Chapter 428: Unmarriage
"I don't know what kind of man can make Her Royal Highness the princess blue-eyed?" Zhen Zhen asked.
Wu Fan shook his head, his hands twisted together.
"Didn't think about it? Or don't have someone you like? ”
"It's good to be like my father." Wu Fan finally spoke, with a little shyness on his face.
"Very thoughtful." Zhen Zhendao.
"But, Teacher Zhen, I want to ask you, do girls have to get married? Is it okay not to marry? ”
"Can you elaborate on your thoughts?" Zhen Zhen didn't expect this girl to have the same thoughts as her former self.
"What can you do after you get married? It's just a husband and a child. If you marry a child of a family, a bunch of people in the family, it's enough to just think about not quarreling with these people. However, two people who have never met, or at most have looked at each other a few times, want to live together like this, how can they not afford to quarrel? What about siblings fighting each other, let alone husband and wife? Who can guarantee that if I get married, the person I call my husband will like me? Maybe he married me just because I was a princess. ”
Wu Fan suddenly stopped, looked at Zhen Zhen with a little embarrassment, and said, "Teacher Zhen, are my words a little out of place?" After all, how many people envy me for sitting in the position of princess, but I am still not satisfied. ”
Zhen Zhen encouraged her: "I feel that there is no good or bad. If there is one thing that makes you unhappy, we can go and find the reason why you are not upset and solve the problem; Rather than not allowing yourself to be unhappy. In this case, it will not help solve any problems. ”
"Teacher Zhen, what you said is really good."
"If you don't like the wedding day, then what kind of life do you like to live?"
"It's good like this. In the future, I will be able to learn more things from my father and help him do more things. ”
"You think every thing you're doing now is more interesting, don't you?"
"I want to be a doctor like my father."
"How do you know that your father's medical skills are excellent?"
"In the past two years, my father and emperor have been treating people in the palace, and more and more people are looking for him. Now my father has to take people from the medical school to do free clinics every five and ten days, and they are at the gate of the palace. People outside the palace can also come. The imperial physician in the palace used to talk to his father, at most, he was humble, because his father was the crown prince. But now, there was obviously admiration in their eyes, because they knew that their father's level was indeed very high. ”
"What do you want to do after you study medicine?"
"Of course, it's to cure the disease and save people." Wu Fan's tone was full of "why don't you even know this".
"So you think it's more rewarding to do these things than to get married." Zhen Zhendao.
"Definitely! Teacher Zhen, do you think my method is correct? ”
"Every idea is worthy of respect, even if it is whimsical. I think your father would love to see you have your own opinions. But have you ever wondered what you're going to face when you do that? ”
"Teacher Zhen, I don't understand what you said?" Wu Fan was a little puzzled.
"Doing anything comes at a price. For example, in an hour from now on, you can only do one thing, and if you choose to talk to me, then you can't read, write, embroider, and draw. That's the price to pay for talking to me. Of course, I'm glad you're willing to pay that price. So, have you ever seen a woman who doesn't marry and how they live? What did they gain and what did they lose? Do you know the answers to these questions? Are you prepared? ”
"Many palace maids in the palace are because they are old and want to be released to get married. But it doesn't seem like there are many people who don't want to marry. I didn't pay attention to how they were doing. ”
"You might as well find out. Let's take a look at the women of ordinary people in the people. ”
"Oh, Teacher Zhen, don't sell it. Directly, what will happen if you don't get married! Will it die? ”
"Then you're not going to die. But rumors do kill. If you don't get married, the first thing you will encounter is that the people around us don't understand. They will raise all kinds of questions, and some people will even try their best to convince you and let you marry. ”
"I don't owe it to his family, why are these people looking forward to me getting married?"
"Nothing, just because you're different is enough to anger some people. It's like a black sheep suddenly appearing in the middle of a flock, even though the black sheep doesn't pose any threat and hasn't done anything wrong, but because of its different coat color, it will be rejected and alienated by other sheep. ”
"But my father has done whatever I want. Is it okay for me to ignore these people? ”
"Yes, but it's your father who is supporting you. Can your father stay with you for the rest of your life? What do you do if he can't stand up for you anymore? ”
"I ......"
"Can you stand up on your own? Can you stand alone with those who talk coldly? ”
"Stand up on your own?" Wu Fan struggled to understand Zhen Zhen's words.
Zhen Zhen didn't pick up, he was silent, giving Wu Fan a chance to think.
After a while, Wu Fan asked uncertainly: "Teacher Zhen, did you and my father choose to stand up on their own?" It turns out that Prince Yi always suppresses him, and even I have heard Prince Yi's arrogance in the harem. When his father was still the crown prince, Prince Yi dared not to salute when he saw his father, he always shirked his bad waist, and his father never cared, but called him uncle. ”
Zhen Zhen said: "This is the wisdom of your father, the emperor, who turned state affairs into family affairs. In this way, the behavior of the two raoes is reasonable, and others will not be able to find faults, but your father will respect the elderly. ”
Wu Fan said: "My father's medical school is getting better and better, and Prince Yi obviously respects his father a lot. also asked people to give me gifts every New Year's holiday, which is like two people who were arrogant before. Is this because of what you just said, my father, the emperor has stood firm on his own? ”
"It's the same thing." Zhen Zhendao.
"Therefore, I should first have the ability to make myself settle down, and even make people look up to me, so that people dare not beak my way of life at will. Well, come and go, I still have to learn medical skills first, and then I can talk about not marrying. ”
"Have you ever had these thoughts with your father?"
"Once in the past, I thought that if I couldn't meet someone like my father, it would be better not to marry, but my father didn't seem to take it seriously after hearing it, and he didn't take it to heart. I wasn't sure what my father thought, so I didn't mention it again. ”
"Do you think you need your father's approval for this choice?"
"It should be that my father had better be able to agree, right? If he doesn't agree, he'll marry me off. ”
"So do you want to be nice with your father?" 166 Reading Network