act, or when you don't move the same, look at your own remnants. When our hearts may be reluctant, we may know what real regret is and what real regret is.

In fact, these regrets, these things, to a large extent, can be avoided, and in the end it will eventually develop into such a situation, in fact, it is largely due to our failure to take it to heart.

Just like many people, when they are young, they study at a young age, many people, when they are young, because the mind of play in their hearts is too heavy, so that they finally abandon their studies, and in the end, when they are older, because they do not have the stepping stone of education, so that it is a pity that they cannot get their favorite job, they cannot get their favorite job, they cannot get their favorite job, and there is no way to get a good income, there is no way to get a good income, and there is no way to live the life they hoped for in their childhood.

Gradually, it became farther and farther away from the self that I expected in my childhood.

The reason why it has become like this, to a large extent, is because of its own **.

We obeyed **, became slaves of **, and in the end we also had to be slaves of life, because life and ** are complicit to some extent.

Although a lot of Rao can indeed see clearly, but very few of them have done it, so the main reason is that the willpower is not strong enough, and there are too many circumstances or temptations around them, so that people feel that there is no way. 、

But is there really no way around it?

Obviously, absolutely not, because in this world, although there are many problems, but many times, there are always more solutions than problems.

For example, a math problem, although there may only be one answer, has an infinite number of solutions.

Each solution may be similar, but it is definitely different.

But no matter what, no matter how you do it, what kind of road you take, you can still reach that other shore.

This also proves one thing, that is, as long as we are willing to use our brains and think of a way, the answer we get in the end will not disappoint us too much.

Because many things are not so difficult at all, the difficult thing is that we are cowardly at the beginning, and we think that there is no way to achieve it, if we don't think that a thing can come true at the beginning, then how can we succeed in the end?

Because once we decide that something can't be successful, then in the end, we will definitely think that all our efforts have been in vain.

In that case, what do we have to give?

Isn't this a fool's dream?

Isn't this the act of a fool?

Actually, no, this is not a fool's behavior, but a fool's idea, because of a thing, something that has never been tried at all, subjectively and extremely conceited that there is no way to achieve it, do you really think that you have much ability to see through everything?

In the end, it's not enough to make excuses for your own evasion

In vain, he is a coward, a spineless person, because of his cowardice and inability to persevere, and finally led to his own obscurity.

The girl I used to like, in the end, I missed them because I couldn't do anything.

Isn't it regrettable that such a thing happens?

Doesn't it hurt when you think about it?

Obviously, it's definitely going to be uncomfortable and heart-wrenching.

If it's heartbreaking, why let this kind of thing happen, even if it's something like this now, why not try to change it?

It's been lazy here, and what is the purpose of such laziness all the time?

Isn't it really enjoyable?

Could it be that when I fall asleep every night, I look at the stars, and my surroundings are empty except for myself, what is all this for?

Whenever you think about such a thing, don't you think that you have failed in life?

Won't you inspire a little bit of your fighting spirit?

Looking at those who are not as good as themselves, slowly because of their struggles, and then step by step continue to degenerate and change, and become what we all envy, don't we feel a little guilty! 1

I think we weren't that bad!

Obviously, many people have a bad advantage, but in the end, why did it become like that?

Are we really inferior to others?

Is it true that others are much better than us?

Is it hard to beat our lives so willingly?

Think about our parents, who have worked hard for us all their lives, and the eyes full of expectations and eyes in that life, are we willing to let them down for the rest of their lives?

Perhaps, at this moment, we have let them down.

But if we take a closer look, do they really despair of us?

Is there a real letting go for us?

Do you really want to be their pride?

Obviously, absolutely not!!

It's absolutely impossible.

At this bottom, although our parents are very strict with us, there is something behind this, which still expects us to live up to expectations, to be able to get some changes, and hope that we will live better than them, and not be like them all the time.

This kind of life is not good, very bad.

And it doesn't make sense either.

Be an ordinary person, although you can't talk about failure. However, it is very fragile, a disaster can defeat those fragile people, those ordinary people, and those who are really strong, a little disaster, a little setback, there is no way to make them fail.

It is also because of their strength that many people are able to cool off underneath them.

If this kind of thing can happen to you, if your body can shelter them from the wind and rain, really, there may be a lot of people who are proud.

Because this thing is something to be proud of,

At least he succeeded, and he was disappointed by the people who didn't trust him, and he was able to give them shade and make them proud of themselves.

And there is light on his own face.

Every time others think of themselves, they will think of how outstanding their abilities are, so that many people have crossed classes, and when they think of themselves as proud, their hearts will be particularly comfortable.

People are like this, they all have a certain amount of vanity, especially when they watch others respect themselves and pat themselves on the back.

Or when our relatives recognize us incomparably, we can all feel that we are respected and have a great sense of satisfaction in our hearts

This kind of satisfaction will make people feel a kind of pleasure from the inside out, from the whole body.

It is a kind of value recognition that allows self-realization.

It's a good feeling, but how many people are able to do it?

Obviously, it is absolutely very rare, it can be so little that it is particularly pitiful, there may be only one in 10,000 people, such a probability can be very low, in 10,000 people, there can be such a situation, it is not an exaggeration to say that the dragon and phoenix among the people,

Let's ask, down there, how is such a person?

Apparently there are very few,

Although this means that it is difficult to do something by ourselves, it does not mean that we should give up, because once we give up, it means that there is no chance left. If we don't give up, there is still a certain possibility.

Although it may not reach that level in the end. But we're going to get closer to that.

The so-called look at it, get it below, look at it, get it

So it's okay to think in this way, but to do it will stimulate your fighting spirit, and then climb up step by step, and finally bring out all your potential, as for what will become in the end.

Really, we don't need to think too much about it, we just need to grasp every step of the way, and we will be able to make a difference.

Maybe not much, but definitely a lot, after all, it has paid so much, just like a good sentence, there is no credit, and it is more or less distressed.

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