People who can live a good life in difficult times are like slowly playing a bad hand, and such people will be happy. People who live a good life in good times can play a good hand of cards, and it is difficult to be happy. Xie Fanghua's temperament is supple and tenacious, and the future should not be too bad.

"And I married into the Bai family, I don't know anyone, I'm so afraid."

Xie Fanghua: This is obviously a premarital phobia.

How to suggest that Xie Rumo is in trouble, does she want to say to Xie Fanghua that she should keep her heart, even if she retains her autonomy over her heart even in marriage, and always keep a position that loves herself? Don't give without reservation? No, this is not suitable for everyone.

But she has lived in the later life for 30 years, and her concept of marriage and mate selection has already been formed in the later life, and it is definitely not something that can be changed in just one or two years after coming to Da Zhou. And she estimates that even if she has been living in Da Zhou and being influenced by it, her view of marriage will not become the same as that of a native of Da Zhou, at most it will blend and achieve a balance that she can accept.

In later life, even if she enters married life, she will still maintain her ability to live alone, instead of slowly degrading in married life, and then cling to the man, pinning her joys, sorrows and sorrows on her partner. It's too insecure, and the other party will be tired.

But this kind of thinking doesn't seem to be in line with the trend of the times, and in the end, she said to Xie Fanghua, "Don't be afraid, everyone is here like this, listen to your mother's opinions or suggestions." Don't be impatient, you have a lifetime after you get married, the relationship will be handled slowly, and things will be straightened out slowly. ”

"Moreover, you remember one thing, no matter what, whether you are a daughter in the Xie family or a daughter-in-law in someone else's family, do your best and have a clear conscience. If you don't have a good time in the end, don't despair, the Xie family will always be your support. ”

The conversation between the two of them did not shy away from Xie Fangfei, and Xie Fangfei also silently kept these words in her heart, especially Xie Rumo's last sentence, she gave them a way back, which made them feel particularly confident.

Xie Fanghua took a deep breath, she lost before she won the battle, maybe in the eyes of others, her cousin's words were unlucky, but her words really spoke to her heart.

Getting married, in addition to joy, is actually rooted in the deep anxiety in her heart, after all, from one family to another family that is not related by blood, the closest connection between her and that strange family is the husband who is not familiar. Although everyone said that he was very good and a rare young talent, she was really unfamiliar with it. She will panic and be afraid, saying that the water spilled by her married daughter, she is very afraid that after she steps out on one leg, there will be no way back. I am afraid that there are thorns in front of me, so I have to go forward, and I am even more afraid that there is a cliff in front of me, but I am forced to jump down because there is no back road.

But after talking to her cousin Rumo, such a frightened thought inexplicably dissipated. Perhaps it was her words as a young master that showed that she would definitely open a door to their return for the girls of the Xie family.

When Luan Huiyin found her, they just ended the conversation. So Xie Rumo was not surprised to see Zheng Mingzhu here.

Although Zheng Mingzhu's words are true, they are too ugly, Luan Huiyin blinked, and took back the tears in her eyes, how did she act, and she couldn't allow others to ridicule her.

"I don't need to talk about it! Don't heal the scars and forget the pain, just returned to Beijing, you won't want to be sent out again, right? ”

"Also, you're about to talk about your in-laws, right? When you have time, I advise you to keep your mouth in mind and carefully get the trouble out of your mouth. ”

"You-" Zheng Mingzhu lost her honor at the housewarming banquet of the eldest princess of Xinyang last time, she was sent out of Beijing by her mother, and she couldn't spend years in the capital. Luan Huiyin didn't open the pot, deliberately making her embarrassed, "Hmph, I am kind enough to fight for you, if you don't appreciate it, forget it, I don't bother to care about your affairs." ”

After that, Zheng Mingzhu walked straight up to Xie Rumo and asked her, "Do you have any news about Shen Dongli recently?" She received a secret message that Xie Rumo and Shen Dongli were indeed very related, she hadn't seen anyone else for three months, and now she wanted to find out about him from another woman, it was really disgusting to her.

Well? Xie Rumo looked at her suspiciously, she asked Shen Dongli for news? It's funny!

Zheng Mingzhu was impatient, "Don't pretend to be stupid for me, you dare to say that you don't have a relationship with Shen Dongli and have a connection?" ”

Even if there is, what does it matter to you, Xie Rumo thought to herself, "I don't know what the county lord is talking about." "Who would admit it, as soon as it is admitted, it is a private relationship between a man and a woman. Although they have expressed their hearts to each other, in this world, the main stream still cannot be violated. Besides, she really needs to keep it a secret.

"Do you want to say it?!"

"Lord Mingzhu, I think you have paranoia, it's time to find a doctor." Xie Rumo didn't bother to break with her.

Seeing her raise her legs and want to leave, Zheng Mingzhu grabbed her, "Are you weak-hearted?" You don't want to go! ”

Xie Rumo frowned, "Let it go!" ”

"I won't let go, you tell me the news of Shen Dongli quickly, is he okay in the south, is he injured?"

Lilac and they were in a hurry, and they all surrounded them, and the people brought by Zheng Mingzhu were not to be outdone, and they followed.

Luan Huiyin, who witnessed the whole process, said angrily, "You're crazy! And you, why are you all standing, why don't you hurry up and help your county lord back? ”

Luan Huiyin's words were obviously late, and between the pulls, Zheng Mingzhu was angry, and the long-term grudge broke out, and with a push of his hand, he directly pushed Xie Rumo into the pool.

Xie Rumo is not stupid, he will also point his fists and feet, and when he is on the side, he stretches out his hand and hooks the pillar next to him to dodge, and the whole person can stand.

And Zheng Mingzhu was not so lucky, she lost the force point, due to inertia, the whole person threw herself forward, and her servant couldn't pull her, so that she fell into the pool.

Zheng Mingzhu's servants were in a hurry, calling people and trying to save people, and the scene was chaotic.

Luan Huiyin also asked the servants around her to help, and then comforted Xie Rumo, "Don't be afraid, I've been watching this matter from the side, she just did it herself, I won't let her reverse right and wrong and frame you." ”

Xie Rumo was noncommittal.

The two county lords had enough people around them, and Xie Rumo didn't let the people around her do some critical rescue work, but did some inconsequential work on the side.

Luan Huiyin thought about it and hurriedly summoned someone to invite the eldest princess of Xinyang. Zheng Mingzhu had such an accident, her Nine Emperor Aunt came over soon, thinking of her nonsense, she had a headache, she couldn't cope with such a situation, so let her mother come.