Chapter 42: Mother's Teachings
Compromise, knowing that only in this way can this slightly awkward conversation be forcibly continued and ended.
"So that's the case, Miss Yao Qiao, that's because I'm too worried, I'm really embarrassed."
Ivan saw that Yao Qiao's words and the address to him had all returned to their previous appearance, which could be regarded as normal.
The main thing is to restore the title of Ivan from Childe to the previous Ivan Son, which is the most important point that Ivan heard.
At the very least, it would sound like it would make Ivan feel more comfortable, not too abrupt, suddenly uncomfortable or even worried.
You must know that this is not Ivan's usual style, although he always acts at the right time, after all, he has seen a lot of big scenes.
But when facing Yao Qiao, it will become this state, as if only a little grievance can last long.
But at least in Ivan's opinion, Yao Qiao should not be the kind of person who changes when he says he can change, and does things according to his mood and temperament.
There must have been a reason for her transformation, and Ivan even thought for a moment that Yao Qiao might have been distracted from all of a sudden before, thinking of himself as someone else. That's why there is this seemingly inexplicable change, but in fact it has an extremely deep meaning.
Ivan was just a little curious, but it was curiosity, and this curiosity would always push Ivan forward until he solved the doubt.
It drove Ivan to want to know the actual situation, this is what he wants to do, what he wants to know the truth.
It's no longer as helpless as before, always worried about this, worried about that, afraid of this, afraid of that, that's not Ivan's character.
"But I'm curious why the girl used to call me Ivan Child, but then suddenly became Childe. IMHO, such a change may not seem like a big deal to you. But I wonder what has come to mind, girl, in this very short period of time. Or is it someone in mind? Or maybe something else comes to mind? ”
"That's it."
Yao Qiao frowned at first, sure enough, what is afraid of in this world, it will always come, and it will not be able to run away.
What was even more surprising to Mi Qiao was that Ivan was unexpectedly accurate in guessing his motives, which he could guess.
Even if it's just an approximation, but in a nutshell, it's really like that, condensed into a few sentences that is completely in line with Ivan's statement.
Regardless of the chronological order, but since it came, it had to be blocked by the soldiers, and the water came to cover it, and Yao Qiao had his own way to deal with it.
I have to find a better excuse than the name of Yuan Ni Yan before, otherwise according to Ivan, who likes to break the casserole and ask in the end, and does not stop until the goal is reached, he will definitely have to ask again in the future, in order to avoid this situation, Yao Qiao felt that it was over.
"It's not a big deal, Prince Ivan. But in summary, there are some similarities with the speculation you are talking about. I just suddenly lost my mind, remembering some of the things I had done before, some of the people I had been before, and some of the things my mother had taught me before. When talking to someone older than yourself, be humble and don't call them by name. ”
"It's very rude, and I only realized it gradually. If you remember any details, that's why, from the beginning, I actually called you Ivan. Later, the word Childe was added, which would be more respectful, so he became the son of Ivan. And when I remembered my mother's words for a while, that is, in the end, I became a son again. ”
"Because I'm sixteen years old, and you're twenty, Childe, although the age difference between the two of us is only four years, it's not much. To put it bluntly, both of us have reached the age when we are about to talk about marriage. If you keep calling him by his first name, it may make other passers-by think about it. So instead of making me feel that there is some diaphragm for myself, it is better to call you directly, which is very convenient. ”
"This may sound more polite, and at this moment, there are only two of us in this place, and there are no other sons, so there is no possibility of calling the wrong person. There is only one person, then I will definitely call you Ivan Gongzi, it will be more straightforward, and it will not cause any other misunderstandings. I didn't think much about it, so I just called you a son, concise. ”
Yao Qiao said this, as if he was a little justified, this is not a matter that needs to be discussed here alone.
After all, it is reasonable and well-founded, men and women do not kiss each other, and in terms of salutation, they should be respected, at least keep a distance.
And Yao Qiao also carefully adhered to this aspect, even if she may have forgotten that she was still holding Ivan's right hand with her left hand.
"That's pretty much it, after all, it's the only way to make it look more formal, and it's not something that doesn't fit in. This is just some small ideas of mine, and it has no other meaning, and it is not to force you to call me a girl. I don't have a tendency to double standards.,Childe likes what he likes.,It's not good to be too serious.。 ”
"It's not a matter of imposing double standards, it's just a small idea of mine. I also hope that Childe you can understand, you don't need to care about these details, and you don't need to take the time to guess. It's just my personal reason, I don't have any other relationship with Prince Ivan, let alone anything else, so please bear with me. ”
It is precisely because Yao Qiao speaks very slowly, so this paragraph will sound longer and more than before.
However, this paragraph is not to be reasonable, but to explain why Yao Qiao suddenly changed her name like this.
Compared with some similar life philosophies that Yao Qiao said before, it may not seem quite in line with her age.
After all, you are still young, and it is very likely that you have only seen one side of things, and it is not comprehensive, so you only need to listen to it a little.
And this kind of purely explanatory language may be easier for Ivan to accept, and he will be more willing to accept it.
You must know that this question was asked by Ivan himself, not by Yao Qiao before or forced by Ivan to say it.
This is just a way to clarify the unilateral misunderstanding between friends, and it doesn't need to be too careful.
There is no need to pay so much attention to some small parts, as Yao Qiao said, everyone has their own family.
At the same time, this explanation at first glance gave Ivan the most intuitive feeling, that is, this thing seems to be like this.
Yao Qiao's words are also reasonable, and there is nothing to worry about, just listen to these words carefully.
After listening to it, you can probably understand what Yao Qiao wants to express, but it doesn't have any connotation and is not so profound.