Chapter 40
"Ugh."
Hearing this, Ivan scratched his head with some embarrassment, the two of them did have differences in thinking.
However, it is not a big difference, it can only be said that everyone thinks from different angles and ways of looking at problems.
"Miss Yao Qiao, I don't think, I only represent my own opinion. I don't think that every young girl's life destiny or life pursuit is just to find a wishful husband to marry. It can only be said that in the eyes of others, most of the girls who will live very happily in the future may be because they have found their favorite Ruyi Langjun, which I can understand, of course, it is best to be happy with each other. ”
"But Ruyi Langjun is not a thing that can be found if you want to, this kind of thing depends on fate. If there is no fate, or if there is no fate, it may always be one step behind. Even if it is face-to-face, some girls may be separated from her wishful husband. Not everyone can find the right person at the right time, it's a matter of probability. ”
Ivan said that here, it seems that he has begun to talk about the matter between himself and Yao Qiao, intentionally or unintentionally.
It seems that the words that are being said now are what Ivan thinks in his heart, and he wants Yao Qiao to understand.
But when Yao Qiao heard this, she didn't think so in her heart, and it can even be said that she didn't think about it at all.
may be because the relationship between himself and Ivan has not yet begun, so Yao Qiao is just standing on his side.
"What Ivan said is part of the problem, of course, but I believe it's only limited to a few girls. At least I personally think that if I can marry my own Ruyi Langjun, it will be the happiest thing in my life, and what else can compare to this? Those who have no fate are only a minority, and I don't believe that couples leave each other because of fate. ”
"I always believe that lovers eventually become married, and the lovers here are people with their own fate. And those who say that fate is not enough, or they don't work hard enough, they haven't given anything at all, and they don't get it, so they say that fate is not enough. This kind of person is not qualified to say that fate is not enough, they are just lazy and don't want to pay. Before it is paid, it has begun to weigh the pros and cons. ”
And the other can be called the earth-shattering love of ghosts and gods, the kind of lover who wants to be with each other even when life and death are at stake. Maybe in the end, they will give up together for various reasons, the eyes of the world, the tribulations of life, the torture of diseases, the division of wars, and various reasons. ”
When Yao Qiao mentioned the word "fate", it seemed that she thought of many things at once, and her views and opinions were really not a few. For some reason, it seems that in this regard, Qiao Qiao has more say than Ivan, and she understands this very well.
At the same time, Ivan was also stunned by Yao Qiao's words, but he didn't expect this little girl to look like she was still deeply involved in the world.
actually has his own opinions and opinions on the relationship between men and women, and I have to say that Ivan underestimates her.
Ivan comforted himself in his heart, trying not to embarrass himself too much, it was just a topic of discussion.
"That."
Ivan tried to say something, but he actually had a different opinion, he was standing at a different angle than Yao Qiao's angle.
"Those young men and women who haven't worked hard or even been together are not qualified to say that they are not destined to be together. Because I think feelings have always been the beginning and fall. I don't like, and I don't want to see, a person who hasn't worked hard at all will only look at the girl he likes. He didn't even think about being together in the past, fate and the like were all nonsense. ”
"This is not called fate, this is called timidity, this is called not daring to move forward, this is only fantasizing, but will not be put into action at all. Ivan, though I don't know what you want to say, or what comes to mind to refute me. But I only have one sentence, I don't even dare to try, I only think with my brain, and those who wait and see and see again are not qualified to be called fateless, what do you think? ”
Ivan couldn't even spit out what Yao Qiao said again, but this time, he was really convinced.
Yao Qiao seemed to have invisibly spread all the questions of the two people on the table, and spit it out first.
And the things that Ivan had been thinking about and wanted to pursue before were all mentioned by Yao Qiao before and after.
It may be such a coincidence, but Ivan is still willing to believe that Yao Qiao did not mean to say it in this direction.
Ivan couldn't find a strong angle to refute Yao Qiao for a while, and his mind was empty.
At the same time, Ivan also began to think about the superficial and deep meanings of what Yao Qiao said.
When Yao Qiao finished saying this, Ivan did not answer immediately, and both of them stopped talking and were silent for a while.
It wasn't until Ivan didn't want to be silent anymore, didn't want to be afraid anymore, that his eyes cleared again and cheered up.
"I think Miss Yao Qiao is right. Many feelings have not yet begun, and all unknown risks are all imagined in their own minds and used to scare themselves. These worries and fears about the future have no practical effect at all, and the only result is that people will be timid, and they will only think about stopping at the present, and they will not think about moving forward at all. ”
But how could someone who hasn't taken the first step guess that in the future, the two will slowly get better. As long as the relationship is deep enough, it is completely possible to face any difficulties and hardships that may be encountered in the future. These are all problems that can be faced and solved together in the future, and we can't always think too far ahead. It is said that we need to think about the future, but we still have to live the present first. ”
"Sometimes, people should look at what is in front of them, not always think about what might end. People who are young next year are always thinking about what they should do when they are old in the future. This kind of reverie is good, but I don't think it's necessary. Just do what is in front of you and treat the people in front of you. Don't always give yourself excuses, and don't let yourself be full of regrets. ”
When Ivan said this, it can be said that he was a little affectionate, even if the topic may be far away, but this is not what he once was.
This is the state that Ivan will only have when facing Yao Qiao, he doesn't want to and shouldn't become the person in Yao Qiao's mouth.
The one who hasn't worked hard yet.,But only the person who said that there was no fate.,That person is not him.。。
He Ivan is not a person who is unwilling to work hard, he is willing to give it a try for the sake of Yao Qiao, regardless of success or failure.