Chapter 876: The White Heads Are Inseparable
"Doctor, I just want to ask, my wife, can he really never remember those things after we got married?"
After a half-silence, the old woman asked very softly and calmly.
But anyone can catch a glimmer of hope in the old man's eyes.
Song Che couldn't bear to ruin this only remaining hope, and under the reminder of Xu Tianlu and Zhai Lingxiao's eyes, he said: "I can only say that it is possible, as for how likely it is, it is difficult to say, because the brain is the most complex, and the memory is also uncontrollable, we can only try to delay the further deterioration of Mr. Su Mingqiang's illness, and I hope you can understand......"
"Yes, of course I do." The old woman couldn't help nodding, and also took Song Che's hand, and said, "Thank you, little doctor, thanks to your timely reminder, otherwise we won't find the problem again, I'm afraid my wife won't even know who she is." ”
The old woman lowered her head, but Song Che could clearly find traces of wetness in her eyes......
This blow was quite big for the old woman.
Although Su Mingqiang is fine, he has forgotten about her and other children, which is about "soul death" on a certain level.
Especially the two have been together for decades, but at the end of their lives, they didn't know each other, and they were indescribably desolate and sad.
"Who said I don't know myself anymore." Su Mingqiang suddenly became excited, and said in a loud voice: "My name is Su Mingqiang, I was born in a famous scholarly family in Tianzhou, our family has been famous for three generations, my grandfather went to the Whampoa Military Academy, and several founding leaders were classmates, and my grandmother is a teacher at Soochow University." My father was one of the first mechanical engineers after the founding of the People's Republic of China, and my mother was, my mother...... Eh, I can't remember what my mother did. ”
Everyone: "......"
"Forget it, don't mention my mother, just me, I, Su Mingqiang, am the director of Tianzhou Supply and Marketing Cooperative, and a large number of leaders in Tianzhou have to count on me to distribute rice to their families!" Su Mingqiang shouted arrogantly, and patted his chest.
As a result, this shot went wrong!
"Oops, my heart!"
Su Mingqiang felt the sharp pain in the suture position in his chest, and screamed in mourning, how could he still have the demeanor of a scholarly family.
Everyone: "......"
……
Leaving the family members to take care of Su Mingqiang, Song Che and other doctors walked out of the ward.
Song Che, Zhai Lingxiao, Xu Tianlu and the others glanced at each other, and they couldn't help laughing.
"To be honest, when I first met Su Mingqiang, the old man looked very gloomy, and he was sullen and worried." Zhai Lingxiao turned his head and looked at the noisy scene inside through the door and window, crying and laughing: "But now that Su Mingqiang has lost his memory, I feel that the old man is much more relaxed and happy, like an old naughty boy." ”
"If you don't have a heart or lungs, you will naturally be carefree." Xu Tianlu couldn't help but 'gloat', "Although this kind of situation is relatively rare, it also makes sense clinically, after all, most of the so-called pseudodementia is caused by factors such as long-term depression, and the brain instinctively rejects these negative emotions and memories, so when the function is degraded and the brain capacity is insufficient, these unpleasant memories will be eliminated first." ”
Everyone understands this principle.
For example, when the capacity of the mobile phone is insufficient, the user will be reminded to make space, and the user will give priority to deleting the relatively unimportant data and information in the mobile phone first.
"It is estimated that Su Mingqiang lived a very happy and comfortable life when he was young, and he had a bit of social status, and he was quite respected and worshipped." Song Che analyzed: "It's just that the life after marriage should be unsatisfactory, the work is depressed, the family is strict with his wife, and the children are naughty and willful. ”
This analysis is deeply agreed.
In particular, these doctors are basically middle-aged social animals with similar experiences. They can empathize with Su Mingqiang's experience.
If the situation allows, give them a choice, it is estimated that many people are willing to let go of themselves without heart and lungs.
For example, one of the directors of the Department of General Surgery once left a very classic quotation in the First Affiliated Hospital: Facing the corpse in the hospital is better than going home to see the yellow-faced woman's face, at least the corpse is quiet and does not make a fuss.
"It's just that he feels sorry for his wife and children." Someone sighed.
"Only when you lose do you know that it is precious, when Su Mingqiang was healthy, their family kept making trouble, and now that there is such a situation, I can only hope that they can cherish the time they spend together as a family."
Song Che said, watching the old woman complain while wiping Su Mingqiang's body, thinking that this is about the so-called white head inseparable......
……
After dealing with this matter, Song Che and Xu Tianlu both left the inpatient building to join Xu Qiaoen's mother and daughter.
On the road, the prospective son-in-law and the prospective father-in-law still maintained a subtle and tacit silence.
