Chapter 188: Good Idea
In these years when the relationship between the sexes is suppressed and distorted to the point of cruelty, whether it is a widow or a divorced woman, life is not easy.
Once a family is without a man, people will stare at the mistress of the family with all kinds of colored eyes, secretly guessing whether she can keep her belt and keep the innocence of the dead man.
If life is a little better, people will think that women are indecent, otherwise she is a woman's family, how can she live a better life than a man's family.
If a woman says a word to a man more, all kinds of women's indecent words will be circulated, and in the future, they will be mentioned repeatedly, and the watery poplar will also become synonymous with her.
And those divorced women are even more alien in the eyes of people, everyone will imagine all kinds of reasons for divorce, and pour dirty water on women, to prove that being divorced is an unforgivable mistake made by women.
Otherwise, how to explain that she was swept away by a man?
Zhang Chunni has experienced these things to a greater or lesser extent.
It's just that the timing of her divorce is more subtle, in which year she just settled down.
At that time, divorce was not uncommon, and the women who were divorced were by no means a small number, and most of the reasons for divorce were the same.
Basically, men use the excuse that their marriage is an arranged marriage, and the wife is too rotten in her thinking and does not know how to improve, and she already has a like-minded revolutionary partner around her, so she wants to divorce.
Zhang Chunni is one of these divorced women.
The reason for being divorced is well known to everyone.
But even so, Zhang Chunni has been gossiped about over the years, and her three children have been suspected countless times that they are not Gu Huaiqing's species......
Zhang Chunni knows very well that the transparent reasons for divorce have been criticized, how much slander will those divorced women who don't know the reason suffer?
This is also the main reason why many women in this era are willing to suffer in their in-laws' family rather than divorce.
And Lin Dani's situation can be regarded as both a widow and a divorced woman, so you can imagine how many people she will be pointed at in the factory.
Especially when there is a large courtyard behind her, and all kinds of men with careful thoughts deliberately approach, Lin Dani has become the target of everyone's attack.
Regarding Lin Dani's situation, Gu Shinian really couldn't think of a good solution.
No one can control other people's thoughts, let alone control other people's mouths.
When encountering such a thing, unless Lin Dani is strong enough not to be afraid of people's words, or if she changes jobs and takes Dacheng to a new environment, she will never be able to get rid of the strange eyes of others, and a little private matter will be mentioned again and again.
Dacheng turned over and said in a dull voice, "Brother Shi Nian, I don't want to stay in the provincial capital anymore, but my aunt said that she has to keep the job in the shoe factory for me...... I knew my aunt didn't want to work in a shoe factory, she used to want to go to college, and I've seen her sneak around the night school. ”
Gu Shinian's heart moved, turned around and asked, "What happened?" ”
"I went twice, once after I was discharged from the hospital, and once again when I was crying in the factory a year ago. Brother Shinian, it would be nice if my aunt was a college student, and those people would not dare to gossip about her at that time. ”
Gu Shinian really wanted to tell Dacheng that even if Lin Dani was a college student, even if she sat in the office of a shoe factory after graduating from college, even if she became a leader, she couldn't control other people's mouths.
It's just that the environment is different, and the door of the clean office is closed, and those gossips are shut out and can't be heard.
Listening to Dacheng's heavy voice like falling stones, Gu Shinian couldn't bear to tell the truth, but followed his words, "If your aunt can go to college, she can enter the office as a cadre after graduation, and she can manage the workshop workers, and those female workers naturally don't dare to gossip about your aunt anymore." ”
In the dark, Dacheng's eyes lit up for a moment, he turned over and sat up, and asked Gu Shinian, "Brother Shi Nian, what do you say my aunt is going to night school to take the university exam?" My aunt's grades were good when she was in school, and she was the first in the exam! ”
"Yes, if you want to go to college, let your aunt go to night school when she goes back this time, and it's best to take the exam this year." You can graduate in time for the university to close.
Gu Shinian also felt that Lin Dani going to college was a good way, and when she graduated from college, whether she changed her work unit or was in her original unit, she would be able to get a small cadre, at least she could leave the noisy workshop and avoid the group of female workers who were munching on their tongues.
After pleasing a good idea, Dacheng fell asleep satisfied, and secretly decided in his heart that when he went back, he must find a way to coax Lin Dani to go to night school!
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Early the next morning, Lin Dani got up early, first helped Gu Pangui make breakfast, and after Zhang Chunni came back from work, she unpacked her baggage and took out the gifts she brought from the provincial capital.
This is a New Year's gift, Zhang Chunni did not refuse, accepted it generously, and returned a very good return gift.
Gu Shinian packed up his clothes, went back to the main house to take care of Zhang Chunni, took Dacheng and Lin Dani, and got on the mule cart.
When he arrived in the town, Gu Shinian did not choose to let the handlebar send a few people to the village, but took the two of them to step on the potholed dirt road.
Dacheng was coming to the countryside for the first time, and the whole person was so excited that even the dead trees on the side of the road had to lean over to take a look.
Cheerful as a calf.
Avoiding Dacheng, who was running in front, Gu Shinian said to Lin Dani, "Aunt Lin, I want to ask you to help me with something." ”
Lin Dani withdrew her gaze from Dacheng and looked at Gu Shinian curiously, "What can I do for you?" ”
"I want to buy a suite for Ah Sheng in the county and move her household registration to the city. It's just that I'm not very old, and if I really bought a house for Ah Shang, it's hard to explain where the money to buy the house came from.
You also know Ah Shang's life experience, I'm worried that Grandpa Yun and Grandma Yun are reluctant to move out of Ah Shang's hukou, I want you to come forward and talk to Grandpa Yun and Grandma Yun as Aunt Ah Shang, so that they think that the money to buy the house is your ......"
Lin Dani touched her face, which looked like a cloud, looked in a trance for a moment, and nodded in agreement.
Gu Shinian put his mind at ease and quickly told the situation of the old Yun family, and Lin Dani had a rough idea in her heart.
After thinking for a while, he said, "This thing should be done, we just let Yunshang eat the food supplied by the city residents, and not take Yunshang away from the old Yun family, they shouldn't object." As long as you don't let people know that you paid for the house, right? ”
Gu Shinian nodded helplessly, if it weren't for his young age and couldn't explain the source of the large amount of money in his hand, he wouldn't have delayed buying a house for so long.
Fortunately, Lin Dani is here, and she can use Lin Dani's face to smoothly handle the matter of buying a house for Yunshang.