Chapter 73: Husband and wife have an awkward quarrel
This year was busy for Shi Xiucui, she was busy welcoming the arrival of her brother, she also met her boyfriend Guo Degui, personally sent Guo Degui to the hospital, and later asked Guo Deguang to borrow money, and she was about to become my wife Guo Shuiling's mother by mistake.
Our family is not idle here, and after my father Li Li came back, he found a lot of acquaintances and ate and drank every day. Mother Li Meiling is very disgusted by the fact that her father is always drunk. But my father always said that he was not eating and drinking, he was talking about business.
It's finally the New Year, my mother thinks that I can stop for two days, and my father also feels that it is too much to come back in the past few days, and many places are ashamed of my mother. It can be seen that on the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, my father is very attentive and busy inside and out. Mom naturally saw it in her eyes and was happy in her heart. She was happy to be idle, looking at her man with a smile. At that moment, it can be said that this woman is happy, maybe the angle of happiness is different, what my mother cares about is that the people in the family are together, and it is good to spend the New Year in peace and stability.
However, this harmonious atmosphere was broken the next day. I still remember that on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, I deliberately went to bed early, and I slept peacefully amid the overwhelming rumbling of firecrackers. I may not be naturally a big fan of buzz, just like people don't like me. I just want to provide a rare opportunity for my parents to get together. I heard my father say that after the fifth day of the new year, he will rush back to the factory in the south. He hasn't been with his mother well in the past few days when he went home, and finally has this opportunity, of course I can't give them trouble.
"Happy New Year, Mom and Dad, hurry up and give me New Year's money." On the morning of the first day of the new year, I guarded the door of my parents' room, saw them come out, and hurried to give them New Year's greetings.
"Ah, the New Year is good, the New Year is good, ask your mother for the New Year's money. I've paid all the money. "My dad looked at me and was a little impatient.
"The child has been looking forward to your coming back for more than half a year, and asked you to press the New Year's money, why are you still pushing back like this. The money has been repaid. You said you didn't give me much money when you came back. In the past few days, you have taken a lot back from me, you are good, how can you give your children no money when you drink and have money! "Mom is very angry when she says it, but in my opinion, it is a bit vexatious. It's not been a day or two since my dad came back, and I haven't seen my mom quarrel with him a few days ago. Why did you suddenly start asking for sin?
"Okay, you're right, I don't care about this with you during the New Year. Hurry up and eat, I have to pay New Year's greetings to the leader later, what's inside, you have to give me some more money. I can't go empty-handed! "Dad saw that Mom's face was not good, so he began to be cautious.
After all, my mother still prepared money for my father, and my father ate dinner, took the money, and went out to do his business.
"Dunzi, this is 200 yuan, the New Year's money that your father and I gave you." My mom came over and handed me the money.
"I'm not short of money to spend, what's the use of giving me money! I just want to be auspicious, talking about fun. Besides, with you, I'm worried that I won't have money to spend! "I wanted to refuse, but seeing that my mother was very persistent in asking me to accept the money, I could only reluctantly put the money in my pocket.
"Dunzi, I found out that your father has changed when he comes back this time, he may have someone outside." Mom's eyes were a little misty, and her eyes were full of tears.
"Mom, what's wrong with you, Dad was busier than before when he came back, and he often went out to drink, I didn't see how there was anyone outside." When I saw my mother's expression, I could only squeak.
"You're still young, you don't know some things about your dad at all, I know this very well, he is, he just became stinky and shameless." When my mother said this, her face seemed to be a little crimson.
"Then I don't know, but I guess if you're really worried about Dad. You can also go to the south with your dad to work. In that case, don't you know if he's changed or not? I'm also in school now, and I'm able to take care of myself. ”
All I know is that if I can foresee the future outcome, I won't let my mother leave home and go south. Because she doesn't leave home, I will at least have my mother with me, and I won't go from a left-behind child to a left-behind youth, and now I have become a left-behind middle-aged.
"Your dad said that, too, just because you're too young, and I really don't want to let go of my current life and go to a place I'm not familiar with. Now we have money to spend, your dad has a job, and you're still in school. Why do you have to go out? I really can't figure it out. It's better not to let your dad go to the south in the first place. Mom said worriedly.
