Even if Ivan is the emperor himself, he can only use his identity, status and power to decide the question of life and death.

It's not easy to change your thoughts and obsessions, and it seems that it's relatively easy to change yourself.

Because of this, Ivan's thoughts are always able to converge quickly, and he will want to understand others by convincing himself.

Even if he does it, it may not be in line with Ivan's concept, and even occasionally there will be some conflicts, and he is used to it.

But blindly trying to persuade others to change their beliefs and expectations sounds like a dictator.

This is obviously not a wise approach, maybe this girl's life is really very good, she can really turn the tables against the wind.

Even if it is a reversal of life, it is not completely impossible, after all, there are predecessors to learn.

Ivan believed that a miracle would happen, after all, as a prince, it was incredible that he could still have such freedom.

It would have been a miracle, but if he had been locked in the imperial city like other princes, his mind might have been closed long ago.

Later, Ivan was no stranger to these girls, and the girls from those big families were married into the palace as concubines.

The girl from the family also wants to marry into the palace as a concubine, even if it is just a palace maid, it is okay, and she will not be too picky.

You must know that it is perfect to be able to marry into a big family, but most of these are just beautiful things that exist in fantasy.

As long as these girls are not too lucky, they can basically have a decent second half of their lives, and they will not be too miserable.

This can be regarded as what Ivan can guess, a better ending, even if he marries into just an ordinary concubine, it will be very good.

Even if she is just a palace maid or a concubine, at least in their cognition, she must be relatively decent.

However, not all good-looking and beautiful girls can have such a good life, and there will always be people who are not too lucky.

It's just that in comparison, some girls, girls who are not good-looking, those who live in poor families.

It is impossible for them to have such a good ending, which sounds acceptable, and being a palace maid can only fantasize about Zheng

These girls may have started to work in the farms at home, and some of them were even sold to work as maids at an old age.

When they grow up, often their parents will start to decide on their marriage, and they will have to be forced to accept it.

If you are lucky enough to be able to marry a poor scholar and a gentle man, you are already very lucky.

Some girls have a bad life and may marry a tyrannical person, and there are not a few men of this type.

And parents don't pay attention to this, they will only fancy which man they marry their daughter to, and they can get more money.

After all, their parents just treat them as an object for themselves, a commodity that can be sold. I don't feel half a bit of pity for these hard-working girls, and the money in exchange is just the money they have to live on.

Or so that his son can marry a daughter-in-law in the future and pass on the lineage, which happens in a poor family.

Or because of other purposes, after all, when a person is extremely purposeful, there is only one thing in his eyes.

Everything else can only be a stepping stone for them to achieve their goals, in fact, they are all hard-working people.

Those who are parents just want to live, which is already the most important reason, and they are powerless to refute.

So they can be more confident and marry off their own daughters in exchange for what they want.

This is so common that there is no other reason at all, and there is only one fundamental reason, which is poverty.

The fate of those girls is often due to their unconditional obedience and submission to the love of their parents.

In the end, I got a result that I didn't want at all, but after the incident, I was powerless to change it.

Girls who are married to deaf, foolish, lame, physically handicapped, or old men in their fifties and sixties.

In Ivan's opinion, no girl thinks that she is happy, even if she later commits suicide because of humiliation

Ivan has been traveling for so long, and he has heard a little about many things, and there are even more rumors of this kind of pain.

I've seen a lot of all kinds of things in life, and these are just some of the miserable situations, and there are even worse.

It's just that Ivan has always thought that those who are parents will suffer this ordeal if they know that the girl in their own family will marry in the past.

Some even can't bear to commit suicide in the end, these are all fresh lives, this is their own daughter.

If you raise such a big person, it's gone, and if you don't feel it at all in your heart, is it still a person?

Won't these parents, when they suddenly think about it at night, their conscience hurt?

Don't you feel full of guilt and self-blame? And even beyond that, won't they be afraid?

I'm afraid that my daughter will come to me at night to ask for justice or something, why did you marry her to this kind of person in the first place.

But then Ivan also thought about it, they are parents who don't have a conscience at all, so how can they be happy

When a daughter gets married, it's like a commodity being sold, and she doesn't even think about what feelings she had for this object.

These are all illusory, and you will only think it is funny when you get up, you must know that feelings are not real.

But of course, this kind of is limited to those girls who are poor and marry very badly, Ivan has a feeling.

That kind of parent will have such concerns, after all, when a person can't even afford to eat, can't even eat, and can only be hungry, there is no time to think about other things. He couldn't see the oasis in the distance, he just wanted to stay by the well in front of him.

And those girls who marry well are often like turning into phoenixes, and it is really a pheasant that flies on the branch and becomes a real phoenix.

Some even have to change their names when their parents call them, otherwise their status and status will not be equal.

This kind of girl is often the cash cow of her parents, and she has fragrant sweets in her hands, for fear that she will suffer any grievances and will have no money.

Even if these girls just have backache, they will feel very distressed when they are parents, and they will be treated as a phoenix.

Ivan doesn't want to recall this kind of thing too much, you must know that on a night like this, all that comes to mind are some very negative energy things, not a state of comfortable relaxation and enjoyment of the moment, Ivan doesn't want to be bothered by these things.

Obviously, this would be a complete waste of such a good night, and it would be better to rest than to think about these useless things.

It's also good to stretch your muscles, but if you always take the time to think about it, it seems very rational, but it doesn't make any sense.