Some people may not care about such things, but let's dig deeper and find out why it doesn't matter, because from the very beginning they have adapted to this kind of nest life, being pointed at by others and saying, I don't let them fluctuate too much such things, I don't know whether to say that it is a kind of luck or misfortune, seriously, we as a person, have our own emotions, being pointed at by others and scolding the nest, it is really very uncomfortable and tormenting, And are we really comfortable with these words?

In fact, even if these people come from the bottom of their hearts, they will feel uncomfortable, but they feel that they have blindly adapted to it before, if they can be scolded twice, there is nothing else, then it's fine, but in fact, is this really the case, sometimes in most cases others may be scolded, but in fact what we lose is our dignity, what we lose is the most basic thing as a person, if we don't even have the most basic conscience and dignity, Then it's hard to imagine how low our bottom line will be.

When a person loses the most fundamental bottom line, then he is no longer able to bear other people's to some extent, and can even be called a doll to some extent.

A doll who only knows what Liren said, and doesn't know what people call monsters, how to sigh when these people act.

They must have been helpless with all kinds of distrust in their hearts, but they have adapted to it. For an unfair thing. Said that it has been adapted.

Such a person has lost the old medicine to some extent, if someone really keeps the last trace of conscience in their hearts, such a little bit of their own things, then we shouldn't do this, sure enough, each of me will encounter setbacks and unsatisfactory times, but we should not choose to bow our heads completely when we are frustrated and do not work hard, sometimes it doesn't matter if we bow our heads once or twice, it doesn't matter if we go down in the long term, In this way, it means that we are no longer a so-called ninja submission, but a real submission, when a person has given in to something unfair, something bad, it means that he has begun to give up on himself from the bottom of his heart.

Why? Because if people who are full of yearning for life and full of hope for life are definitely unwilling to go to others, so even if they compromise for something, it is just a compromise, not a real submission. At that time, they probably have lost all their enthusiasm for life, because last time it was my so-called enthusiasm, so they felt that everything didn't matter, and the dignity that people might value the most and that was the most difficult to give up also felt that it didn't matter.

It's hard to comment on whether it's right or wrong for such indifference, but one thing is certain, that is, we can't lose confidence in ourselves under any circumstances, once we really lose confidence in ourselves, it means that of course our real words care about the possibility of no turnaround, not to mention that it's not right, if you are smooth, you may still be able to turn around your current situation, even if it is a little worse, but as long as you stick to it, you are likely to see a turnaround.

Because every day in this world is full of countless variables, it is difficult for us to predict and predict what will happen in the next moment, and all we can do is to do our best now as soon as possible, and when the opportunity comes, we will seize the opportunity while God is taking advantage of it.

Let yourself not miss the time of strength, to avoid the arrival of some opportunities, for us may not necessarily be such an opportunity, on the contrary, it may be a disaster, because when something very precious falls in front of our eyes, and we catch him, it is very likely to be coveted by others, if we do not have enough energy to exclude these people, these messages to these people, it is very likely that because of jealousy, so as to have the mind of robbery.

This situation is undoubtedly very scary and very annoying, but we have no way to stop them before they make their own actions, but if we have absolutely strong strength, things may be the opposite, at least when they start to do it, there will be a lot of scruples in their hearts, so that they have no way to really complete a thing.

This is the best way we can take, there is a good saying, open arrows are easy to dodge, hidden arrows are difficult to prevent, what we have to do is to be strong, and then let them even if they are three indiscriminate small means, there is no way to do us.

In this way, we don't have to be afraid of their so-called small means, we don't have to take their actions that threaten us, as long as we are strong enough that their previous ideas are just essences, and they can never achieve technology, but we are not strong enough to do these things and not be able to pose an effective threat to them, then we may be a little dangerous, if we have a lot of things, and they see it, Their actions will certainly produce such emotions, and it cannot be ruled out that some people will take risks.

Such swan heads often carry a great consciousness, a deep consciousness, for such an awareness, for such a profound thing, we have no way, the only thing we can do is to strengthen ourselves, and then let all their attacks turn into nothingness.

Or choose a more low-key form, so that they can't notice us, and when our real strength can't be shown in front of their eyes, they won't have the same heart as him, but it's still difficult to do this, because once many people have something, they can't help but want to show off.

Showing off like this kind of thing all the time is actually a kind of cultivation and a challenge for people. It can be said that once someone can control and restrain their own **, then such a person begins to grow, and such a person often has a great possibility of being able to realize his dreams, because if you want to obtain and complete a thing, to a certain extent, you need an extremely strong spirit of self-discipline.

