But, seriously, this approach is a bit self-deceptive and not very smart, because smart people know that it is okay to think like this if you say things that cannot be avoided, but if you are still thinking about things that you can't avoid, it is stupid, because if you want to motivate yourself and want to improve yourself, you can choose a new way, or you can choose a better way, if you do it this way, although you may be able to achieve your desired goals in the end, but, They will inevitably be accompanied by some unnecessary pain, these unnecessary pain, for a moment and a half may not have much impact on themselves, but after a long time, we will find that such an approach is actually very unwise for each of us, and this approach is very painful for many of us, because we don't know what kind of hidden dangers are hidden behind any failure, and some hidden dangers may be very small, but, It is not excluded that some hidden dangers are very huge, so the huge and small hidden dangers are often not possible with our personal observation, because some things will cause a series of chain reactions, which are determined by fate, not by our personal intervention, but human beings can intervene to a certain extent through a certain amount of rational thinking and judgment, but this intervention is also extremely limited.

So we must not let the wrong thing happen, once the wrong thing happens, resulting in serious consequences, we may want to cry and have no way to solve the problem, the fact is this, although it is very ruthless and cruel, but we have to face, this is what we should do the most, not what we take the initiative to escape, the active consciousness of the escape can paralyze themselves, but the paralysis of their own behind contains their own bitterness, including their own incomprehension of reality, for the reality of incomprehension, How can we deal with potential problems with your thinking? If the underlying problem is not solved.

Over time, we may find an astonishing fact, that is, the accumulation of more and more problems, the accumulation of hidden dangers, just as a person finds more and more mistakes, a small mistake will continue to accumulate to form a huge error, in the face of such a huge mistake, who can say that they can completely remove them without leaving any hidden dangers quickly?

If someone says so, then he is indeed very confident, but behind the self-confidence, does he have the strength to match, but even if he has the strength to match, they have found so many mistakes before, but they don't know how to change, how can we believe that they have that strength? And even if there were, the reason why they made such mistakes before was obviously due to their laziness, so even if they had enough talent, they would eventually be unable to implement it because of laziness, and when a small mistake accumulates and accumulates too much, no matter how talented this person is, no matter how smart this person is, eventually they may find themselves walking on a path that is unlikely to be completed, because in the medium term, There are a lot of problems in this world, and it is difficult for even those who are gifted, and no matter how talented we are, we have them. There is also a ceiling, and there are many things that we can't do in a short period of time.

Such too high knowledge, such too blind belief in their own ability, is likely to eventually push us into the terrible abyss, a person's excessive conceited self-confidence is not necessarily a good thing, excessive conceit and self-confidence will make yourself blind, let yourself see some things clearly, will lead to yourself to make a wrong assessment and judgment of some things, once we make a wrong assessment and judgment of a thing, we will make a wrong plan.

Is it possible to solve a real problem according to a wrong plan? Obviously not, not only can not be solved well, but also is likely to cause a big disaster, for example, when the family is driving, if they take the brakes as a do, the accelerator in the crowd of people, what a terrible thing, so we must remember to warn ourselves, no matter how simple the problem is, or even if you have a high talent, you must not despise any problem, because the four-limbed rabbit has the right to step forward, and once we make a mistake, What we are facing may not be so simple that a simple repentance can be counteracted.

If we can understand such a thing earlier, it is undoubtedly a very good thing for us, and if we understand this matter very late, in fact, it is still a little bit relatively speaking, and it is too late to wake up. Have we thought about it? When a person has been wrong all his life, and finally comes to his senses on the last day, how much can they change? In fact, what can be changed is that the machine is limited, so the prodigal son is not playing that when there is actually an upper limit.

If we blindly believe in such words, really think that when is any time, then we will definitely be harmed by such words, and if we carefully observe our surroundings, we may be able to find that many people will have such wrong ideas and wrong cognitions.

Behind the wrong concept and wrong cognition is to check our ignorance, and more also our laziness, because many people are not very stupid, some truths, if each of us ordinary people think about it, we can also find out what is wrong, and those people actually did not find it, it can only show one problem, that is, they are too lazy, some problems do not want to use their brains at all, if we do not use our brains, we do not know how much suffering and how much injury we have to suffer under this world.

These things are likely to be something that we can't make up for in our lifetime, and once some injuries appear, in our lives, even if we spend our whole life trying to make up for them, it is very likely that we will leave a very significant trace, and this trace has nothing to do with what kind of state we are.