But looking at the dusk and sunset, Xu Tianlu inexplicably felt a wave of emotion, and couldn't help but open the conversation: "How are you getting along with Jon?" ”
Song Che was silent for a while, and said straightforwardly: "Dean Xu, I want to marry Jon. ”
"......" Xu Tianlu's eyes widened, and he didn't know how to pick up the stubble for a while.
I deeply understood that Song Chekeng people never play cards according to common sense, and I never thought that in terms of emotional matters, this kid does not follow the Basic Law at all.
At first, he just wanted to use this topic to ask Song Che how he planned to develop his relationship with Xu Qiaoen, who knew that Song Che was so "empathetic", so he directly opened the skylight and said something bright.
"I want to marry Jon!" Song Che ignored Xu Tianlu's confused face, repeated it again, and his tone was even more firm.
Xu Tianlu precipitated his emotions for a moment and said tentatively: "You...... Got it in mind? ”
"I've been thinking about it for a long time, and it's a deliberate decision." Song Che said seriously, this time, he didn't talk nonsense, but showed the greatest sincerity in his life: "I have known Xu Qiaoen for two years, and we have all been through ups and downs, we have made clear our hearts for each other, we both want to be with each other all the time, and now I hope that Dean Xu will be fulfilled by you." ”
"I, I'm definitely perfect......" Xu Tianlu was caught off guard, and could only let the initiative turn into passivity, and he didn't know how to deal with Song Che's strong request for marriage for a while.
"You can rest assured that her name is written on the real estate certificate, and the bride price is according to the highest standards, and the dowry is not used." Song Che continued to keep his face straight.
“…… I didn't mean that, you kid, talking so seriously, it made me quite awkward. ”
Xu Tianlu smiled bitterly, considered the wording again, and said slowly: "You are a very good child, I am also very relieved that you are with Jon, and for more than two years, I have seen the experience of you and Jon, so naturally I will not doubt the relationship between you, but ......"
It's another classic twist.
Xu Tianlu pushed the glasses and muttered: "But as Jon's father, for the sake of his daughter's happiness, I have the obligation to remind you first, love can achieve love, but love often deteriorates in daily life, especially Jon is three years older than you, I am worried that after your relationship returns to flat, in the monotonous and tedious life, you can still keep your original intention all the way." ”
"Of course I believe in your sense of responsibility, but don't forget, I don't have a bad sense of responsibility, I'm also from here, and you're swearing like I did when I married Jon's. It's a pity that her mother and I once had such a grand alliance with the sea and the sea did not stand the test of life in the end, because of differences of opinion, we eventually parted ways, which also led to Jon's inner trauma. ”
Another example is Su Mingqiang just now, it can be seen that he and his wife should still be very happy and sweet when they first met, but life after marriage has gradually become boring and boring, and after having children, there are more depressions and troubles, and decades of depression. Do you think you and Jon can avoid repeating the same mistakes? ”
Song Che smiled: "Actually, when I first learned about Su Mingqiang's situation, I was a little confused about married life for a while, but when I had a consultation just now, I suddenly figured out one thing. ”
"What's the matter?"
"No matter what happens in the future, I want to be with Jon now, and we can't allow ourselves to miss each other."
Song Che said categorically: "Maybe in the future life, we will also suffer from all kinds of troubles and tests in life, but I will always remember the original intention now, even if I am old, I will gradually forget the memory, but I will bring the best memories with Dr. Xu into the coffin." ”
"You take Su Mingqiang as an example, but don't forget his wife, you all think that his wife must be very sad, but I can see that his wife is still a little relieved, because even though Su Mingqiang has forgotten most of his memories, he has not forgotten to continue to love his wife."
"The most important thing is that I am a good doctor, and I have the ability to ensure that my mind will always be clear and that I will always remember the promises and vows I made today, as well as my feelings for Dr. Xu."
Xu Tianlu looked at Song Che's clear eyes, which were still brilliant and innocent in the light of dusk, and he smiled heartily after half a ring.
"Good boy, you always talk in a set way, and you don't forget to pit me even if you marry my daughter." Xu Tianlu patted Song Che on the shoulder, and said earnestly: "Okay, I'll hand over Jon to you with confidence, and you don't need any real estate certificate and bride price, as long as you remember today's words, treat my daughter well." ”
Song Che smiled brighter: "Thank you, Dean Xu. ”
"It's still called the dean, it's time to change your tune."
"Dad."
"Dad!"
"Lao Xu!"
Song Che just shouted, and a familiar voice came from the front.
In the direction of the sunset, Xu Qiaoen's beautiful and exquisite face is blooming with a touching smile, just like when they first met.
And Xu Tianlu looked at Wen Yaxian waving at herself, and muttered with feeling: "When I met her mother for the first time in medical school, I was so innocent, but it still couldn't change her father and asked me for a sewing machine as a bride price, which emptied my salary for a whole year, and now it hurts to think about it." ”
“……”
[Author's words: I sincerely wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married~]