If we don't have an extremely strong spirit of self-discipline, we want to take a car many times to purify the water source, are all in the air, and when we have, everything will change dramatically, whether we want to believe it or not, the facts are in front of us, and we can't help but not believe that what we can do is to push the boat down the river in that era, we should fulfill our responsibilities and do what we should do.

As for what kind of things we are suitable for and what kind of things are suitable for doing, this requires our own judgment, but in general, when there is nothing, it is difficult to judge it, so for many of us, it is necessary to try more, if we don't try, to spy on it, and track different things, so that we can really find the right thing for us, and if we don't try to say anything, we want to find the most suitable for us. Seriously, this thing is not necessarily a very simple thing, this is a more difficult and difficult thing to develop to varying degrees, we have to think that these things are impossible and we should not be careful, anything to throw into any community, it is very likely to bring unwarranted disasters and fatal disasters to themselves, we should not underestimate anything, there is a good saying, Leo rabbit still uses all his strength.

Why is there such a statement, this is the ancestor is telling us to do something, when we are very young, we must also be 100% spirited, do not let any small possibility happen, because any small possibility happens, let all our efforts be in vain.

It's a very small probability, and it's very unlikely that it will happen to us, but what if it happens? What happens is what happens, and if you want to change or reverse, that's a very difficult thing.

It is true that we challenge some difficult things as a kind of sharpening ourselves, but it is stupid to challenge some things that are not necessarily difficult.

We must be clear about the priorities, figure out some of the potential conditions for implementation, don't take some airdrop words as indicators and creeds of life, if you say this, then it proves that this person lacks the benevolence to think, and believes what others say, such people are brainless, if we are pointed at by others and say that we have no brains, what will we think, and if we really have no brains, it means that we have made a lot of feelings that are sometimes fair, are not quite right.

There is nothing to be afraid of once or twice incorrect decisions, that is, a long time of incorrect feeling that a long time of unconsciously feeling that mistakes are accumulating again and again, will be a little bit smoothed out of the advantages that they have accumulated before, when they have been accumulated a little bit of advantages are smoothed out, we will fall into a trough, into a level of self-doubt, once I fall into this kind of self-doubt, I want to get out, without a little bit of damage is also very difficult.

And this kind of thing is not necessary, we could have avoided it, but it happened due to our own reasons, and it is very unworthwhile to think about it from any angle.

But some people don't realize that they have fallen into this strange circle, still in that joint of the continuous cycle, still every day constantly complaining, complaining about themselves, once there was so much nonsense to hug themselves, the future life will be so gorgeous, but we let others judge, now he may be mediocre, but they don't want to believe that they have been living in the world they have created, living in such a world, of course, will make themselves happy, However, if the teacher is far from the actual teacher and reality, it can also lead to a result, that is, he always has a wrong assessment of himself, and such a wrong assessment may often seem very fatal in the end, because he does not look at his own strength objectively, in order to make himself do something that does not match his current strength, if he says that the ability is small, it doesn't matter, but the event that needs to be large. We did the light waste of time, and the heavy hit of the head broke the bloodstream.

For this kind of injury, many people may feel that it doesn't matter, but more often they still feel that it will be very painful and difficult to accept, why can they accept it? Because this thing could have been avoided, but some people are still obsessed, they still don't find out why this happened after that incident, they still live in the illusion they have created, and they will never wake up, you say they don't realize it, as if they are aware of it, but if you say they are aware, why hasn't he changed? They know that it won't do them much good, or that it would be better to do it differently, but don't they want to think about it? Have they fallen into a comfortable environment and don't want to change?

As for the outcome, it is difficult to guess, because different people have different opinions on the same thing, just like Hamlet, everyone will have 1000 Hamlets in their hearts, and it is difficult for anyone to completely guess what is 100% in their hearts, but general speculation can still be done, even if it is a general speculation, it is not necessarily 100% suitable for everyone, because the person who people show in front of us is not necessarily the real self.

The manifestation of the true self is estimated to be visible only to those closest to us, and what others see is only the appearance, for such appearances, we don't know how to do it, and we don't know how to think about it.

And we don't have to spend too much thought on such things, just let it go with the flow, since others don't want us to see, then we don't want to force to guess, the steps of the Tibetan scriptures are very tiring, and once you guess wrong, it means that you will have the wrong impression, under the guidance of such a wrong influence, we may not be able to do anything right and wise in the end, and in the end incorrect and wise thinking will lead us to do something that is not very rational, Such a result, no matter who it is, must not want to see it. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127