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Someone may not know why they hate themselves, is it possible to implicate others in such a thing? They will think that this thing should be impossible, in fact, it is definitely not like this, there will be such thoughts, people are often the kind of people who are more impetuous and not good at calming down and thinking, why do you say this? Because if we sink our hearts and minds to think about it, and recall the bits and pieces of our lives, we can find that this thing exists.
He only said that when a person wants to commit suicide, they may choose to end their own life, but at this time, there may be others to end and terminate their family's behavior, but they try to stop it, and when this behavior happens, it is likely to cause themselves to be injured, so that the person who originally wanted to commit suicide survived, but the person who rescued them lost his own life.
Such human tragedies happen almost every day in the world where we exist.
It's just that because we usually don't observe our surroundings carefully, or we forget it when we hear it inadvertently, it is difficult for us to think of such things, even if we don't see or have no news, but it definitely doesn't mean that such things haven't happened, and there is no time when we start to think of such things for some reason and some opportunity, maybe at that time we will feel that the world is not as simple and so easy as we imagined.
Indeed, the world has never been so beautiful, the reason why we feel that the years are quiet, it is just that someone is carrying the weight for us, each of us wants to immerse ourselves in such a dream, do not want to wake up, but what, his dream will wake up, when we should wake up, we will find that we have been deceived by ourselves in the dark, at that time we want to work hard to change the status quo, in fact, to some extent it is very difficult.
Do you realize this situation at the beginning, which will not waste any bit of opportunity in the first place, and then we will get a good reward and reward in the future life.
Otherwise, such a thing is absolutely impossible, and we will find that if we don't work hard when we are young or young, then when we are older, it will take several times or even 10 times more time and energy to fight to the same class.
If we don't purify our responsibilities and duties at a very young age, then we won't be so desperate when we grow up, you must know that many things can only be done when we are young, and it is very difficult to grow up and do it
Don't think that such a thing is alarmist, such a thing is absolutely not alarmist to some extent, only those who have it can know the profound meaning of this sentence, and those who have not experienced it and are not so impressed, it is often difficult to understand the connotation and meaning of this sentence.
If we don't know the meaning of this connotation very well, thankyou, and don't have the will to understand, and do that, then in the end we may feel very regretful, because these truths, the younger we understand, the better, because the younger we understand, the younger we can work hard, so as to accumulate more advantages, so that when we grow up, we will rarely run for such things, and feel uncomfortable.
And we will also feel that our sense of accomplishment is very good and sufficient, so there are actually advantages and no disadvantages, of course, the disadvantages are not so absolute, but in general, the benefits far outweigh the disadvantages. So this kind of thing is definitely worth trying, and definitely to try, if we don't try, when we grow up, when we should face the pressure of life, we will feel how good that kind of thing is, if we don't do that, then in the end we may only feel endless discomfort and pain.
Don't think that such things are alarmist, we can imagine the things that we don't believe in, but in the end, when we really encounter it, do we really feel regret, if we really feel regret, then this time is even more necessary for us to work hard to overcome.
Because some things happen once is enough, if it happens a few more times, there is no point, some things are experienced once, we gain experience, if we fall on the same thing and the same mistake several times, in addition to wasting time, it will not have much effect to some extent.
We must not believe in evil in the matter of spare tires, if we are too resistant, sometimes we may not resist, and the spirit is a very good thing.
It's good to be wrong things, to backward things or to resist, but if there's a kind of advanced view that is right and resistant, they are undoubtedly our loss.
Some people may find it difficult to discern whether this is beneficial to them or not, but we think about it, calm down and think about it, what we will gain and what we will lose by doing such a thing, and then the two will weigh each other, and finally come up with a result. My final result is that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, then such things can be tried, if you are only greater than a little bit of coin, then such a thing is necessary for us to carefully consider, if the force is far greater than b, then such a thing is definitely worth trying, if b is greater than the benefit, if it is far greater than the force, then at this time we need to be cautious and cautious to think about it, whether we think correctly, if the thinking is correct, But if our thinking is wrong, then we must make timely corrections and corrections.
Avoid making wrong decisions, sometimes once your decision is wrong, it will have a great impact on our future life, our life, our future is the sum of decisions again and again, but it, synthesis and decision, sometimes also divided into the degree of influence, some decisions and synthesis may have a great impact, some may have a small impact, especially in matters that have a great impact, we must make a decision after careful consideration.
