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I know that there are some things that we should not touch, it is better, it could not have happened, but because of our excessive attachment, some bad things have happened. To do what is undoubtedly suitable for the undesirable, we can have less, why more? And too much is not a good thing, it is just a bad thing for us.
It's almost the same if I have more good things, but in many cases, some of us like to add to the problem, I like to do things that shouldn't be done, and in the end it leads to some very unpleasant things happening, which they don't want to admit, but things happen in front of them, and others have no choice but to accept it.
Right? It could have been avoided before, but they really didn't want to see it happen, but what could they do if they didn't want to see it, if they could have realized it earlier, they would have stopped their behavior in time.
Well, I wouldn't have gotten so bad, and I wouldn't have to spend so much time and so much energy to make up for it, and planning such time on something that I need to do will probably be much better in the end.
Why is that? Many times when Ran was defeated, he recalled his actions at that time, and felt very painful and regretful, but the pain could not be returned to the past, what they could do was to face the reality, if there was no way to face the reality, then only forever immersed in their dreams, some people could wake up quickly, but more people had no way, completely sober, these things may be hidden in the heart, but they will never be forgotten. You are like someone again, forever stuck in this heart, it is impossible to help him, once it is sent out, he may be like a spring of blood and has no way to survive, but if he does not pull out a business trip, he will always be there, and the pain will always be rooted in the heart, and the way to eliminate this pain, and then pull it out, but after pulling it out, he may endanger his life, and there is no way. It's a dilemma, and a lot of people can't make a choice, somewhere in between. One is that it may have killed them, and the other is that such pain is forever rooted in the heart, and neither of the two is felt. It's so thin, and these two are also inexplicable to a certain extent. But what can my sister do, who made such a mistake they made at the beginning and leave such regrets, since it was caused by himself, there is no better way for him to do it than to reap the consequences. Even if there are other ways, it is definitely not so simple to do, because some things are not for everyone. Even if it can be completed easily, there must be extremely strict conditions, and some people may not be able to encounter such an opportunity in their lifetime, so instead of hoping for such a thing to happen, it is better not to let this kind of thing appear in their own lives in the first place
If it doesn't appear at the beginning, there will naturally not be so many things to do, and naturally there will not be so many worries.
Indeed, the best way to solve a problem is to solve it completely from the root, as long as the matter is completely solved from the root, it will be like a source of water, and it will soon dry up, which means that everything is solved perfectly.
When we are brave enough to face those things and find a way to solve them, in the end, even if there is no way to take it, but if we do our best, there will be no regrets. However, if you don't do your best and want to solve it, it will easily lead to a kind of psychology, that is, you will feel that you are useless. These will blame themselves, complain about themselves, resent themselves, and generate more and more negative emotions. The only thing that does not help to solve the problem is that it does not play any role except to increase the troubles, so why don't we do it in other ways and methods? I know that a person bears 60%, as smooth as possible before doing things, and after the incident also tries to make up for it instead of escaping, there is no end to evasion, as if some things are not something that we can escape if we want to, and if we are brave enough to face it, things may still take a turn, but if we escape, it is not allowed. Maybe it won't get better, or maybe I'll get worse. So why not choose a better way? Presumably, as long as we are a clear-eyed person, we should also know how to make decisions and how to choose, and although we do not necessarily have to be clear-eyed, we must not become completely blind, become completely blind, which means that we may do many, many things, some things are wrong, and it can make many people miserable.
In that case, why didn't we do better in the first place?
So we'd better not run away from it, because a little bit of avoidance of talking about that matter may not be solved.
It's definitely not the best way to choose, and our best choice is to do something that is more beneficial to us than something that is better for us after doing it, but it is relatively less beneficial to us.
If we are a clear-sighted person, we should know how to choose, but in fact, not everyone in this world respects people and does things rationally.
There can be a considerable part of authentic emotional affairs, a very simple thing can be proved, that is, when two people have a conflict, if you think from the most emotional perspective at this time, then the two parties should avoid, but in fact, both sides not only did not avoid, but also may make a big move, and even can't control the severity of the attack, so as to cause serious harm to one party.
So, in fact, most of us are emotional, but what we call you may not be rigorous enough, everyone has a rational side in their sensibility, most people are a mixture, is it mainly emotional or which ones? It really depends on their circumstances.
But when facing different things, each Rao approach is different, even in the face of the same thing, different time periods may have different choices.
In fact, it is understandable to some extent, because the same person may have different moods when exercising at different times, or have different views and opinions on the same thing. With the blessing of these factors, in the end, they may make a different choice.
