It's easy for you to get started, but it's actually hard to manage that balance.

Because sometimes things are beyond your expectations, if everything is within your expectations, you can do it more easily, but if you don't expect it, it is actually quite difficult to do it.

Many times people have to give up one side, and then come more to complete the other side of this trade-off, in fact, it is also a kind of balance, but there is no such absolute balance, really, if you want to achieve absolute balance in a matter is very difficult, so people sometimes do not need to be so demanding of themselves, but at the same time, they can not relax their vigilance, because people are very likely to have such and such changes after relaxing their vigilance, and some changes may be very fatal.

After this fatal result, people may have a huge emotional reaction, such an emotional reaction, I believe that no one is uncomfortable, so in order to avoid such a situation, we should not relax at the same time, but also try to think deeply, rather than just taste.

This may be very simple, but many people can't do it, just like my old man, he looks back on his life and this life has too many regrets, too many balances have been broken, and he has more than enough heart but not enough strength.

But, although it is very uncomfortable to think about it every time, but at the same time it has also become a driving force for his continuous growth, even if he is now, he has struggled for decades, and still has not made much breakthrough to today's realm, but he did push him forward a lot through this motivation, and persisted for a long time, he was originally a very ordinary person, if there was less persistence, his life would be no different from an ordinary person, that is, his persistence changed him, At least to some extent, it made him less inactive than he used to be, but a little different.

It's not that he stands out, it's just that he breaks through the poorer class and takes a slight step forward.

This step seems to be very, but in fact it is also a big breakthrough, this step breakthrough many people have no way to achieve in their lifetime, maybe it's not that they don't have that ability, but they don't have that persistence, really, there are very few people who insist on perseverance, most of Rao success needs to rely on persistence, but also need to rely on luck and their own talents, these three are indispensable, this is a big thing, but sometimes, if a particular one is particularly prominent, maybe there may be a certain possibility.

No one knows how big this is likely, and sometimes one of them is particularly prominent, and if one or the other two or two or two are more prominent, and one of them is relatively backward, there is no way to succeed, because if it is too short, there is still no way to weigh too much water.

Many people don't understand this truth, there are witnesses who need to persist for this to succeed, but they don't know that if they insist on it, there is no way to achieve it if the other items are too bad, or even if they are good in other aspects, they can also persevere, but the direction is not right, and in the end, on a dead end, no matter how you go, you can't get out, because a dead end is always a dead end, and there is no way to open that dead end.

Just like 1+1 can only equal 2, it can never be equal to 3, this is the same principle.

Everyone has their own upper limit, but even the entire human race has its upper limit, and there is still no way to do the highest upper limit, some things, such as surviving in the sun for a second, don't be a second, just look at 0.1 seconds There is no way.

Because this is the limit of human beings, this is determined by the fate of nature, and it is determined by birth.

Sometimes we shouldn't completely fight against fate, because sometimes before fate, if we are too upright, it is particularly easy to burn with the times, such as when fishing with fishing, if the fish is hooked, it is impossible to pull hard, so it is very likely to break the fishing line, and the correct way should be to put it for a while, and for a while, it will be a relaxed and moderate appearance.

This is the right approach, and other methods are biased, sometimes the truth of life is contained in our daily life, if we carefully observe and think carefully, in fact, we can understand a lot of truth, after understanding this truth, we naturally do not have to take so many detours, can let themselves take a little less detours.

However, many times people are always frizzy and frizzy, always hoping that they can get the best and the most, but they neglect some opportunities around them, these opportunities are fleeting, sometimes missed is missed, just like the people you meet, sometimes you miss the right person is forever missed, and people look back for 500 years in exchange for the rubbing shoulders of this life.

The same applies to those opportunities.

Therefore, we must not be too impetuous, we must calm down and carefully observe the things around us, and we must not let those precious opportunities slip away from our eyes, otherwise it is really a pity, people are busy in this life is only 3000 days and nights, and then multiplied by 10 times.

That is almost ordinary Rao stealth, but some people have not reached such a state, but the average value, it seems that people have a long life when they sleep like this, but in fact, we think carefully about going out to sleep, go out to eat, go out to work We have very few opportunities and time, in such a limited time, if we are still alive and wasteful chatting, sometimes we really can't wait, such as seeing a solar eclipse or a total solar eclipse or some new arrivals can only be seen once in a lifetime.

Such a cherished opportunity, if I waste the bag on my body to talk, we will regret it in retrospect, others will feel sorry for us when they think about it, and if such an opportunity is given up by our enemy, it will be a very terrible thing, they will grow up when they get such an opportunity, and after they grow up, they will suppress themselves and let themselves live in a worse environment, and disputes will greatly affect their lives. In order to prevent this from happening, we must be careful not to let our guard down and relax.

Once we relax, our lives may be over, and not only our lives, but also other people related to us may be involved.

