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However, some people really understand that this truth still can't be changed, because knowledge is adapted to their bones, and we don't have to force it, what we are most afraid of is the kind of selfish, but people who learn to disguise, such people are very scary.
When we don't know their true faces, we may not think about other things because he is a very good person, but once we know their true colors, we may be frightened, our bodies will break out in a cold sweat, and we will also feel very disgusted, because such people, we will find that many of the things they did before have other motives, in fact, they are not allowed to take away our interests invisibly, but we don't know it yet, but this kind of thing happensIf it weren't particularly significant, there would be no way to hold them accountable.
So we must keep our eyes open in life.
You have to observe the people around you carefully, don't be easily deceived by them, some people are wearing a mask of hypocrisy and deceiving there, others still think he is a good person, but in fact he is a heinous person who makes people feel disgusting.
Instead of going into the hunt, it's better to think about what you should do next, and then don't encounter the same thing again, sometimes we fall in one place once.
And Ming, now his wife, he doesn't understand this truth, but he knows the truth of being prepared for danger in times of peace, although looking at him there always looks right and right seems to be appreciating, but at the same time, he is also preventing the arrival of the crisis, looking left and right there seems to be appreciating those beauty, but in fact, in his heart he was still afraid of them when he was a child, because in his impression that things that seem to be too beautiful often have his fatal point, such as when he was at home before, he walked through the countryside, Then I saw some very beautiful things, such as colorful snakes, they are very beautiful, but such things are often some deadly poisonous tongues, a bite is enough to kill them, so these things look left and right there, it seems to appreciate those beauty, but in fact, in my heart, I am still afraid of them, because in his impression, what seems to be too beautiful often has his fatal point, such as when he was at home before, he walked through the countryside and fields, and then he saw some very beautiful things, For example, colorful snakes, they are very beautiful, but such things are often some deadly poisonous snakes, one bite is enough to spare his life, so he has stayed away from these things all his life, and has formed a deep imprint in his heart, and the reason why he has formed such a brand is because he has seen people have been bitten and then died, and several times he has almost been caught by this kind of thing.
It was in his memory and in his body that he had already affected the fear of everything, and like the rose, although it was beautiful, it had thorns, and if you only cared about its beauty and picked it with your bare hands, it was very likely that you would be stabbed by it.
These things are constantly experienced in life day after day and year after year, when we experience them, we will store them in our own brains, especially this meaningless and terrible contrasting things, will be very, very profound has been persuading guests in our memory, many times there is no way to forget, unless their brain has been traumatically damaged, and then most of the previous memories have been forgotten, otherwise it may not be forgotten for a lifetime.
This mood is understandable, but there is no need to be too hostile to everything, because sometimes some beauty may be pure beauty, pure beauty, beauty to the extreme flawless beauty, if we judge that all beautiful things are terrible just because of previous experiences, then we are very likely to miss this beauty, so that we leave a lifelong regret, sometimes we can not look at things one-sidedly, to be comprehensive, we are vigilant and vigilant at the same time, It is important to know that we should have a deep understanding before we can make the right judgment, and not just rely on our own intuition or previous experience to sentence something to death and determine what they are all at once.
Only this approach is the most accurate, not a biased approach, of course, it is simple, in fact it will be a little difficult to do, because many people are difficult to escape from their comfort zone, all by virtue of how comfortable how to come, so people often feel regret when they are old, regret why they did so many things wrong, all of this is fundamentally nothing, just don't want to escape from the comfort zone, just want to have a good and comfortable rest, this is such a mentality ruined us, in fact, it is not called ruined, It can only leave a lot of unsatisfactory and regrets in our lives.
Such a regret that the old man left a lot, but the time flowed from the flowing water, and it is impossible to flow back, although we remember when sad and sad, but what, we still have to look forward, after all, what has passed has passed, and it is very difficult to come back, we only have the possibility to go further and go better only in front of us.
In fact, there are many things in front of us, and many of them are worthy of our appreciation and praise, but some people don't think so, or they don't have this kind of thinking in their concepts, because they care too much about the past, and they can't extricate themselves from it, and some people even go crazy because of it, is this right? Or is it worth it?
What about this kind of thing, for everyone to see the law may be different, every Rao view should be worthy of respect, so we can't be worthless or bad, but this approach may not be a little inappropriate, but, sometimes the right is not the most important, the most important thing is that you care most about your heart, the most worthy of recalling is what we should do, such a practice sometimes seems a little irrational here, but if you live in this world all with reason to judge, It's a bit too boring, human beings are emotional, and they are animals full of emotions, unlike other machines that don't have emotions.
