In Dawei, there are three ways to end a marriage relationship.

The first is to divorce the wife, and the man will take the initiative, as long as the wife commits any of the "seven outs", the man can divorce the wife. Seven out includes "disobedience to parents, childlessness, lewdness, jealousy, evil diseases, excessive speech, and theft", anyway, if a man wants to divorce his wife, among the seven reasons for divorce, there is always one that can be forcibly put on his wife.

Of course, the counterpart to "seven out" is "three out".

A man who was poor at the time of his wife, but now he is rich and noble, shall not divorce his wife.

The wife accompanies her husband to mourn her in-laws and keep her filial piety, and she is not allowed to divorce her wife.

If the wife has no relatives in her mother's family and is homeless after being divorced, she cannot divorce her wife.

"Three outs" is a supplementary explanation of "seven outs", which can barely be regarded as a protection of women's rights and interests in ancient times.

However, when a man intends to divorce his wife, most of them are stronger than the woman, and this "three nos" situation cannot bind all men. The women who were divorced back to their parents' homes couldn't even take away their dowry, and they couldn't remarry with a bad reputation, and most of them lived a very bleak life.

The second is harmony.

The man and the woman divorced peacefully, and the woman returned to her parents' house with the dowry, and from then on the marriage of the man and the woman had nothing to do with it.

Those who can agree and leave, in addition to the woman's family is strong enough, most of the men are more open-minded.

The marriage broke down, and the divorce was already the best choice for the women of the Great Wei, even if they went through hard work and succeeded in leaving, it was not easy for the woman who returned home with the dowry to remarry.

And whether it is divorce or divorce, the impact on the man's remarriage is particularly small!

The third is righteousness.

For example, if a husband harms or even kills his wife's parents, not only will he be punished according to the law, but the government will also sentence the husband and wife to be divorced and forcibly dissolve the marriage relationship.

Conversely, if a wife hurts her husband's relatives, she will also be sentenced by the government to 'righteousness'.

After Mei Pujia married into the Yang family, she served her in-laws and served her husband, and did not violate any of the "seven outs", so she wanted to get together with Yang Daiying, and the husband and wife separated peacefully.

But in the eyes of Mrs. Hou Shizi of Changxing, Mei Pujia dared to mention 'harmony and separation' is a big rebellion, such a disobedient daughter-in-law wants to leave the Yang family, and she only deserves to take a letter of resignation and get out!

If it weren't for the fact that it was late when the Yang family's father and son went home, Mrs. Shizi would have rushed to the Mei family and scolded the Mei family for having no way to teach their daughter.

scolded the Mei family in the Hou Mansion with a dry mouth, and the Mei family couldn't hear it, and Mrs. Shizi pointed her gun at Yang Daiying again, scolding Yang Daiying for not being able to control even a woman:

"In the past, I wanted to set rules for her, but you are still distressed, your daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law for many years, which daughter-in-law doesn't come over like this, she is more delicate, and she can't stand any grievances?"

If it is a princess or a county lord, the prince and the lady will also admit it.

It's just the daughter of a little Hanlin.

This daughter-in-law was not seen by Mrs. Shizi personally, and from the first day Mei Pujia entered the door, Mrs. Shizi was not satisfied.

Yang Daiying was silent, Mrs. Shizi had not stopped, and she counted Mei Pujia's crimes one by one, and she was not respectful enough to her in-laws, and the other was that Mei Pujia and her foreign man were not clear, and she committed "lewdness" in the seven.

Mrs. Shizi scolded the Mei family and Yang Daiying, but Yang Shizi did not open his mouth to stop it.

Some things are not easy to say as a father-in-law, and it is not a big deal to scold a few words as a mother-in-law.

However, Mrs. Shizi brought out Cheng Qing in her words, and Yang Shizi immediately interrupted her:

"Okay, isn't it shameful enough to talk about what others do in their own affairs!"