But no matter what choice they make, it must not be a reason for them to hurt others. You must know that it is not easy for us to come to this world, since it is not easy to come to this world, why do we have to choose after that, we have better and more choices in our own recreation, and most of us can do it, even if it is too perfect to do it, but those better things can definitely be done.
It is still good for most of us to be able to do bold things, maybe our ability is limited or our ability is mediocre, but the ability of mediocre and limited ability does not necessarily have a good future. Because in this world, whether you can become more successful in the future depends more not on whether your own endowment is better, but more on your own efforts and diligence, because of the laziness at the bottom, so that everyone has not heard of the endowment at all and when it comes to fighting for the endowment, if you have enough accumulation, then at this time you can also leave those people behind.
The facts of this world are so simple, but there are many people whose eyes are not bright enough, and there is no way to see clearly, they recognize their mistakes at the beginning, and feel that their mediocrity is mediocrity, and there is no possibility of it happening, and their families have no good help, so they are destined to be an ordinary part-time worker for the rest of their lives, and then they don't want to forge ahead, and they make up their minds in their hearts, these things will be done after a while. The future will be handed over to the future time to consider this way of doing things and attitude is very negative, there is an attitude of news, and finally, probably you also wish you that we will always go to a period of use, that kind of use is something we never thought about when we were young, because when we ask a child, especially when they are young, let them do what they want to do, what they want to become, most people, either become knowledgeable scholars, or be able to be a symbol of family wealth, these ideas, These junior high schools are childhood weapons for children's internships, and in the end, not many people really realize what they say, and if they don't achieve it, is there really no way to achieve it? Or I didn't understand my true hobbies when I was young, and when I came out, it was just casual, and I didn't go through anything. Chew one's cod.
There may be some truth in this method, but when we think about it carefully, we find that this logic is not necessarily correct, because for children to come to children is simple, their time is simple, and their words must come out from the bottom of their hearts, and they feel it in their hearts, and then they may experience different opportunities and experiences, their concepts and their ideas. There is a certain shift and change, but in the end these things. It's still related to their experience, some things are not as simple as they used to be, and they don't have to care about anything, they don't have to think about anything, after all, this is the most real idea in their hearts, and they slowly grow up later, and it is also a kind of social transformation of themselves. When the time comes, it will not be so pure and simple. Therefore, the thoughts at that time were the most real, and although the thoughts in the future were sometimes more real, they were still polluted by this society, and they were not the most authentic and authentic selves. It is very difficult for a person to have the most authentic self, at this time we still have to force it, I am afraid that many times there will not be a good ending, what we should do, as much as possible, match with your own new ideas in reality, when your heart and realistic ideas are not able to do well. At this time, don't be too stubborn, if you are too stubborn, many times it will make people bruise all over the body.
This kind of injury can be avoided, what is the point of doing this, someone can hurt to make themselves more aware of themselves, but also to allow themselves to be deepened and improved. But is there actually a meaning to every injury? This sentence is obviously not necessarily, some pain can certainly bring us upliftment, but more of him may cause a big psychological shadow in our hearts, so we must weigh the pros and cons when we do things, rather than being benevolent to others, if so, it will only seem that our brains are too simple and ridiculous.
It is possible to give a gift package in front of people, and they don't come out in person, but they don't come out in person in the world, does that mean that they don't think so in their hearts? It is a very sad thing for a person to be looked down upon by others from the bottom of his bones, presumably we don't want to be such a pathetic person, but if we don't want to become such a pathetic person, it is definitely not something that can be done by thinking about it, some things need us to spend a lot of effort and university practice, to think about what to do, instead of just thinking about some things, if you just think about it, there is no way to solve it.
In the past, we could take this kind of thing as a kind of training for us, a challenge to such a grind, such a challenge, after the completion of such a challenge, when we find ourselves respected by others from the heart, at this time, really, each of us will feel happy and happy from the heart.
Because this is Rao's nature, just like people, everyone likes to be praised by others, they all like to be loved by others, but it is a very simple thing to be praised by others and liked by others, so it is not so simple. After completing such a strip, to a certain extent, we can greatly improve our sense of achievement and satisfaction, with such a sense of achievement and satisfaction, we can overcome other problems and other things, that kind of thing, one by one after we continue to overcome, our hearts will become more and more happy and happy, such a mood trend. We will become energetic to do things, we will become optimistic about life for those difficult days, even if not too optimistic, we will also feel comfortable from the heart, so when we do things with a good mood, we have fun and get twice the result with half the effort, such things are what many people can't ask for, but a good mood does have such an effect, but many people don't notice it at first. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127