Don't make a decision rashly, if we make a decision rashly, then it is very likely that the things that will lead to will not develop in the direction you expected, you must know that predicting the future and planning the future direction is a difficult thing, in such a difficult matter, if we don't put more effort into it, then it is likely to lead to results, and it will not be as you expected. It can be said that even if you don't go in the direction you expected, it doesn't matter if you don't go too badly, but how do you know that if you don't go in the direction you expected, it won't go too bad, and no one expected this thing at the beginning.
Therefore, if you want to avoid this kind of thing, then you should think more and think more, and if you think more and think more, you can avoid some risks and avoid some mistakes that should not be made, and after avoiding the error rate that should not be made, then things will slowly go towards the normality you expected.
In this case, everyone is happy, but if you don't do it, although it will make you feel a little more relaxed for the time being, but we don't know that after the temporary relaxation, we may face it. There are many unpredictable developments, in the face of such unpredictable developments, can we be calm and calm?
Obviously, this is a difficult thing to decide, and it is a huge challenge for many people, but in the face of such a huge challenge, can we overcome them?
Some people may compare themselves with this time, they think this is possible, isn't it easy to face such a thing? But we must be clear about one thing, that is, people should not be arrogant and complacent, both of which are extremes, and if they go to the extremes of these two, it is actually not very good. The best way is to find a balance between the two, this is the so-called golden mean, the golden mean is a road that has been admired by others many years ago, and this way has been demonstrated and practiced by many people, there are countless facts that show that such things and such attitudes and ideas are better, of course, this way may not be applicable to any problem, but this way is absolutely suitable for the vast majority of problems and the vast majority of attitudes towards things, but don't be too rigid, Everything is taken in the mean, although there are few things, but we need to take extreme strategies, at this time we should be decisive and decisive, but too hesitant, too hesitant, often miss the best opportunity.
Once we miss the opportunity, it is undoubtedly very difficult to find such an opportunity, politics can basically be said to be impossible, although people will encounter a lot of opportunities in this life, but many opportunities are not the same, some opportunities may only be able to meet once, once missed, it is really missed.
At that time, we were alone in our grief and regret, and it may have been too late. If we want to recover, we may have to pay a great price, such a price may not be thought of before, when we face the consequences and costs that we have not thought of suddenly, can we face them calmly?
The first time anyone in these people suddenly faces, there is no way to make people say that they can face it calmly There are two possibilities, the first is that the born calf is not afraid of tigers, and the second is that they lied, they like to be stubborn and refuse to admit the truth of some things, those things. Such people often have strong self-esteem, but such people have strong self-esteem, and they are often hard-mouthed, and when things really come to them, they will also have greater psychological pressure because their self-esteem is too strong. They also need to be able to bear more negative psychological emotions, and those optimists will really feel uncomfortable when they encounter failure and ridicule, but because they are optimistic, they can quickly relax.
It is also very quick to dissolve negative emotions, those who have strong self-esteem, then the result of the formation must be the opposite, it is said that the degree of opposite, it often depends on how strong the self-esteem is, the stronger the self-esteem of the person tends to be the greater the contrast. It also confirms a truth again.
That is, when the contrast between psychological expectations and the actual situation is greater, people's acceptance will form a very difficult to accept regardless of anyone.
This situation can be said to be suitable for all people, but there is a case, but this kind of case is very small, maybe 110,000 per 1 percent, or even one in a million.
And such people often may have certain psychological defects, so such a person will not be in a hurry to consider it to a certain extent, after all, it cannot be said that one truth is not suitable for all people, he is not the truth, this situation can also be called the truth of the truth, divided into absolute truth and relative truth Absolute truth, that is, no matter what the situation is true, and relative truth is applicable in most cases.
And this kind of relative truth is fundamentally useful for the vast majority of us, because a truth that is suitable for all people is actually some empty vernacular to some extent, and who may know it, and those absolute truths that are suitable for some people or most people may not be known to everyone at this time, and perhaps only those who have wisdom can mention it before we can be clear and understandable.
And this kind of truth is the most precious, it is absolutely precious, if we know such a real person and use the value, he is undoubtedly a very good thing for the growth of our life and for our development.
And if we know it, but we don't put in the trust and effort, then it is very likely that this situation will occur, that is, this truth is used in the next time period, and it may be known to others because of the slow passage of time, then this truth will lose its value at this time.
Therefore, we must seize the opportunity, the timing is often ignored by many people, they feel that today is too tired, leave things to tomorrow, and then tomorrow will find a phenomenon, that is, tomorrow is too tired, and then leave things to tomorrow, just like tomorrow day by day to push tomorrow. In the end, tomorrow will be tomorrow, tomorrow will be so much, and the past will come to an end! Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127