Mrs. Shizi was angry, "Adulterers and adulteresses can do ugly things, I can't say it?" I have long felt that there is a problem with the surname Cheng, the daughter-in-law of the Yang family, do you still need him to feel distressed, I think these two have long hooked up and put a big green hat on Dai Ying, and now the surname Cheng has won Huiyuan, and he is more and more dissatisfied with sneaking around with the little slut......"

"Shut up, you ignorant fool!"

Yang Shizi slapped the table fiercely, "The empty mouth and white teeth slandered his daughter-in-law for stealing people, the adulterer is still a new branch huiyuan, and you have to take a double to catch the adulterer, do you have any evidence?" There is no evidence, and there should be brains, then Cheng Qing won the Huiyuan at the age of seventeen, and now he is even five yuan, just waiting for the palace test, he has a good future, and he has to cheat with a married woman! Wait for him to be six yuan and the first, that is, he is qualified to be a concubine, only he doesn't want to be a princess, there is no reason why the princess is unwilling to marry, your daughter-in-law is a beautiful country, and you want to ask Cheng Qing to gamble on the future to cheat? ”

The noble sons of Da Wei like Princess Shang and become the master of the horse, and the wealth of the family will continue for a few years.

But the truly aspiring scholars avoided Princess Shang.

As a concubine, he does not worry about wealth and wealth, but he has no chance to contaminate the center of power, and Dawei has always been "honorable" to the concubine, and all he gives is an idle title.

Mrs. Shizi really wanted Princess Yang Daiyingshang, but unfortunately Yang Daiying was not particularly outstanding among the noble children in the capital, and no princess picked him.

It was Yang Daijie's turn, willing to hold Roujia's stinky feet, follow Roujia's instructions to do things, and whatever idea he had in his heart, the Yang family acquiesced.

As a result, the princess didn't marry, and the favored county lord didn't get it, but lost Yang Daijie's future.

Yang Shizi said that only Cheng Qing was unwilling to marry, and there was no reason why the princess was unwilling to marry Cheng Qing.

"Just him? When I haven't seen what he looks like! ”

Yang Shizi really didn't want to argue with the stupid woman, but he didn't say it clearly, and he was afraid that the stupid woman would take it upon herself to drag Cheng Qing into this matter, so he sneered at the moment:

"Useless men only need to look at their appearance, just because he will be the first Jinshi of six yuan and the first, what is so strange about the princess who likes him, you woman has long hair and short knowledge, where do you understand the meaning of six yuan and the first, shut up quickly, and then arrange the daughter-in-law to steal people, I will give you a letter of resignation!"

Mrs. Shizi was sad.

She gave birth to children for the Marquis of Changxing, managed the middle feed, and gave birth to three sons-in-law alone, but when she was old, her husband threatened to give her a letter of divorce?

Mrs. Shizi hid her face and cried bitterly, "Okay, I don't care about this matter, you just wait for that little slut to mention and leave, and wait for Dai Ying to be laughed at by people all over the capital!" ”

didn't discuss a solution, but the parents quarreled first.

Yang Daiying watched her father be furious, her mother was messing around, and she was more and more out of ideas.

He didn't want to leave, and it was not easy to find a wife of Mei Pujia's quality after leaving.

But what about discord?

asked Yang Daiying to lower his posture and beg Mei Pujia for forgiveness, but he couldn't do it.

How can a man's knee be bent!

Why isn't Pu Jia a little softer, not so serious, not so aggressive, give each other a step down, and complete the dignity and affection of husband and wife?

Yang Shizi thought about it all night, and there were many ways to stop Mei Pujia from mentioning and leaving, but they were all palliatives but not the root cause, only Mei Pujia dispelled this idea by herself, and she could stay in the Yang family in the future.

Yang Shizi felt that the key to the problem was the relationship between his son and Mei Pujia, and only Yang Daiying worked hard to make Mei Pujia reluctant to reconcile.

On the second day, Mrs. Mei re-killed the Marquis of Changxing's mansion, and Mrs. Shizi endured her anger and followed her husband's instructions, taking retreat as advance, and put forward a request that made Mrs. Mei stunned!