By the way, if falling in love really happens, we will find a way to forgive ourselves, and will always form a demon in our hearts, even if we choose a knot, but at the same time, our hearts are also reluctant to give up, Man did not expect that when such a scene happens, the heart may be like sitting on pins and needles, or like being cut by a knife thousands of times.

Sometimes we understand some realistic truths earlier, or think farther, deeper, only good for us, no harm, of course, such words are also biased, sometimes we think too much, too calculating, the pressure on our hearts is too heavy, sometimes too heavy pressure, for a long time let us continue to burden, may cause some mental illness.

Mental illness is sometimes more uncomfortable than physical torture, because mental illness sometimes has no way to control, that is, the more you don't want to think about a thing, you will find that the more profound it is in your mind, constantly blessing such a thing, it is difficult to eliminate and circulate, on the contrary, the physical pain is not transferred by the will, maybe you don't pay so much attention to it, as time slowly passes, it will slowly recover after numbness habits, Then the body was healed as if it had not been harmed, but the mental illness was not.

When you see a disease, the more you resist it and resist it, the more it is equivalent to imposing a constant thinking appearance in your heart, and then if you keep thinking, it will only make these unpleasant things become clearer and more profound, so that after becoming clearer and more profound, you will fall into a vicious circle, and there is no way to forget him.

The more there is no way to forget, the more there is no way to get out of that kind of implementation, only in that circle of continuous walking around, let yourself become more and more uncomfortable and feel unnecessary torture, such torture continues, there will always be a break through the defense line in our own hearts, when the defense line completely collapses, that is, we are worse than death when everyone does not want this kind of thing to happen, but this kind of thing is not accurate, and there is no way to return or it is difficult to overcome, So at the beginning, don't let this kind of thing happen, when our psychological pressure is particularly high, we must pay attention to guide him, don't let him keep his achievements in his heart for too long, so that if he continues to make achievements in action for too long, he will only swallow us up. If she completely devours a person, she is actually dead.

People who are dead in their hearts are actually slowly approaching death to some extent, which can be a state of near death.

Once you go through such a state, it will be very difficult to pull him back again, because no matter how hard the person who has half a foot in the coffin trys, there is a high chance that he will not be able to get out.

Secondly, these things, every such thing is constantly happening, they may come to me by themselves, but more people are still a kind of ignorance situation, they don't like their own development, but invisibly, it does continue to increase the possibility of this kind of thing happening, the possibility of development, it was originally in their knowledge that it could have been avoided, all this, well, can be their helplessness, but this kind of comment may be a little biased, Because some things are really not so easy to know, some things seem to be buried in the picture, but they can't be seen by looking at it simply, and only people who are engaged in that aspect or have that kind of hobby can put aside the dirt and get a glimpse of what the situation is.

Although some people don't know, but some people are really strong in their hearts, the ability is not what ordinary people can imagine, and very few people are that his psychological strength may be beyond ordinary imagination, who can afford to lose a son and daughter in old age and more things happen, even their own grandchildren have lost their traces, presumably any of these things happen to a Rao is unbearable, and this is not all, this is still a part of it is far from the most part.

If you imagine it like this, you know how much Lao Rao's father suggested, and after meeting such a child in this last time, he was extremely reluctant to leave his home in order to inevitably take a child, and asked who could appear in such a thing, it seems that he may be a little determined, but in fact, if I think about it in my heart, we find that the old man is really affectionate, because if he is really ruthless, he will stay there, In this way, it is worse for the child and worse The result may not be as good as this winter, but if he leaves, the child may grow up, he doesn't want to bury the child's future for his own selfish desires of the old bones, it is extremely selfish to do so, because he has thought about different endings, in comparison, this is the best choice, the best way to make the heart reluctant, as if a knife cut, but it's because of his deep love, even if it's extremely uncomfortable in his heart, is still resolutely made such a decision that makes him extremely heartbroken, such a decision is actually difficult to make, because the more reluctant everyone is to the relationship, the more they don't want to leave, but there is a kind of love to the highest level, that is, let go, let go may be the best thing for the other party. Such a method is not a nonsense, it is a choice that is made after careful consideration and constant comparison and comparison, and it is by no means the result of a momentary hot-headedness, without any logic, without any benefit.

In this way, this rational choice is often made after the greatest entanglement and the greatest pain, and if it is made and then implemented, it also requires a great courage, which is not something that ordinary people can accomplish.

In ordinary life, such a person is regarded by others as the kind of person who is very resolute, and it is possible for a person with a very resolute character to have such a strong ability to act. Because behind such actions is actually pain, and if you want to cover up this pain, then you need the greatest force to execute, otherwise it is absolutely impossible to do it. Please keep in mind: Lily, URL mobile version PC version, Lily free fastest update no anti-theft no anti-theft.