"If I say, Mom, you'd better go with Dad. Dad needs someone to take care of him more when he is alone over there. Actually, he also wants to do something, I heard Uncle Zhang tell me what a manly man stands up to the sky or something, maybe my father thinks so too. I don't quite understand it, but I think Dad has his own reasoning! "I can only say things that I don't know much about.
"Well, then I'll ask your dad to go back and see what I can do. I can sell vegetables and farm, and I won't do anything else. I don't want your dad to be literate and can be used anywhere. Dunzi, you have to learn from your father, don't be as uneducated as me. When Mom talked about Dad, she still couldn't hide her inner feelings. From this point of view, the parents at that time were still very affectionate.
"Mom, I'm actually afraid I won't be able to learn my father's level. I'm not a smart person like someone else. Why don't you and my dad have another baby! I've heard that some people just go somewhere else to have babies secretly. How nice it would be for you to have a smart child, and I have a little brother or a little sister. "I'm telling the truth, because I know that my mother loves me, but it's hard for my dad to say, especially after eavesdropping on the conversation between Shi Xiucui and Guo Degui before, my mind is even heavier.
"You dead boy, why are you so unambitious. Why don't you learn better, look at your dad, isn't he also learning little by little to become what he is now. Your dad looked at the drawings in the middle of the night, I asked him to sleep, he didn't sleep, look at your child, who are you with? ”
"That's whatever you want!"
"Get out of here!" Although my mother scolded me, I think she was still quite happy even though she was scolding me at that time.
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My father left after the fifth day of the new year, and my mother and I still went to the train station to see him off.
"Dunzi, now I'll be honest with my father, if your mother and I go to the south to work, can you take care of yourself?" My dad said to me while my mom went shopping.
"Me, no problem, I'm in school now, and I have a lot of friends. I used to be home alone when my mother was doing business! Besides, there is Uncle Quanbao. He doesn't herd sheep now, if my mother goes to the south with you, Uncle Quan Bao can also sell vegetables! "I'm a little overwhelmed by my dad's concern, but I still want my dad to be with mom because then mom will be happy.
"Your mom told you she was going to the south with me! Actually, after we pass, when we settle down, I'll take you over. You can go to the school over there. Dad said, and I saw the joy on his face that could not be concealed.
"I feel good here, it's good for mom to go with you, don't let me go."
Before I could finish speaking, I saw my mother come over with a bag of fruit.
"What did your father and son say?" Mom asked us.
"It's nothing, it's just that my dad told me to study hard, and in the future, I will be like him in the future." I'm starting to talk nonsense again.
"Look, your dad is still very optimistic about you, and I really have to discipline you this time. I can't let you mess with your temperament," Mom continued her thoughts.
Our conversation was interrupted by a queue to enter the station as the train began to check in.
Later, I vaguely knew something about my father's presence in the South. My dad did misbehave in the south, and the other party was a woman who was nearly ten years older than my dad, so they should have had a working relationship at the beginning.
This woman also has a husband, but the husband and wife are a little far away. This woman had a purpose in approaching her dad in the first place. At first, I cared about my father's daily life, but later my father still couldn't resist it.
If you want to talk about my father, he was still very honest at the time, and he told the woman about himself, having a wife and children. But the woman also told her father that she didn't want to ruin her father's marriage, and she was looking for her father because she was lonely.
The woman helped my father a lot, so much so that later on, Let's go out to start a business alone, and the woman also came up with a lot of ideas. Especially in the matter of the divorce between my father and my mother, that woman did not play a good role.
My father and mother are divorced when I am in the third grade of elementary school. The divorce was really not proposed by my father, but my mother was taken by a Taiwanese from New Zealand at that time. This Taiwanese somehow developed a crush on his mother. He went to his father and gave his father about 400,000 yuan, saying that it was a breakup fee for his father. It just so happened that my father's small company had some financial problems at that time, coupled with the agitation behind the woman who was much older than him. In the end, they divorced.
Actually, I don't have much of a problem with my parents' divorce right now. It's just that my dad took other people's money, and I can't accept it. I think that's too ungentlemanly, and that's why I've never forgiven my dad.
Now that I think about it, it's over, and my parents are okay now. There are some things that should be taken lightly!