Sunny May 24
Rather than having endless surgeries and watching my husband live in pain every day, I would prefer to have a healthy liver.
A liver transplant is a luxury for the average person, how much does it cost? Does your husband have the right constitution to meet the requirements for transplantation? We made an appointment for the outpatient clinic of Professor Z, a liver transplant specialist at Zhongshan Hospital, on June 1, and everything will be known on that day.
Now that my husband is in dire need of money, I think it makes sense to sell his property and use it for myself.
A two-room old house in Chongming was originally assigned to employees by the farm and was not renovated. Fortunately, it is close to the upcoming subway station, so there is a lot of room for appreciation. I went to the intermediary to inquire about it, and it can be sold for 500,000 at present. I heard from Mr. that it was rumored that Chenjiazhen had a development plan, and he bought it for investment.
For remarried people, the property is not handled carelessly, and it will also affect each other's feelings.
After getting married, my husband sold the house in Jinshan, looked at the house in the city together, and purchased the commercial and residential building in Baoshan, where we live today. When I signed the contract, Xiao Wang, a young salesman, came up to me and asked, "Mrs. Gao, do you have a property certificate with your husband's name?" But my husband designed the decoration style according to my wishes, and selected the furniture style I liked together at the "Home Expo".
Moving into the new house, I proposed to lock the property deeds and other important belongings of the two people in a drawer, and then take a key for each, and the gentleman said that he had another place to store it.
I can understand that most remarried men think that women are greedy for property. True love is only found in books and movies.
When the eldest sister and the second sister found out, they were very dissatisfied, thinking that he didn't really love me and that I shouldn't marry him. I think it's normal that remarriage is not as good as first marriage, and besides, I don't marry for the house and money.
But when dealing with my property, his actions pierced my heart deeply.
Because my house is in a better location, the house price has risen, I replaced it with a farther elevator room that is nearly twice as large as before, and my daughter gave me 100,000 yuan to decorate, and everyone praised the new house after the renovation, although it is not very big, but warm and elegant.
At first, my daughter objected to me changing the house, worried that she would be mistaken for a marital house because the date of purchase had changed.
I went to the lawyer for consultation, and the lawyer asked all the ins and outs, and then said with certainty that because the house price before and after the replacement was flat in and out, it did not involve my post-marital funds, and it was still pre-marital property. The lawyer reminded me to keep the information before and after the exchange, including the bank statement, and suggested that my husband write a written certificate that has nothing to do with the funds after the marriage, so that I can use it in the future.
The husband readily agreed, and the daughter did not insist. Half a year after my daughter moved in after the house was renovated, I went to my daughter's place to stay and talked about it. The next day, I WeChat reminded my husband that he could write a certificate to his daughter.
To my surprise, my husband asked for an additional clause that if the mother walked in front of the uncle, the daughter's house should be used by the uncle and responsible for taking care of him for the rest of his life. I suddenly felt a panic in my heart......
At night, I couldn't sleep. Some unpleasant things are like a movie. When my husband drove our mother and daughter to sign the house sales contract and go to the trading center, he would say "What am I, and my name is not on the real estate certificate......"
In order to save effort, I packed everything in the house and sold it with the house, except for a bunch of books and clothes that I was reluctant to give up and transported them to our Baoshan residence for temporary storage. I remember that it was night when I was about to finish the bag, he had a dark face, "You move down with me", after he went downstairs, I put down the items I was sorting out in my hand, picked up the key on the table, picked up the second bag of books and closed the door and went downstairs......
When I returned to open the door, I found that I had taken the wrong key, and in desperation, I called 110, and 110 said that it was not in their hands, and asked me to call the fire brigade, but 110 and the fire brigade came. The next door neighbor was not at home and couldn't get around from the balcony. The fire brigade is gone, and 110 is also preparing to leave. I was anxious, "They all said that the people were in trouble, and 110 would help solve them, and it seemed that the media reports were all fake", and when they heard this, they stopped. In the end, he promised to send a locksmith from the public security department, but stated that he would have to pay.
Tears rolled in my eyes that day, and he knew that he was up because of him, and stood aside without saying a word......
In fact, I told my husband that after my daughter got married, our old couple would retire in the original daughter's residence. Songjiang Sheshan is well greened, the air is fresh, and you can occasionally climb the mountain.
I don't understand, how could he suddenly make such a request? I am eight years younger than him, I am not sick or sick, according to the laws of nature, I should walk behind him, and vice versa, I can't say it so clearly......
Later, when my relatives, friends, and girlfriends learned that I was going to divorce and persuade them, I told them about it, and no one objected. Of course, divorce isn't just because of this......
I always vaguely felt that this was not my husband's intention, but I never understood why he had such an idea.
No matter what happened before, my greatest wish at present is to heal my husband's illness and replan our happy life in old age.
Husband, let's work together and work together!