Because this is the case, for example, no matter how much the broken mirror is used to restore it completely, it is difficult for them to completely recover from the original state, which is why we have tried every means to find the lost pieces and assemble them in the right way, and we will also find that the delicate pieces that have been recombined are just a mottled and no longer bright blurred shadow.

This truth is very simple but can explain a lot of problems in our lives, if we can clearly excavate it in this place, can carefully correct it, then our life and our future still have, huge changes and turnarounds, if this time this place we have not been able to find him and correct it in time, so that our life will become what is also conceivable, the probability is actually not very good.

It is true that many of us say that we should have the courage to try, don't be afraid to make mistakes, but we think about it carefully, it is really glory to have the courage to try, it is really to try anything, if we understand that anything can be tried, do not try, then we think about those things that will be punished, we try, what consequences we will accept, how we will be condemned by others, After a little bit of information, we realize that everything sounds the same way at first, but after we think about it carefully, we find that we have a lot of wrong cognitions, and these wrong cognitions may be difficult to find if we don't think hard.

It is possible that the result is that there is no way to find the wrong idea in our mind, and then once we have to use such a critical time one day, take out such a wrong idea, what kind of joke will we make? What kind of mistakes I'm going to make is unknown.

But one thing is very clear, that is, under the guidance of such a wrong concept, the things we do must deviate from the trajectory of the development of the right things, and deviate from the trajectory of the development of the right things, then it means that we have embarked on a wrong road, walking on a wrong road, if we can turn back at the beginning, if we can turn back, if we go too far, or even spend our whole life, it will be difficult for us to turn back at this time, even if we turn back, what can we do? Because each of our years and time is limited, and we invest our limited time in the wrong things, even if we turn back, we can no longer go back to the past, we can no longer achieve our most desired wishes, such a thing should be such a sad thing, some people think that since such a thing will occur, then it is better not to work hard, not to try? But if we don't try hard, will our lives be better?

And no, not only will our lives not be better, but on the contrary, they may become 10 points worse.

If we continue to be bad for a long time, if we are decadent for a long time, it may be difficult for us to get back on the right path, we may get used to this feeling, we will get used to this atmosphere, and once we get used to this atmosphere, then we will be miserable.

Because we stay in a wrong range for a long time, we will develop a lot of bad habits, and these bad habits want to change, it is not so simple a bad habit needs to be changed, it may take countless time, so many bad habits, add up, there may be people who have no way to improve in their lives, but it is normal for each of us to have some bad habits, but we must also pay attention to a degree, everything must be talked about a degree, for example, we see that there is no harm, the same as waterOnly when we drink too much will we have problems with our body, only when we drink a lot, so that we will have a healthy and health care effect on our body, so through such an example, we also understand a truth, that is, everything must be clear where its degree is, we must have a good grasp of our degree, and we must not exceed the degree we may feel. How stupid, how ignorant and ridiculous everything I have done before.

However, some people will not reflect, he feels that he is doing the right thing, he thinks that everything he says is correct, such people have an extremely narrow vision after all, and eventually they will harm them because of this narrow vision, because if you look at things with such a narrow vision, it will definitely cause them to miss some opportunities, and these opportunities are likely to bring them a huge boost. But because his heart is higher than the sky or his own self-righteousness, he can't see it, or even if he sees it, he can't take this ride.

Because of any matter and any opportunity, he has a certain threshold, if we can't reach such a threshold, we can't take this free ride, otherwise, each of us sees the opportunity, and finally successfully climbs up? Actually, no, the reason why I didn't climb up is nothing more than two points, the first progress is too intense, and the second point is that there is a certain threshold, and there is no way to climb up if you want to.

Therefore, we must continue to improve ourselves before things come, constantly enrich ourselves, make ourselves more excellent, let ourselves have more human beings and abilities, so that we can do things better, when a person becomes better, will be envied by others, and will get more sincere incentives.

Under the adjustment of such positive feedback, it will lead to getting better and better, and the worse the people, if they do not have a strong willpower to change, then their lives will become worse and worse, until in the end they will regret why they did such a thing? But does regret work? Regret is of little use to some extent, or rather than regretting it, it is better to find a way to avoid such a thing from happening again, and then change the rest of your life.

In this way, we will be able to eradicate it at the root and avoid it at the root.

In the process, you will inevitably encounter some difficult things.