It is because of the emotion that the world has become colorful, it is because of the emotion that we feel that the world is as colorful as this, this is because of the existence of emotion, we have joy and anger, sorrow and sorrow, the days are colorful, colorful, some things if it happens for a long time, people will slowly numb, now I also feel more and more boring, even if it is a happy thing, at first we may feel happy, but as time goes by, our nerves will slowly produce numb feelings for these things, After numbness, the things that we feel very happy may not necessarily make us feel happy in the end, only the different blends together will make us feel washed, and then make us feel sad, and then we will rush to the happy meeting after the sadness is a more pleasant joy.
Such a loss is also a kind of gain.
As the saying goes, there is more to gain, maybe we should pay attention to how much they have lost, behind the gain is certainly worthy of envy, but as everyone knows, some of them have paid a huge price and great torture for this, but we are not a monitoring machine, we can monitor the trajectory of their every Rao life at all times, we see their brilliant appearance, but ignore their inner torment.
So we don't have to be too envious when we see these Rao, we should know that this is what they deserve, because they have lost, so they got what they deserve, and the reason why we didn't get these things, because we didn't lose enough, or even if we lost time, we didn't succeed, and when the time comes, it will naturally come to us slowly, before that, we wait quietly, do what we should do, have a good saying, If you bloom butterflies, that's basically what it means.
But some people, he is not very patient, after waiting for a long time still not waiting for what he wants, gradually they begin to disbelieve, feel that they are abandoned by fate, people feel that everything is so painful.
But is this really the case, in fact, it may not be, but it will definitely be better to be patient, at least so that we will not be too desperate when we encounter setbacks, and if we have enough patience, we will also be patient in the face of difficulties to solve, solve a bad problem one by one, and naturally get one harvest after another, and after solving the bad problem, our life will also usher in a future that gradually loses its shackles.
This is equivalent to us breaking the self-care of life, we break the life since ancient times will naturally usher in a better and harmonious life, you must know that sometimes if you want to live a perfect life, you must learn to compromise and wait. In this process, we have to do more than wait, if we just wait, we can't wait for anything good, because there is a good saying, waiting for the rabbit is never waiting for the rabbit, even if we wait for the rabbit, it is also a blind cat to meet the dead mouse, good luck, we live in this world, it is impossible to expect our luck to be so good every time, otherwise we will definitely be tortured to death by ourselves, because we hope that luck will help us when we encounter everything, It is a pity that there is no one who is the child of the three schools who are completely dependent and loyal, and everything is just to achieve our future under our hands.
The good and bad of the future are all between our hands by our diligence, by our efforts, by our unremitting struggle, and what we get is unreliable by others, because others have no reason to help us, and if we expect to be helped, that hope can be slim.
So we also need to do better, we have to learn to be patient and accept, and then. So we also need to do better, we have to learn to be patient, to accept, and then to break through.
Only such people can become strong, and those who only know how to blindly evade and dodge are just cowards, but many people are making excuses for themselves, it's really too difficult, it's simply to complete things by themselves, this is not something that people can do at all, and so on, is it really like this? Maybe so, but most of the time it's just that people feel that the problem is too difficult and don't want to spend that time and energy, and that's fine. But this also means that we will lose our advantage in the competition, in this world, we are competing, only in the competition we can be successful, in the competition we can improve ourselves step by step, otherwise there is no competition and no improvement, we can only always stand still, after standing still, we may not get what we want, because the resources in this world are limited, we can only do better and more perfect than others, it is possible to get what we want, Otherwise, there are only so many things, you don't want to work hard, and you don't have a competitive advantage, how can you take what belongs to you from Berao?
Obviously, this is very ridiculous, this world is so cruel, the jungle eats the strong, but some strong people have good intentions and create a very comfortable and good environment for us, in such an environment, we should also learn to cherish, understand that these cherished are not easy to come by, but we must have the idea of being prepared for danger in times of peace, because these things may be trampled off at any time, not trampled off, there may be an imbalance, when the imbalance comes, we ask ourselves, Can we rely on ourselves to protect what we want to protect? Can we get what we want on our own? Can we rely on ourselves to live comfortably and freely?
Obviously, these are very difficult, all the difficulties come from being too weak, and weak, who is not, who is strong at the beginning, they are all growing up slowly, harvesting their own strength in growth, plumping their wings in growth, when they become strong enough when they become winged and sharp, presumably no one can despise themselves.
Then we can keep what we want to keep and get the joy and joy and freedom we want.
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